You will need these

If you’ve read this blog for a while, you know that we are big fans of research in many subjects.  Our goal is to provide information to you that improves your understanding of sexual health and the positive benefits of healthy sexuality.  But every once in a while, we stumble across a “duh” moment from the world of science that makes us scratch our heads and ask why they even bothered.

A headline from Health Magazine led to just such an occassion this weekend.  The article was titled “When It Comes to Casual Sex, Men Aren’t so Picky.”  If ever there was a “duh” moment, there you have it.  Apparently researchers spent time and money to prove the most obvious assertion I’ve read in a while.

Here is the crux of the study:

“The 427 men were more likely than the 433 women to agree to casual sex, and the men expressed a greater desire for it than women. The study also found that the men were more likely to go out, go to the apartment, and go to bed with members of the opposite sex in all three categories of attractiveness.

Men needed to be exceptionally attractive to tempt women to consider casual sex, said Dr. Achim Schutzwohl, of the department of psychology at the University of Brunel in the U.K., and colleagues.”

Now that we’ve cleared that up, I know I’ll sleep easier.  If you’re going to engage in casual sex, remember to have your condom at the ready.  Good grief but those scientists must have been bored…

We know California Exotics has star power, but now they’re crashing the movies.  Not porn movies, they’ve gone mainstream in a feature film.  From California Exotics’ Press Release:

“As frank, honest discussion of sexual pleasure goes mainstream, California Exotic Novelties and celebrity sex therapist Dr. Laura Berman are proud to announce that the Dr. Berman Astrea 1 Vibrating Briefs makes its star-turn in the new motion picture The Ugly Truth, starring Katherine Heigl.

In a hilarious scene, Heigl’s character dons her pair of Astrea I Remote Vibrating Briefs for a night out, only to have the wireless remote control — and her fate — fall into unsuspecting hands.

Movie Stars

“This scene is one of the funniest film moments since the orgasm scene from When Harry Met Sally,” chuckles Cal Exotics President & Founder, Susan Colvin. “But the expression of pleasure on Katherine Heigl’s face is definitely true-to-life!”

Astrea I Remote Vibrating Briefs are part of the Dr. Laura Berman Intimate Basics line, from California Exotic Novelties. Available in stretch lace brief and thong designs, the attractive look of these beautiful garments inspires confidence, while the contoured, removable vibrating mechanism delivers unspeakable hands-free stimulation. The compact, full-featured remote control commands pleasure from up to 12 feet away, offering numerous possibilities for exciting play.

“The moral of the story is: don’t let the controller fall into enemy hands,” jokes Cal Exotics VP/Sales Jackie White. “With power comes responsibility!””

And a little more about Astrea:

“Add risque fun to your next date! This remote control vibrating brief provides discreet hands-free stimulation.

Designed in beautiful stretch lace, it is comfortable and sexy. Mini-remote stimulator is contoured, compact, and removable. Remote control has a 12 inch range, and allows you to receive hands-free stimulation.

Part of the Berman Center Intimate Accessories line. Products designed for women, by women to give you and your partner exactly what you need to optimize your sex life.”

You can also find a complete selection of clothing that vibrates on Sextoys.com.

Some readers will remember a question I asked earlier this week: “Who’s doing it?”  I came across research showing that diet and stress can inhibit the sex drive.  Now, Health.com has an article on 10 reasons why people are not having sex.  Many of the reasons are standard advice, but one – the first one that they list – is usually overlooked, even by me when I write about the subject.

This will make bed a good place to be

The article lists reason 1 as the bed is no longer sexy:

“We hear it over and over again: The bed should be used for sex and sleep only. So why do so many of us insist on bringing third parties—laptops, PDAs, Law & Order—into the boudoir? All that technology and distraction can cause insomnia and put a damper on your sex life. After all, it’s harder to initiate sex if your spouse is hiding behind a newspaper or glued to the TV or if your hands are busy exploring the Web rather than his body.”

That looks like great first advice.  If the bed is cluttered with work or other things, it’s hard to imagine anyone being interested in sex.  So clean off the bed as a first step to fire things up.  Better yet, put one of these into the bed to get things going with even more fun!

Strict Leather 4 Strap

You don’t have to dread the dog days of Summer, if you get a cool new dildo at a price that will keep your wallet from overheating.  We’re offering a 10% discount on your order through August 31st.  All you have to do is enter summer_savings in the offer code box at checkout!

And we did mention dildos.  Check out the Strict Leather 4 Strap Ultimate Dildo Harness:

“Very secure and adjustable, the Strict Leather 4-Strap Ultimate Dildo Harness is an attractive harness at an affordable price. The classic version of this harness has one strap in the back that covers the genital/anal cleft in g-string fashion, but this version is made with 2 straps in back that wrap around the buttocks, leaving the genitals and ass exposed.

