I recently got my hands on a new set of handcuffs from Kinklab and I’m so in love with them that I thought I should take the time to highlight the stuff I own from this fetish company!

First up, let me tell you all about my new Kink Cuffs! They’re made from black nylon and pink leather and totally hot. I love the way they look, the way they feel and the look in my partner’s eye when I’m on my back with my hands secured to the bed.  Let me tell you, there’s no way I’m going anywhere in these restraints.

While I can’t speak about these items from personal experience, I feel like you need to know that you can pick up a matching collar, blindfold and more!

You should also check out their Wartenberg Wheel. It’s really well made and perfect for driving a lover insane!

Lightly roll over the skin for a unique sensation! The Wartenberg Pinwheel is great for sensory play and medical fantasies. This pinwheel comes with a leather sheath to hold your pinwheel when not in use. Be daring!

While I may only own a couple of items right now, I definitely see myself investing more in the future and had to share my experiences with you so far. I definitely need to get my hands on Vampire Gloves after hearing rave reviews on the interwebs about them – just another item to add to my wish list!

Whether you’re a serious player, or just looking to get a little freaky in the bedroom, you should really check out what Kinklab has to offer!

Do you ever wish that everyone would just be quiet for a little bit? If you’re looking to silence your partner, may I suggest one of our many ball gags? Whether you’re looking for something for beginners, or for a new treat for your favorite puppy, you’ll find the perfect gag.

First up, let’s start with something for all of those innocent newbies out there. The Beginner Ball Gag from Tantus is the perfect choice if you’re looking for a place to start. While it was designed with beginners in mind, it’s made to last and is something you can enjoy for years to come.

Because silicone is tasteless and odorless, it is ideal for insertion in the mouth. The Beginner Ball Gag is the perfect choice because the outer mouth piece is contoured to fit comfortably (it’s original shape is based on an infant pacifier). The straps are leather that can snap off so you can wash the silicone: it’s boilable, bleachable in a 10% solution and dishwasher safe. Velcro closures on the straps allow for maximum adjustment for head size and ease of fitting.

Of course, if you’re looking for simple, this Ball Gag may be just the item you need to command the respect you deserve.  There are no bells or whistles, just a simple gag to keep your noisy sub in line.

This 1 inch Ball Gag is just big enough to keep most subs quiet. The sturdy Ball is only 1 inch for smaller mouths. The gag is held securely in place with a black strap.

These gags are designed with safety in mind. Simply un-snap and the ball can be easily removed. You can change out the balls without the need to replace the straps.

These ball gags fit from 13 1/2″ to 21″ sized heads. The straps are designed to go under the base of the skull on the back and around to the mouth.

Finally, I have to highlight this hot Dog Bone Bit Gag – it’s perfect for training your new puppy slave.

This 4 1/2in Dog Bone shaped Gag has a leather head strap with buckle to hold it firmly in place. Made of hard rubber, this gag is sturdy enough for even the most difficult pets.

These gags are made with safety in mind. Just unsnap and the bone can be removed, you can change the balls without replacing the straps.

Our small gag fits from 13 1/2″ to 21″ the straps are designed to go under the base of the skull on the back and around to the mouth.

While I’ll avoid making any jokes about giving a dog a bone, I bet there are plenty of people out there just dying to add this one to the mix!

Of course, I will remind you to never leave your partner unattended while wearing a ball gag. Air flow restriction can lead to asphyxiation and that’s no fun for anyone.

Be sure to check out our full selection of Gags for Fetish Play on Sextoys.com!

A new adult play experiment

You and your partner have decided to try something new.  The same old things aren’t lighting the fires anymore.  You want to try out some erotic bondage.  That’s a great choice for fetish play, and easy enough to do.  But you have to take the time to educate yourself about the ins, outs, do’s and don’ts of erotic bondage to make sure that you get the most from your experience.

Before you start checking the bedposts for strength, you and your partner need to sit down for a quick chat.  A good understanding of each partner’s boundaries is essential to safe bondage play.  You’ll also want a safe word to avoid confusion.  Sometimes fantasies come with a need for the word “No” when a partner doesn’t need it.  A safe word is a totally unrelated word to the scene.

I’ve even heard the word apple used as a safe word.  For a complete discussion, you can see our previous post on the subject.  Once you have the boundaries and structure in place psychologically for safe play, now you can get to the physical aspects.

Be careful and use the right tools

What kind of bondage do you want to try?  A sexy, artistic and non-threatening choice is to use a silk binding sash.  This sort of play highlights the beauty of your partner’s body, without being restrictive in any meaningful way.  This is true light psychological play at it’s finest.

If you want to try a more restrictive style, be careful.  Running down to the hardware store and picking up 300 feet of nylon rope and some ceiling hooks only looks like a good idea to a beginner.  This method gets a rope burned partner and a trip back to boring sex.  Start simply.

