I’m a big fan of treating myself every once in a while. Sometimes that means going out for a nice sushi dinner with a great book and sometimes it means spending a little cash on a high tech vibe that I know will rock my world for years to come.
Hopefully, I’m not the only lady out there who thinks she deserves the very best! While some of these toys may seem a little pricey, I think it’s better to spend $80 on a vibe I’ll use ALL the time than a pair of boots that will sit in the back of my closet.

Today’s Top Five list features my favorite high-end vibrators and trust me when I say that every woman should own at least one!

1. Lelo’s Ina – I’ve always loved Lelo’s toys, but when they came out with this rabbit style vibe a couple of years ago, I became a fanatic. I mean, they took all of my favorite features of their older models (multi-speed, multi-function, rechargeable, and body-safe) and added a clit stimulator! To be honest, I’m surprised I’ve left the house since this arrived in the mail.

2. We Vibe II – This is my favorite couple’s toy of all time. It’s the only toy that was made to be worn during penetration and boy does it do the job. The new and improved version 2 has nine amazing vibration patterns that will rock your world. It’s rechargeable, made from silicone and, in my opinion, a must have for anyone with a vagina.

3. Synergy-better sex pleasure system – The Synergy is a massager that uses a unique oscillating action (up to 12,000 oscillations per minute) to enhance pleasure and any woman who has ever used an oscillator will tell you they are AMAZING. It’s a totally different sensation than what you get with a vibrator and I find they provide deeper, longer orgasm. Definitely worth checking out if you’re looking to splurge.

4. Naughtinano – Music fans are going to love this inventive vibe. Just plug it into your mp3 player and this toy buzzes to the beat! I will admit that you’re be disappointed if you try to use it with your favorite Sarah McLachlan cd, but a good base driven mix will rock your world! It’s fun and it’s definitely different!

5. Gigi – I love g-spot stim, so I had to include a second Lelo toy on my list. I don’t feel bad about it because they’re definitely creating some of the finest toys out there. I mean, who else is offering a year warranty on their vibes? The Gigi is curved just right to hit the special spot and when you add the vibrations, you’re in for a hell of a ride.

We love Lelo toys, so I’m really excited to announce we’re now offering one of their latest creations, Mona! Lelo is known for creating quality toys that are built to last and provider years of pleasure. This rechargeable vibe is made from medical grade silicone, so it can be sterilized and shared by wiping it down with a ten percent bleach solution.

Mona is of the sleekest and most appealing design. It is a mid-size vibrator with curves in all the right places. Her ergonomic shape offers fuller sensations than you would expect from a vibrator of her size, while her six modes of stimulation will intrigue and delight for as long as her user desires.

Also tailored for more varied G-spot and clitoral stimulation, MONA is ideal for individuals and couples wishing to take their sensuality that little bit further, while satisfying the desire for a more fulfilling experience within.

Head over to Sextoys.com to check out Mona and the rest of the amazing Lelo line.

I’m just one of the legion of ladies who LOVES porn. While there are plenty of movies I have no interest in, there are a ton of great studios created women friendly porn that is super sexy and a great way to explore your own sexuality. I can’t even begin to tell you all of the things I’ve learned about myself from watching XXX films.

I thought it would be a lot of fun to pair up some of my favorite toys with great adult movies.  Today I want to talk about G Spot Play.  For those of you who don’t know much about this hot spot for many ladies, here’s a quick break down.

The G-Spot is an area on the front wall of a woman’s vagina that becomes highly sensitive when aroused.  One easy way to find this hot spot is to to insert two fingers into your vagina while lying on your back and curl them up in a “come here” motion. The G-spot will become engorged and slightly hard when a woman is aroused. Once you know where your g-spot is, it’s time to get real about exploring and that’s where a quality toy and educational DVD come into play.

Every one is always talking about this magical spot and any woman who doesn’t know about g-spot stim definitely needs to explore a bit.  If you don’t know much about the graftenberg spot and female ejaculation, this educational dvd from Access Instructional Media is a good place to start.

New, never-before seen intervaginal photography proves the G Spot exists and what it looks like at orgasm. Hear clearly explained at last what female ejaculation really is and what it isn’t. Watch women gush – ejaculate – as their G Spot is triggered.

To go along with this DVD, let me tell you about my favorite dildo for g-spot stimulation, Lelo’s Ella. This is a relatively small toy, but it’s built perfectly for this type of play. I love the fact that it’s made out of medical grade silicone, so it can be sterilized and is phthalate-free.

For the most sustained and creative enjoyment, use her in joint play with LILY / NEA / YVA to combine clitoral pleasure and intense sensations. Beautifully smooth and seamless, ELLA is a joy to the eye as well as the body, her two individually crafted ends allowing a varied experience and a fuller exploration of the users desires.

Like all Lelo toys, the Ella comes in a really classy box that is perfect for storage.  What’s even better is that it comes with one year warranty!  I have a lot of freaking dildos and this is the one to buy if you’re looking to hit your g-spot!

While you’d be lucky to pick up either of these great items, there’s no denying that they go together!  If you’re serious about getting to know your body a little better,  picking up this duo is a great place to start!

I have a lot to be thankful for in my life. In honor of turkey day, I thought I’d go ahead and make a list of the five sex toys that have rocked my world. This isn’t really a list of my five favorite toys today, although you’ll find a couple on here, but a list of those that have enabled my girl and I to explore new sexual realms and experience insane pleasure while bringing us closer!

The Little Flirt

1. Little Flirt – This is the first anal toy I ever used and let me just say it opened the door to all sorts of fun. It’s great for beginners because of the small size and the fact that it’s made out of silicone, so it’s safe and can be sterilized!  I feel super lucky to have started off with such an amazing toy.

2. Mia – I friggin’ love this little guy. While it’s not the most powerful vibe in the world, it’s a must have for women like me that travel a lot. It’s totally discreet, charges via the USB port on your computer and is perfect for a quick O before heading out to woo a potential client! I love having a dependable vibe that doesn’t raise too many eyebrows at airport security.

3. Under the Bed Restraints – Another item that introduced my partner and I to a whole new world of play. While we’ve moved on to more elaborate forms of restraint, we still keep these tucked under our mattress in case the mood strikes. There’s nothing like tying your girl up and teasing her until she begs for more. I recommend these to a ton of people and have never heard any complaints!

4.  Pjur Basic Lube – Lube is basically my best friend and this is the one I use the most. Of course, I have a shoe box full of lubricant for all sorts of different situations, but this is the one I rely on most often. Lube is love, my friends!

5. Ella – I love g-spot stim and this is one of my favorite toys for it. While I still think that the Pjur Wand is the ultimate g-spotter, I love this one because it’s super cheap, really well made and the design works so well with my body. I love being able to recommend a toy to my friends that will rock their world without emptying their wallets !

While I realize that there are more important thing to be thankful for like family and friends, there’s no doubt that a good sex life is part of a satisfying life! It’s actually been pretty interesting to look at my own sexual history through the toys I’ve experimented with over the years and hopefully my experiences can help others get it on!

Lelo's Gigi

Monday’s post about G-Spot stimulation is a really a great primer for those of you who wonder about the magical spot touted by Dr. Grafenberg so many years ago.  While I’m no scientist, I can tell you that I love g-spot stim and most of my favorite toys are designed for it.  While all of my favorites can be found in our new G Spot Sex Toys category, I thought I’d highlight a few today and explain exactly why I love them so much!

First up is Lelo’s Gigi – the ultimate G-spot vibe in my book.  It’s curve fits my body perfectly and is sure to rock my world when inserted, but it’s also great for clitoral stimulation for those of you who prefer external toys.  Like all of my favorite toys, it’s made from a body safe material, in this case silicone, so I don’t have to worry about nasty phthalates.  If you’ve ever run turned on a vibe to find the batteries are running out of juice, you’ll also be happy to hear that the Gigi is rechargeable.  For those of you who are looking for something that doesn’t vibrate or is a little cheaper, Lelo also makes a dildo that with the same shape – The Ella.  It’s equally amazing, especially when paired with a bullet vibe!

Another toy that stimulates the g-spot that I really can’t live without is the We Vibe.  This one isn’t all about g-spot stim though – it’s innovative design manages to stimulate it and the clit during penetration.  It’s absolutely amazing and I really wish that every woman in the world would open their front door to find a package with this vibe in it on their doorsteps.  The world would be a better place.  It’s also made out of silicone and rechargeable.

Lovemoiselle's Aveline

Finally, I would be remiss to not talk about the Aveline dildo by Lovemoiselle.  This is the only ceramic toy that I own, but I will definitely look to right that wrong in the future.  The Aveline is a little heavier than a lot of my toys and as smooth as glass.  The extra weight helps to guide the angled head towards your g-spot and ceramaic is truly a divine material for penetration.  If you’re looking for a gorgeous toy that’s definitely unique, this one might be for you.

In the end, your pleasure is what’s important when it comes to picking out sex toys.  While these g-spot toys are some of my favorites, only you know what’s really going to get you off.  And regarding g-spot naysayers, I think our experts hit the nail on the head in this post:

Let’s say for the sake of discussion that someone scientifically proves that the G Spot is a myth.  If you achieve intense orgasms by stimulating the area one to three inches inside on the vagina’s upper wall, does it matter?  Learning what works for you is an art, not a science.

If you’ re interested in exploring g-spot stim, we recommend you start by checking out the cream of the crop when it comes to g-spot toys in our new For Women category.