It is adjustable in several different ways for perfect fit and dildo placement. Standard ring size is 1.75 inches in diameter, which should fit most pliable dildos from 1.5 inches to 2 inches in diameter. The rings are held in place by snaps in the leather straps. For very large or very small dildos, it is also possible to substitute different sized rings. Now made in one size that fits waist measurements from 26-40 inches.”

Use your discount to add some serious spice to your next play session with this incredible harness, or find the perfect toy for your taste in our inventory of nearly 20,000 products.

A commonly held belief, that is incorrect, is that all sex toys are designed for smaller people.  Full figured women, or BBW – if you prefer – have many options these days.  Manufacturers are quite smart and know when a market is there for products, and they fill it up with products.  So, if you don’t look like Gwyneth Paltrow, it doesn’t mean you can’t have sexy fun with your beautiful body.

Wedding Bands Babydoll

And Sextoys.com carries a full line of products specifically made for sexy, curvy people.

Think you can’t find lingerie for your sexy figure?  Think again.  Dream Girls has a complete line of lingerie that brings out the best in a full figure.  Like the Wedding Bands Babydoll:

“This lycra net babydoll night dress is pure seducing. It has a see-thru body with a small oval shaped cut out in the center of the bust and a hanging bow in the center. The dress has a flirty ruffle hem and a pearl trimmed detail back. It comes with the matching thong. Made of 90 percent nylon and 10 percent spandex.”

You can find a good selection of lingerie and even costumes designed to bring out the best in every curve.  The fact is, you’ll love the way you look in these sexy designs.

And accessories?  If you’ve ever fretted about finding the right compliment to make that outfit for the special date go from gorgeous to super sexy, we have you covered there too.

Consider the Moulin Sheer Thigh High stockings, which add ultra sexy flair.

Moulin Sheer Thigh High

“Moulin- These black sheer thigh highs come with a ravishing back seam. You can wear them with any sexy lingerie to add some spice to it, or simply wear them with any outfit to add some urban edge!

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100 percent nylon

Size: Queen”

You can find a complete listing of Lingerie, Hosiery and Costumes for curvy people here.

For the guys who are feeling left out, I have good news for you.  Manufacturers haven’t forgotten you either.  You can find a good selection of clothing in the extra large sizes, like these mesh shorts.  And you can even find great fetish wear, like this Strict Leather harness designed for the XL body.

But why stop at sexy clothing?  You’ve probably seen the vibes that are designed to fit in a thong, but you probably noticed that many were made on the tiny side.

Fantasy Panty

Well, they aren’t all that way anymore, Pipedream has joined in the celebration of curves with the Remote Control Fantasy Panty for the full figured person.

“This is one remote you will both enjoy! This discreet, waterproof bullet is quiet enough to wear the panties out on the town and no one but you and your lover will know.

Insert the bullet into the slot in the panty plug and get set for incredibly powerful vibrations. The panty holds it perfectly in place. Your lover will thrill at the thought of turning you on from across the room as you quiver with anticipation!”

Think about it, you can have the fun you may have thought was impossible only a short while ago.  We get it.  People come in all shapes and sizes, and we try to cater to each individual.  You are unique, and you deserve unique toys to spice up your play time.

I have a guess as to what you are thinking: You’re thinking that it is swell that new products are available, but what about the traditionally small minded products that will never make it into your play space, much less your imagination?  You can let go of that worry too!

The Deluxe Swing

Even Swings are being designed for fuller figures!  The older models were designed with strict weight limits that basically eliminated the idea for many people.  The Deluxe Swing made by Rachel’s Pleasures won’t limit the fun you can have.

“The Ultimate flying sex trapeze! A household must for a one-of-a-kind swinging good time. Holds up to 400 pounds with heavy duty construction. Features machine washable pieces.

The Ultimate flying sex trapeze has been improved to include a wider swing base and includes a bungee loop to allow bounce action.”

Or, if you’ve ever fantasized about strap on play, or pegging, Pipedream has the Plus Size Lovers Strap On for you:

“Finally, a real-size strap-on for full-figured women! The Plus-Size Strap-on flatters and fits women with curves, using an adjustable nylon waistband that easily accommodates up to size 48 inch hips.

A strong rubber O-ring comfortably holds the dong in place when the action heats up, while the suction-base jelly dong securely stays put. The genuine leather harness easily adjusts to fit varying sizes, making it the most versatile strap-on set on the market. Go ahead, explore your Fetish Fantasies!”

So get ready to rethink what you “know” about sex toys.  The market is headed in your curvy direction, and we’re happy to offer you a complete selection of toys and accessories to give you the fun that you deserve.  We hope you’ll take some time to browse our site and see all of the quality products that are designed for full, beautiful figures, and find the products that bring out your sexiest individual qualities.

The fun is there for the having.  All you have to do is a little shopping!