The day after Thanksgiving is a great day to linger in bed and relax as your body recovers from that extra piece of pie you couldn’t say no to. It’s also a great day to make like a turkey and get stuffed and there’s no better dildo for those of you who like girth than Vixen Creations’ Randy.

The Randy is great for those who love a nice, thick dildo that isn’t uncomfortably long. This short and stout silicone lover will rock your world with a semi-realistic design and flared base for anal and strap on enjoyment.

Made with Vixen Creations special Vixskin finish, the dual density shaft is firm in the center and plushy soft on the outside. Silicone is body-friendly and can be washed with soap and water, or boiled to sterilize. Use only water-based lubricants with this toy for best results.

While Randy is just 6 inches long, the 2 1/8 inch wide girth will blow your mind! It’s great for solo play and absolutely perfect for strap-on sex. Plus, since it’s made out of silicone, you know that you’ll be able to enjoy this fat cock for years to come.

Click here for more toys from Vixen Creations.

Curious about strap-on sex but unsure where to start? Strap-on play is really popular, but before you dive right in and buy some toys, there are a few things you should think about. If you’re looking to play golf, it’s important to research your clubs first if you want to be successful – the same research is required if you want to set the bedroom on fire with a scorchin’ hot strap-on session!

O-Ring Harness

The first thing to consider is whether or not a dildo is compatible with the harness you want to use. There are two basic strap-on systems, the Vac-U-Lock system from Doc Johnson and O-Ring Harnesses.  I personally prefer the O-Ring system because it’s not restricted to one toy company so there’s more variety.  Of course, if you already have a Vac-U-Lock system, don’t worry because they make a wide variety of toys and I’m sure you won’t get bored any time in the near future.

With an O-Ring Harnesses, the dildo is held in place by a ring of plastic, silicone or metal ring that also determines the maximum diameter of the toy used.  If you have a harness with a 1.5 inch o-ring and a dildo with a 2 inch diameter dong, you won’t be able to use them together.  Of course, a number of rigs come with interchangeable o-rings, so you can use different size rings with different dildos.  Since I agree that variety is the spice of life, I think this is a very good thing.

The Mistress By Vixen Creations

Whether you’re thinking about getting your first harness or a seasoned cock slinger, you need a really great dildo to make the most of your strap-on sessions. While a harnesses construction, comfort and effectiveness is really important, you’re not going to maximize the pleasure if you aren’t using the right dick.

Besides size, another really important thing to think about when picking up a new cock for strap-on sex is the design.  If a dildo does not have a flared base like the Mistress pictured here, it will not work with your o-ring harness because there’s nothing to hold it in place!

Of course, you should also consider the material your dong is crafted from.  I’m guessing you’re going to be strapping, so spending a few bucks on a silicone toy that can be sterilized is a great idea.  Silicone is also phthalate-free, hypoallergenic and made to last a lifetime if properly cared for.

If you’re interested in the Vac-U-Lock system, let me tell you a little bit about that.  Doc Johnson’s patented system is known for being really secure.  You don’t have to worry about your dildo slipping out of the harness and it offers a lot of control.  The dildo and harness are connected via their unique plug.

Vac-U-Lock Kit

While the system is very secure, I will remind you once again that it is only compatible with Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock products. They offer everything from vibrating dongs, to double dildos and monster cocks, so there’s plenty of variety, but it is definitely worth thinking about if you already have a few harness compatible dildos you could incorporate into your strap-on sessions.

Finally, regardless of what kind of harness you decide on, take the time to really think about what kind of dildo you want to use and why. If you’re looking to experiment with pegging for the first time, you’re boy will probably be far more receptive if you start off with a smaller toy. If you love g-spot stimulation, make sure your toy is designed to hit that magic button. Of course, take a little time to think about your sexual well-being and choose toys that are made from quality materials.

Strap-on sex is a ton of fun and a great way to change things up in the bedroom. With a little research and an open mind, you’re in for a great time!

Scrudy by Fun Factory

Having fun with a dildo is really not a difficult thing to do.  But, having a knee shaking, earth quaking session with a dildo requires just a little more attention to details that will create a perfect experience.  Experienced sex toy aficionados will tell you that following these three simple steps will improve your dildo play and make it even more fun than you can imagine.

Step 1 – Select the dildo that accomplishes EXACTLY what you want it to do.  Many times, people select the dildo that they find most visually appealing.  That makes sense because having a dildo that is unappealing isn’t conducive to fun.  But, visual appeal only goes so far in the orgasm department.  Good looks don’t compensate for good feel, or good function.

Know what you want your dildo to stimulate, and how you want to achieve that stimulation before you make a purchase.  Do you want a dildo that fits in a strap on harness?  Do you want G-spot stimulation from a dildo you can attach to the wall while you shower?  Those two notions can’t necessarily be accomplished by the same dildo.  With this decision, you have to remember that form and function are equally important.

Step 2 – With dildos, size matters.  This may seem like an obvious statement, but many people make the mistake of buying a dildo that is either too large, or too small.  Think “just right” when you are shopping for your dildo.  Getting a dildo that is too large can be a painful experience.  Getting one that is too small will deprive you of all of the stimulation you are hoping for.

