I have a lot to be thankful for in my life. In honor of turkey day, I thought I’d go ahead and make a list of the five sex toys that have rocked my world. This isn’t really a list of my five favorite toys today, although you’ll find a couple on here, but a list of those that have enabled my girl and I to explore new sexual realms and experience insane pleasure while bringing us closer!

The Little Flirt

1. Little Flirt – This is the first anal toy I ever used and let me just say it opened the door to all sorts of fun. It’s great for beginners because of the small size and the fact that it’s made out of silicone, so it’s safe and can be sterilized!  I feel super lucky to have started off with such an amazing toy.

2. Mia – I friggin’ love this little guy. While it’s not the most powerful vibe in the world, it’s a must have for women like me that travel a lot. It’s totally discreet, charges via the USB port on your computer and is perfect for a quick O before heading out to woo a potential client! I love having a dependable vibe that doesn’t raise too many eyebrows at airport security.

3. Under the Bed Restraints – Another item that introduced my partner and I to a whole new world of play. While we’ve moved on to more elaborate forms of restraint, we still keep these tucked under our mattress in case the mood strikes. There’s nothing like tying your girl up and teasing her until she begs for more. I recommend these to a ton of people and have never heard any complaints!

4.  Pjur Basic Lube – Lube is basically my best friend and this is the one I use the most. Of course, I have a shoe box full of lubricant for all sorts of different situations, but this is the one I rely on most often. Lube is love, my friends!

5. Ella – I love g-spot stim and this is one of my favorite toys for it. While I still think that the Pjur Wand is the ultimate g-spotter, I love this one because it’s super cheap, really well made and the design works so well with my body. I love being able to recommend a toy to my friends that will rock their world without emptying their wallets !

While I realize that there are more important thing to be thankful for like family and friends, there’s no doubt that a good sex life is part of a satisfying life! It’s actually been pretty interesting to look at my own sexual history through the toys I’ve experimented with over the years and hopefully my experiences can help others get it on!

Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit

While the recession seems to be coming to an end, lots of people are still looking for a good bargain, so I thought I would highlight some of my favorite strap-on kits available. While you can obviously buy a separate harness and dildo, you can save a little money by picking up one of these high quality kits.

The Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit from Tantus is great for those of you who are new to strap-on play and unsure where to start. My favorite thing about it is that you get two medical grade silicone cocks to grow with!

The kit features a velvet harness which is comfortable, adjustable (fits up to 60 inch hips), and machine washable. It also comes with an O-ring that can be changed for play with larger dildos as well as a pocket built in that fits a bullet vibe (included). The pocket holds the vibrator in place and allows access to the controls throughout your strap-on experience.

The Bend Over Beginner Kit has two smooth 100% silicone dildos, 7/8 x 4-1/2 and 1-1/4 x 5-1/2 so you can pace your exploration with comfort and safety.

Another great kit is the Bikini Harness and Silicone Dildo Set from Sportsheets. It’s really great for women who want to wield a cock like a bad ass femme fatale because the cut is totally cute.

If you’re looking for a comfortable harness and an quality cock, you need to take a look at the Sportsheets’ Bikini Harness and Dildo Set. The adjustable black harness is built for comfort and accomodates up to a 52 inch waist. Also included is a body safe fuchsia silicone dildo that is non-porous and phthalate-free.

The dong is five inches long, with a 1.25 inch diameter and 4 inch circumference. The harness can be used with any dildo that has a diameter of 1.25 inches.

Of course, there are a ton of other great strap-on kits out there, but these are two I think are fantastic because they are well made and both come with phthalate-free silicone cocks that are sure to last a very long time.

I have a lot of fancy sex toys, but no matter how many super expensive high tech toys I have in my arsenal, I consistently find myself reaching for the couple of really good basic dildos that I own. While bells and whistles are often nice, sometimes a girl just needs a good silicone cock.

The Sedeux Skyn Dildo is one of those basic dongs that is bound to please time and time again. It’s made out of silicone, which means it’s hypoallergenic, non-porous and phthalate-free, so you don’t have to worry about introducing your body to any harmful elements. What’s even better is that this toy can be sterilized by boiling for a few minutes, so you can feel free to share it.

The Skyn is also really great as a starter dildo, because it’s not too big, but not so small that you’ll be bored with it in a week.  It’s 6.5 inches long with a diameter of 1.25 inches, which is pretty average and something that won’t intimidate sex toy newbies.

The slight upward curve of the shaft does a nice job of stimulating either the g-spot or p-spot, depending on which one you have!  Because of the curve and size, I really like using this dildo with a harness – it’s the perfect size for a good hard pounding.

If you’re looking for a solo toy, the Skyn also has a pretty good suction base, so it’s also perfect for those of you who are looking for a hands free solo ride. I’ve got one suggestion for any new toy peeps out there who are wondering what the benefit of a suction base is – shower wall.

While this is a really basic dong, it’s definitely a good one I can recommend. While I can’t vouch for them like I can this one, Sportsheet has a whole line of Seduex dildos worth taking a peek at.

Here’s a great product for anyone who’s curious about strapping on for the first time from Sportsheets!  Whether you’re a girl who wants to wield her own cock or a dude who’s looking to fuck endlessly, this harness and silicone dildo are a perfect intro.

The 4 way adjustable nylon straps fit 26 to 60 inch hips and this harness can accomodate dongs that are up to 1.25 inches wide.  Because it is made out of silicone, the dildo can be sterilized by boiling it or running it through the dishwasher without any soap.  Because of this, it is great for sharing and is totally phthalate-free and body safe!

Check out Sportsheet’s New Comers Strap-On Kit.

While sex toys are universal and there really isn’t any such thing as a “lesbian sex toy,” there are definitely a few that have a strong following amongst girls who love girls.  Today I wanted to talk about a few toys that my friends and I have decided are really great for getting it on with girls!

1.  Fun Factory’s Share -This unique dildo is one that many of my friend’s have raved about since it was released to the masses.  The Share offers the obvious advantages of a double ended dildo for a lesbian couple without the awkward logistics issues.  I mean, this design just makes more sense.  This toy can be used with a harness for greater stability, but it’s designed to be used without one  by clenching the vaginal muscles to hold the ergonomically shaped bulb in place. While there’s  no reason a girl couldn’t take advantage of this awesome dildo to flip the tables on her man for some hot pegging action, this toy is one that has quickly found a place in the hearts of lesbians across the globe!

2. Lap Dancer - I love this dildo and harness from Sportsheets because it leads to lots of hot face to face time and is different enough from a traditional harness to keep things interesting!  Nothing is hotter than getting a lap dance while your girl gets off.  This kit comes with a silicone dildo that can be sterilized and the harness is compatible with other dongs too!

Plus lesbians love softball and the knee brace appearance reminds me of my glory days on the field!

3. Tongue Vibe – I would be remiss if I didn’t include a tongue vibe in my list of toys for my sapphic sisters!  Nothing beats lunch at the Y and this simple little toy will add a whole new dimension to oral sex. Made out of Latex free and hypo allergenic plastic, all you have to do is slip this baby over your tongue and rock your partner’s world!

Feathers are a great addition to the bedroom and the Starburst Tickler from Sportsheet is a great way to tease and turn on your lover!

One of our new featured products, this feather is well made and is perfect for driving someone crazy, especially if you take the time to tie them down first.  The entire wand is 24 inches long and the tantalizing feathers will have your partner willing to do whatever you desire.

At a little under $7, this is a great budget-friendly way to mix things up in the bedroom.  Be sure to check out the rest of Sportsheets products for more kinky fun!

Money is tight for a lot of people right now, so I’ve compiled a list of five awesome items that will enhance your sex life without breaking the bank.  Sex is one of life’s great pleasures and doesn’t cost a damn thing, but there’s always room for exploration!  Each of these five suggestions costs less than 10 dollars and is sure to kick things up a notch (Bam!) in the bedroom.

1.  Slippery Stuff.Lube is a great investment and this water-based product is one of the best bargains out there. It’s glycerin free, compatible with your favorite toys and FDA registered. How many lubes can claim that!

2. Nitrile Cock Rings. This set contains three different sizes, so you don’t have to worry about getting the wrong size. These rings are compatible with both silicone and water-based lubes and are non-porous and hypoallergenic. They also retain their rigidity and firmness, so if you take good care of them, they’ll be around for a while!

3. Condoms. I’m not going to preach about the importance of safe sex in this short post, but if you’re on the prowl you should be carrying protection.

4. Pocket Rocket Jr. OK, so this one costs $10.99, but it’s such a bargain that I had to include it for my fellow girls on the go. This powerful little vibe is perfect if you’re looking to get off quickly and is small enough to tuck into a jacket pocket!

5. Fluffer Tickler. This Sportsheets tickler is perfect for teasing your partner until they’re begging for more.

While it’s nice to splurge on a fancy vibe, there’s no reason you can’t have a lot of dirty fun on a budget!

I don’t want to come across as some lame romantic chick who thinks everyone should spend their Valentine’s Day exchanging massages, so I thought I’d offer a suggestion for those of you who are looking to add a little kink to your life.  Of course, a massage is pretty sweet and a pretty nice way to spend some quality time with a special friend, but I’d personally rather be tied up this February 14th…

To be honest, I kind of am that lame romantic chick, but that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy a little kink every once in a while.  Six years into a monogamous relationship, my girl and I need to mix things up once in a while and the Under the Bed Restraint System, one of our current featured products for couples, is the perfect way to do just that!

I love this bondage buddy because it’s super easy to set up and get down to business.  I’m not a hardcore bondage girl, so i’m reluctant to add any permanent hardware to my bedroom.  Fortunately, all you have to do is slip this under your mattress, adjust the straps and you’re all set.  It takes about five minutes to set up initially and when you’re done playing you can tuck everything under the mattress and away from prying eyes.

Overall, I found the UTB Restraint System to be well-crafted.  The cuffs are adujstable and pretty comfortable – if you’re seeking comfort!  They are secured using standard rings, so you can also upgrade the cuffs if you prefer something a little flashier.

This is a really easy way to explore bondage in the bedroom and perfect for those of you who are looking to let out your inner dom or sub!

-Sarah