Celebrate Valentine’s Day with X’s and Screaming O’s!

We are excited to partner up with Screaming O for Valentine’s Day, so we are giving you 20% off all Screaming O products!  While their fantastic vibrating cock rings such as The Big O and The Screaming O Plus are some of our best selling sex toys, we would like to take this time to highlight one of their newest products, The O Gee.  It is a dual purpose vibrator that can stimulate internally and externally.  It is super flexible, so you can twist and bend it any way you wish!  The Ogee is a great gift for Valentine’s Day.  I know I would love to get my hands on one!

“Twist it, flex it, bend it, love it! The Screaming O has set a new sex toy standard with the OGee Twistee multipurpose stimulator, the first of its kind featuring a flexible core that lets you customize it to touch multiple pleasure zones that fixed-form vibes can’t reach. The OGee bends at any angle to hit every nook, cranny, and crevice all at the same time!

The OGee is powered by The Screaming O’s renowned super-powerful bullet. It features three speeds of vibration operated by a simple push button. It is made of a soft silicone-based material with ridged G-spot and nubbed clitoral textures for incredible sensations.”

Give her the the gift that gives her Screaming O’s all year long!  She will love you for it.  Since we offereing such great deals, go ahead and grab a Big O or Bong O so you can both enjoy the spine tingling vibrations these great products are known for.

No matter how many fancy vibes I acquire, I’ll always have a place in my toy box for a basic bullet vibe. Sometimes a girl just needs a quick buzz and nothing gets it done like these reliable little toys! When I saw this adorable variation of one of my favorite toys, I knew I had to get my hands on one!

The MiVibe has transformed the traditional bullet into a toy that’s perfect for a night on the town, especially if you’re the daring type that isn’t afraid to make one hell of a sexy statement! The folks over at BMS Enterprises have combined fashion with form to make a cute, yet insanely handy necklace. Of course, not everyone wants to wear there vibe around their neck, but what better accessory is there for a bachelorette party or night at the local sex club.

Now for the dirty details – this black bullet comes with a matching chain that detaches whenever you desire a little buzz. It’s really simple to use, the simple push button turns it on, cycles through the three (!) speeds and then turns it off again. It’s pretty standard stuff, but a lot of bullet vibes are only one speed so this one is pretty rad. The vibe is waterproof, which is definitely an added bonus for those of you who like to get wet and wild.

One nice touch I have to mention is the fact that they included not one, but two sets of batteries. Nothing sucks more than getting a new toy and realizing you don’t have whatever power source it needs to try it out. BMS has made sure I don’t need to worry about running out of juice for a while and I really appreciate it!

This is a really fun idea that works because the bullet vibe is really nice. It’s the perfect gift for your more adventurous girlfriends or a nice treat for yourself! Even if you can’t picture yourself ever wearing something like this out where the world can see it, don’t underestimate the power of wearing something like this out underneath a sweater where only you and your partner know about it!

Learn more about the MiVibe Necklace on Sextoys.com!

And now, because it’s hilarious, a MiVibe commercial!

Nothing says Happy Holidays like a sexy gift for a loved one and we’ve recently updated our Featured Products for Couples category to help you pick out the perfect present.  Today I’m highlighting a few hot items that will make sure 2010 is a good year!

First up is this super fancy soy candle that’s sure to set the mood for all sorts of fun in the future.  Soy is a renewable resource, so it’s a great gift for your green girl or boy.  Plus it burns a lot cleaner than a typical parafin candle.  We selected the Cinnamon Bun scented candle to feature, but there are plenty of options if you have something against delicious breakfast treats!

The 14-ounce Ceduxion 100% soy candle comes in a frosted glass jar and smells delightful.

Light the candle and once the wax has melted it can be dripped over your lover and used as sensuous massage oil. Seducing all your senses!

Next up, we’ve got a gorgeous Silk Binding Sash from the amazing folks at Liberator.  I can’t think of a better gift to unwrap than my girl all done up in this beautiful ribbon!  You could even tie up your partner and then engage in a little wax play with the Ceduxion Candle I just talked about.

Slippery and cool, silk ties are a striking choice for simple bindings, like wrists together, ankles bound or wrist-to-thigh.

However, in more ornate configurations, like full-body harnesses and decorative arm bindings, silk sashes become a vivid web adorning the torso with intricate patterns and loops, like a delicate lace.

Of course, we’ve got a ton of great gift ideas if neither of these float your boat. Personally, I’m hoping Santa will bring us a Liberator Esse!

OK, boys, it’s time to think about that Christmas gift.  And if you’re lucky enough to have someone naughty in your life, you’re thinking what I’m thinking, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, sex toys for couples.  That’s right, this is the perfect season to put a little extra hot sauce in the relationship stew.  Well, first, take your finger off the mouse, and don’t click the button to complete your purchase.  That’s right, we have to put those thinking caps on for just a few minutes.

Click this picture for a good idea

Now, for our less experienced brethren, we need to spell some things out.  Trust me boys, reading this is going to spare you an awkward stare in the best case scenario, or a “What were you thinking?” question in the worst case scenario.  Here’s a little tip from your friendly testosterone based sex toy expert: What we find incredibly hot, may not always be what women find incredibly hot.

Maybe a good idea or maybe not

Take that dildo you were staring at a few minutes ago.  You might have been thinking “Wow, she’ll love this!”  That may be true, but are you willing to risk your studliness rating on it?  Think it through with me now.  If you know her sexual appetites like the back of your hand (you lucky devil), you may be perfectly alright buying that dildo.  And that’s good.  But why would you settle for good when you can have the best?

That’s right.  This year, you’re going to enhance your sex life with the tools that our spies have identified as THE most effective tools in the war against boring sex, and give her a holiday gift she’ll love.  Boring sex is perhaps the toughest opponent we men have battled since the beginning of history.  You think Genghis Khan was tough? Puh-lease.  The Mongol hordes were cupcakes compared to, “If you insist, but I really have a headache.”  You can kill a horse mounted archer.  “I’m not in the mood” is an ethereal vapor that can only be temporarily dispelled.

And boring sex has some powerful allies.  Stress, moods, misunderstandings, thoughtlessness, anger and hurrying all give boring sex their complete endorsement and support.  To fight boring sex, you must defeat this great evil’s allies.

Misunderstandings, thoughtlessness and anger can all be easily defeated.  Try being nicer.  Put your partner first sometimes.  Listen (yeah, I know, that’s one of the hard ones, but if you try it, you may actually learn something too).  Here’s a thought, make your partner dinner (or buy a really nice bring home one if you really can’t cook – learn to cook) and have it waiting for her for when she gets home from work.  Around the high-strung holidays, this is an excellent idea.

You serve it up and sit and enjoy it with her, listening to how her day went.  That’s only a first step, but you’ll be on your way. And watch her facial expression as you pay attention to what’s on HER mind, not yours.  Trust me boys, this one is a winning strategy for not just sex, but for everything.

Give her a stress reliever

Stress is an evil ally of boring sex that really takes an effort to dispel.  Try cleaning the house some, doing things that irritate her less, and doing things for her that really make her uncomfortable to do herself.  PAY ATTENTION MEN, HERE COME SOME SERIOUS TOOLS.

The next step to defeating stress is to provide an environment for her where she can totally relax.  The warriors among us know exactly how good a hot tub can feel after a hard workout or practice.  Give her the holiday gift of a luxuriant bath, and you’ll deal stress a wicked blow.  Watch her go from cranky to cozy as the hot bath filled with Kama Sutra’s Treasures of the Sea pampers her.  She’ll let that stress melt into the sea blue bath and be feeling better in short order.

Some of the young bucks among us are now asking “What does this have to do with me getting laid?”  Settle down and read on, boys, you may learn something.

Next on the holiday list to kill off some stress is a great massage.  Our spies report that nothing on earth is better for relieving stress than a good massage where it counts.  Is your partner on her feet all day?  A good foot massage is a perfect way to show her you appreciate her.  Does she have a high stress office job that keeps her under pressure?  Neck and shoulder massages, coupled with a good back massage can release all of that stress if you take your time and do it right.  Get a good massage oil and give her the attention she needs (and most likely really wants if you aren’t doing this already).

You can add to all of the relaxation with some aromatics as well.  A good candle is an excellent choice to accompany the hot bath.  The Ocean breeze scented candle would match nicely with the Treasures of the Sea. It’s all about the moment, boys.  If she can relax and enjoy the moment, stress will flow right out of her and you’ll be Mr. Hero in that moment.  Want some real fun?  Get a candle that produces massage oil like the 3 in 1 Yule Love It, which is a perfect choice for the holidays!

Everything you can do to relieve and reduce stress is one more point scored against boring sex.  Where were we on the list?  Right, moods and hurrying are left.  Here’s the thing, sometimes everyone involved wants a quickie, and there’s nothing wrong with that.  No better way to start the day than with a nice orgasm all around.

But quickies are just that, a quick moment of pleasure.  If you want the mind bending, knee rattling orgasm, you’re going to need time and the right mood.  Lucky for us, Sarah has done an extensive post on how to fight both of these enemies.  Now the smart among us are thinking “This sounds like an awful lot of work, and it isn’t what I would’ve thought, so it must be right!”  The idiots will buy a random sex toy and say “Hey honey, let’s get down for Christmas.”

Boys, invest in the gifts above this holiday season and you’ll win.  Trust me.  Focus on her, relieve stress, show some serious affection and the boring sex won’t even try to make an appearance again before Valentine’s Day, which is another great opportunity to shower her with more happiness.

Good luck, man up, and get shopping.

If you’re looking for a fun and unique gift for your lover for the coming holiday season, I have a great suggestion that’s sure to please you both!

The Adult Toybox from For Your Nymphomation is the perfect way to keep you prime your love life for 2010. If you have a trunk full of toys, it’s all you’ll need to set the mood for a night of fun and games.

Feel like a little light kink? Leave this sexy fuax leather case on the bed with a blindfold, feather tickler and handcuffs inside so there’s no doubt what you’re in the mood for! If this is your first foray into sex toys, you can include a couple of our fantastic Toys for Beginners and introduce some new tricks into your game. A a bottle of water-based lube and a pocket rocket would be a great way to start, but there are a ton of options that are great for newbies!

Of course, this case is good for every day storage and absolutely perfect for travel. No one will know what you have lined up for the evening when you check into a hotel with this stylish case full of naughty good times!