Getting a dildo that is the right size will give you a satisfying experience that you’ll enjoy over and over.

Step 3 – Maintenance is the key to long term happiness with your dildo.  Washing it before and after use (according to manufacturer’s instructions) will prolong the life of your dildo.  Proper storage is important for preventing damage, or decay.  Another part of this equation is what we call maintenance through proper usage.

Avoid using a dildo for both vaginal and anal play.  If you want both sensations, buy two and keep your body safe!  Avoid sharing dildos made from porous materials, this can lead to infection in some cases.  Also, never use a dildo for anal play that is not designed for anal play.  You don’t want things going in that you can’t get out!

Using these 3 simple steps, you can get the most from your dildo and play time.  Your play time will be more fun and your dildo will last longer.  Both of those benefits are definitely worth a tiny bit of extra care and effort!

Double Dildos are all the rage at present, thanks to innovations in designs that allow them to function well for strap on play.  Vixen is in on the act with the Nexus Maximus.  If you’re looking for high quality materials, a good design and a quality sex toy to add some extra bang to play time, you might want to give this one a try.

From Vixen:

“This large double dildo has a unique shape that promotes pleasure for both partners by functioning as a strapless strap on dildo! Made of soft, flexible silicone that warms quickly to body temperature, both ends are gently rounded for a sensational experience.

Made of pure body-friendly silicone, the Nexus Maximus dildo can be boiled to sterilize between partners or uses, making it ideal for all types of sensual play.

Nexus Maximus

The curved end is inserted into the thrusting partner, while the longer end is used for penetrating the receiving partner. The curved end also features gentle ripples in the shaft to enable better grip with the wearing partners internal muscles.

A special waterproof vibrating bullet (included) is slid into a divot in the center to deliver amazing sensations to both partners. Able to be used by partners of all genders and orientations, the Nexus Maximus is also an enjoyable sex toy for solo pleasure play, the curved end making an excellent handle for self use.”

And check out our complete line of featured products for couples for other great ideas to share the fun.

Fun Factory Bandito

I’m not trying to brag or anything, but I’ve got a lot of cocks.  Big ones, small ones – mostly silicone with glass, aluminum and steel thrown in to keep things interesting.  You probably don’t care, but hopefully this will help you to understand that it’s a big deal when I say that the Bandito is my go to dick.

This Fun Factory dildo is the whole package in my book, right down to the g-spot curve that rocks my world.  Of course, it’s made from Fun Factory’s amazingly perfect silicone, so you know it’s body safe and can be sterilized for sharing.  I’m also a huge fan of the triangular base, which makes it easy to handle and keeps it snuggly secure if I chose to strap it on.

While looks aren’t everything, I have to admit that I love the way this black bad boy looks in my hands.  I’m not a huge fan of realistic cocks and the Bandito is removed from the real thing to please this lesbo.    I love the trippy swirls of this pretty cock for how they look and feel.

I’ve had my Bandito for almost two years now and have not noticed a lick of wear and tear, despite it’s frequent deployment.  What’s even better is that I haven’t grown weary of it in the least.  Since I first got my first Bandito, I’ve fallen in and out of lust with many toys, but this one is always waiting for me to come back to it.  Plus, it’s the perfect size for me with 5.5 insertable inches and really great for g-spot stimulation.

Overall, if you’re looking for a versatile dildo that won’t get lost under the bed, I highly recommend the Bandito!

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Here’s a great product for anyone who’s curious about strapping on for the first time from Sportsheets!  Whether you’re a girl who wants to wield her own cock or a dude who’s looking to fuck endlessly, this harness and silicone dildo are a perfect intro.

The 4 way adjustable nylon straps fit 26 to 60 inch hips and this harness can accomodate dongs that are up to 1.25 inches wide.  Because it is made out of silicone, the dildo can be sterilized by boiling it or running it through the dishwasher without any soap.  Because of this, it is great for sharing and is totally phthalate-free and body safe!

Check out Sportsheet’s New Comers Strap-On Kit.

Looking for a new cock?

The economy may suck right now, but that doesn’t mean that you have to sacrifice quality when it comes to sex toys!  Tantus, an amazing company that crafts all of their dildos our of 100% platinum silicone, makes great products that are quite a bargain when compared to other high quality dongs.

This O-Ring compatible dildo is great for use with a harness and it’s slight curve and pronounced head are designed for g-spot stimulation.

Silicone is a great material because it is non-porous, phthalates-free and hypo-allergenic.  It’s easy to take care of and can be completely sterilized by boiling it for three minutes or by running it through the dishwasher on the top rack without soap.

The Acute is a great buy and one of our current featured products!

Red Rider

Give your partner an awesome ride on Sophia’s Red Rider.  A harness and dildo provide fun for you both, and you’ll like the feel of this one.

From California Exotic:

“Durable universal harness is padded for extra comfort, has fully adjustable waist and thigh straps, and comes with a removable sturdy and pliable 7″/17.78 cm slim “G” curved dong.

Accommodates most probes, and has a handy pocket for optional vibrating devices.”

The extra padding provides greater comfort, and the price for this toy is excellent, making it a great value.  And the red will stay in line with your Valentine’s Day motif.  If you’re new to strap on play, you might want to try the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit.