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There are a handful of items a good dom should have and one is a good solid cane. The Natural Rattan Cane from Kink Industries is an affordable tool that definitely has bite when wielded by a sure hand. The shaft is 30 inches long and smooth so it can be used to tease or punish, it’s really up to whoever is in charge!

For more fine fetish items, head over to the Kink Industries page.

I recently got my hands on a new set of handcuffs from Kinklab and I’m so in love with them that I thought I should take the time to highlight the stuff I own from this fetish company!

First up, let me tell you all about my new Kink Cuffs! They’re made from black nylon and pink leather and totally hot. I love the way they look, the way they feel and the look in my partner’s eye when I’m on my back with my hands secured to the bed.  Let me tell you, there’s no way I’m going anywhere in these restraints.

While I can’t speak about these items from personal experience, I feel like you need to know that you can pick up a matching collar, blindfold and more!

You should also check out their Wartenberg Wheel. It’s really well made and perfect for driving a lover insane!

Lightly roll over the skin for a unique sensation! The Wartenberg Pinwheel is great for sensory play and medical fantasies. This pinwheel comes with a leather sheath to hold your pinwheel when not in use. Be daring!

While I may only own a couple of items right now, I definitely see myself investing more in the future and had to share my experiences with you so far. I definitely need to get my hands on Vampire Gloves after hearing rave reviews on the interwebs about them – just another item to add to my wish list!

Whether you’re a serious player, or just looking to get a little freaky in the bedroom, you should really check out what Kinklab has to offer!

If there’s nothing you love more than the smell, sight and feel of a fine piece of leather, do we have some good news for you. We’re proud to now offer over one hundred items from Torvea, a company that’s known for it’s top-notch leather, rubber, and fur floggers, slappers, cuffs, restraints, swings, and other BDSM products.

If you’re in the market for a pair of gorgeous leather cuffs, you definitely need to take a look at what Torvea has to offer.  These 12 inch blue and Black Leather Love Cuffs hava a Locking Buckle and suede backing.  Of course, they’re available in numerous colors and three different sizes.

They also offer a pair of Heavy Duty Cuffs that are meant for those of you who are serious players and EZ Cuffs for people who are just beginning to explore BDSM.

Of course, Torvea has a lot more to offer outside of handcuffs. If you’re into CBT, you’ll definitely want to check out their version of the Gates of Hell. It even includes a D Ring at the end which is perfect for attaching a leash to! I personally have my eye on the 32 inch Suede Dragon Tail flogger.

I could go on and on, but you should probably head over to Sextoys.com and check out every thing we have to offer from this hot company – Torvea.

The recent death of David Carradine has brought up serious questions about breath play.  What is it?  Why do people do it? Can it be done safely?  I’ll try to answer these in this short post.

Breath play, or autoerotic asphyxiation, is nothing more than shutting down the oxygen flow to the brain during masturbation.  This can be done in many ways.  Some people use strangulation techniques, some people will cover the nose and mouth with hands, breasts, sitting on the face and with other props.

People do it because it can lead to a kind of euphoric state during masturbation, and it can intensify the orgasm.  It is frequently done in BDSM scenes as a type of fetish play.  The intent is only to enhance the orgasm.  It is not usually a violent act, though in role play, it may be done to simulate violent sex.

Generally, it is not safe.  Men are more likely to die during autoerotic asphyxiation.  The idea may seem intriguing, but the dangers can outweigh the rewards.  Unsupervised breath play can become lethal without the person doing it being aware that he or she is in danger.

I would advise people to avoid actual breath play.  There are ways to “pretend,” but even these can be dangerous if unsupervised.  So your best bet is to avoid breath play.  A euphoric orgasm isn’t worth the ultimate price – your life.