Guys who have experienced an orgasm via prostate massage can tell you that a prostate massager could easily become a man’s best friend.  And women or men who know how to administer a prostate massage can easily overtake the prostate massager on that guy’s cool list.  But how do you really have fun with a prostate massage?  We have some tips to get you going.

This is the part where, being anal retentive about things, we remind you to go see a doctor and make sure your prostate is in good health before you try this.  An inflamed prostate receiving any pressure at all will definitely make your day a painful one.  Also, you don’t want to cause further injury if your prostate is not healthy.  Get a clean bill of health before you give it a go, especially if you are over 40 years old.

So we’ll start with a little information about the prostate.  From WebMD:

“The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and the penis. The prostate is just in front of the rectum. The urethra runs through the center of the prostate, from the bladder to the penis, letting urine flow out of the body.

The prostate secretes fluid that nourishes and protects sperm. During ejaculation, the prostate squeezes this fluid into the urethra, and it’s expelled with sperm as semen.

The vasa deferentia (singular: vas deferens) bring sperm from the testes to the seminal vesicles. The seminal vesicles contribute fluid to semen during ejaculation.”

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That’s the long way of saying that when you ejaculate, the prostate is intimately involved.  And, as a side note, frequent ejaculation might actually be good for your prostate.  That’s where a prostate massage can be an added treat.

Now, in some fetish play, prostate massage is used for creating ejaculation alone – or a “ruined orgasm.”  If you are into orgasm denial, that’s your ticket.  But, if like me, you kind of consider an orgasm a fun part of sex, then you might want to go for the prostate massage – masturbation combo.  Or you could even go for the mother of all orgasmic explosions with the prostate massage – perineum massage – oral sex package that will leave you as a collection of jumbled, happy nerve endings.

Here are your tips to get going.  First, start small.  Have your partner use her or his finger to gently massage the prostate.  Simple strokes along it are best for a smooth experience.  I strongly recommend a healthy dose of water based lubricant and a rubber glove for the first time.  And make sure all fingernails are neatly trimmed.  Let your partner massage your prostate while you masturbate.  This will get you comfortable with the stimulation.

Next, experiment with internal massage versus a massage of the perineum alone.  The perineum is a stretch of skin between the testicles and anus.  The perineum is directly below the prostate.  You can do a perineum massage first, if you like, but I always suggest internal first to get a feel for anal stimulation.  You may find that the perineum massage is a better way for you, but remember that the urethra runs along the perineum and some people find it uncomfortable to get that kind of massage.

After that, you might want to try out a prostate massager.  Many vibrate, some offer multiple massage points, but almost all of them function better than anything else for a great prostate massage.  Again, start small.  The last thing you want to do is start anal play with the largest sex toy you can find.

Next, always remember to pay close attention to your comfort level.  If something starts to feel uncomfortable, stop the massage.  This is important.  You can cause injury to yourself if you don’t pay close attention.

And finally, some of you have been waiting to hear how to get the best of all combos.  That’s something you and your partner will need to discover together.  Good luck and enjoy the journey!

I’ve learned a good bit about prostate massagers, and one of the most important things I’ve learned is that with these toys, angle is everything.  If you get one with angles that aren’t nearly perfect, you get none of the effect of a good prostate massage.  That’s why I’ve come to trust Aneros when it comes to prostate massagers.  They always have the perfect curves for a great massage.

The Eupho is another great Aneros product.

“The delicately shaped Eupho has a small head and thinner stem which means that it will move more than the other Aneros models. Instead of putting pressure on the entire prostate, the Eupho massages different parts depending on the man’s anal sphincter contractions.

A man experienced with our other models and/or with stronger PC sphincter muscle will be able exact precise control over the Eupho, causing it to “dance” all around the prostate for a variety of subtle to sublime sensations.

The Eupho offers an enticing, appealing shape that tingles and coaxes you slowly to new sensations and uncharted territory. The gentle curves and ergonomic design allow for gradual build-up of physical sensation to lead you to the next level. Due to its advanced design, the Eupho is best reserved for experienced users who have developed their technique.”

Check out our complete line of prostate massagers for more Aneros products.

If you enjoy prostate massage, Aneros is the company that makes the absolute best prostate massagers you can find.  The Aneros SGX is near the top of my personal list of favorite prostate massagers.  The perineum massage with this model is second to none.  We’re checking out the Aneros display at the AVN Novelty Expo today.

From Aneros:

“The SGX is a medically researched and designed device that works in harmony with your body’s own movements, redesigned along with the MGX from the original Classic model. Easy to use and fulfilling, with progressively rewarding exercises and experiences.

The SGX was originally designed for the Asian market. The insertion length of the SGX measures approximately 1/2 inch shorter (3.5 inches) than the MGX.

The SGX has a balanced head and stem. The stem features ridges that add stability when using the SGX. The P-Tab provides external prostate stimulation by massaging the perineum.”

You can also find other great play time ideas in our featured products for men.  Or, you can find out what Ginger Leigh would add to this toy for the perfect play time scenario.

Power Probe Prostate

Here’s a challenge for you: Say Power Probe Prostate three times in a row quickly. The speechless sensation you’ll begin to feel about the second time through is a good start on understanding how speechless this prostate massager will leave you. The Dr. Joel Power Probe Prostate is an amazingly powerful toy. From California Exotic:

“Pure Silicone, ergonomically shaped, powerful, 2-speed massagers with push button controls and a non-slip grip. Waterproof.

Total length is 5.5 inches with an insertable length of 4.5 inches. Requires 1 AA battery not included.”

It’s hygienic and easy to clean, powerful and fun.  You’ll love this toy.  You can also add it to your wish list of up to $1,000 worth of toys for FREE in Ginger Leigh’s Fabulous Shopping Spree!

Aneros Maximus

If you enjoy regular prostate massage, this toy is for you!  The Aneros Maximus is perfect for men who are experienced with prostate massagers. From Aneros:

“The Maximus is part of Next-Generation line which includes the Maximus and Eupho. True to its name, the Maximus provides great size for those looking for a fuller experience.

The Maximus is similar in shape to the MGX and SGX, but expanded throughout. It provides greater pressure throughout the rectum and is a little more difficult to insert due to its size.

Due to its size, the Maximus will move less than the other models for men starting out with prostate stimulation. Therefore we recommend the Maximus for men who are experienced with anal and prostate massage.”

And, you can add this to your wish list of up to $1,000 worth of toys for free in Ginger Leigh’s Fabulous Shopping Spree!

Aneros MGX

Looking for the perfect prostate massager?  We can’t say any one toy is perfect, but the Aneros MGX makes a very close pass at perfection.  From Aneros:

“Newly redesigned, the MGX is a medically researched and designed device that works in harmony with your body’s own movements. It stimulates both the prostate and the perineum in a rhythmic motion that builds up to unprecedented male orgasms. The MGX is easy to use and fulfilling for both the beginner and the expert, with progressively rewarding exercises and experiences.

The MGX is well balanced with a ribbed stem for anal canal stimulation and stability. The perineum tab provides an external prostate massage through the perineum.”

Give it one try and you’ll understand how Aneros became an industry leader in design and function.

Dr Joel Power Probe Prostate

As many readers know, we’re fans of safe, comfortable prostate massage.  And Dr. Joel Kaplan has a new prostate massager that guys are going to have to hide from their girlfriends.  It looks like a G-spot massager and it works like a dream.  From California Exotic:

“Pure Silicone, ergonomically shaped, powerful, 2-speed massagers with push button controls and a non-slip grip. Waterproof.

Total length is 5.5 inches with an insertable length of 4.5 inches. Requires 1 AA battery not included.”

With pure silicone and a perfect design, this could easily become your favorite toy.

Guys who enjoy a good prostate massage will love the Aneros MGX.  The extra stimulation can provide the basis for a powerful orgasm.  Also, the Aneros MGX can provide a great Perineum massage.

Aneros MGX

From Aneros:

“Newly redesigned, the MGX is a medically researched and designed device that works in harmony with your body’s own movements. It stimulates both the prostate and the perineum in a rhythmic motion that builds up to unprecedented male orgasms. The MGX is easy to use and fulfilling for both the beginner and the expert, with progressively rewarding exercises and experiences.

The MGX is well balanced with a ribbed stem for anal canal stimulation and stability. The perineum tab provides an external prostate massage through the perineum.”

Once you’ve found your own G-spot, guys, you’ll love play time even more!