Simple cotton rope can be erotic, restrictive and completely safe.  But before you get into tying your partner up, read.  Study the best and safest methods for bondage.  Two Knotty Boys produce a great guide for beginners.

Or you can watch as professional Nina Hartley lays out the basics in Nina Hartley’s Guide to Erotic Bondage.  This DVD has all of the pointers that help you to avoid common mistakes that beginners often make, and how to get the most out of your erotic bondage play.

You can even now get ready made bondage gear that requires nothing more than the manipulation of a velcro strap.  Under the Bed Restraints by SportSheets are a great option for beginners who want to experiment with the sensations, without too much effort.

And finally, don’t be afraid to experiment with adding other imaginative ideas to your erotic bondage play.  You never know what you might like, and with the safety in place up front, you can find all new ways to have fun!

Time to get in touch with your naughty side

Tick. Tick. Tick.  Your time is running out to get awesome fetish sex toys, costumes and adult party fare for your Halloween celebration!  As we previously mentioned, you want a memorable and fun Halloween party.  You don’t want to become a victim of Lame Party Syndrome.  And even if your Halloween celebration will be limited to you and your partner, having the perfect sex toys are a great way to add spice to the celebration.

Up until now, we’ve shown you the lighter side of Halloween fun.  But some of you – the really lucky ones – like to have a little more wicked fun.  That’s where we can help you with our great selection of Fetish Sex Toys.  So get in touch with your naughty side for some wild fetish fun.

Now, we should mention that you’ll need to bring your imagination along for this trip.  The naughtier you feel, the more fun you’ll have.  Whether it is getting the perfect wicked look for a night out, being a little too “tied up” to make the party, giving your partner a Halloween spanking, or, if you really engage your imagination, taking the whole costume idea to a whole new level with some true BDSM role play.  The REALLY imaginative might even want to open their own Halloween dungeon.

That’s right, the only limits you have are the limits of your imagination!

Let’s start with that wicked look for a night out.  If you’ve picked your costume, you’ll want to accessorize to get your own unique look.  Check out these Eyelash Spike Goggles for that wicked look you want.

Eyelash Spike Goggles

From Axovus:

“Axovus Eyelash Spike Goggles are uber cool goggles! One size fits all, fully adjustable head strap and bridge chain, these uber cool goggles feature six 1 1/4″ claw spikes.

These goggles also feature removable 50mm lenses, comes standard with smoke colored lens, red, blue and 3D lenses available.”

And if you like the spiked look, you can move it down to your wrists with the intense Bolts and Spikes Gauntlet, which is probably the most hard core product for accessories we have in stock.  Toss in a Spiked Collar and you’ll have the Axovus trinity of awesomeness for the complete, sexually charged and dominating fetish look.

But you don’t have to go out to have a good time on Halloween.  It’s true.  Some of you like to be a little too “tied up” to make the party.  We like you.  We want to help you have every possible excuse, from the tightest to most erotic, to skip out on the song and dance and go straight for the squirm!

And for those of you who like this idea, we start with a good old fashioned Halloween Hog Tie!

Perverted Halloween wishes to you and yours

“The First and only HOG TIE that allows full access to all of your partners most intimate areas. Just Lock the wrist and ankles to the thighs and enjoy the journey…”

We like people who enjoy the hard core.  Shoot, WE like the hard core.  Find the hard core restraints to keep you tied up in our Restraints category.

Get things really hot with these

We apologize.  Was that not hard core enough for you?  If so, you’re our kind of fetish fanatic.  So you want something a little more intense?

How about a gag?  Should we throw in some nipple clamps?  What if we combined the gag and nipple clamps?  Are you warming up to the idea?

The Fetish Fantasy O-ring with Nipple Clamps is just what you need!

“Open WIDE!

Get your lover to open wide and say AHHH with this naughty O-Ring Gag with Nipple Clamps. The gag consists of a small metal O-ring wrapped in leather, connected to two sturdy leather straps.

Two chained nipple clamps keep your nipples perky, and the coated clamps easily adjust to fit your desired tension. The leather straps adjust to fit most sizes, pulling the ring tight and keeping the mouth open wide. You’re in control over when and how often your lover speaks…what you do next is up to you!

Free mask included.”

Some of you want to mix your costume fun with some serious, real life role play.  Time for a master and slave, yeah?  Maybe your man needs a strong dominatrix.  Maybe your WOMAN needs a strong dominatrix.  Maybe you want to take your captive to the dungeon!

We have a variety of choices that let you play the way you want.  With Cock and Ball Toys and Chastity Devices, you can get him under control.  Take her to the dungeon for a spanking, or for some intense breast play.  You can collar your slave and make him wear a hood or blindfold.

You can even play doctor for Halloween

We think you’re getting the idea.  With our selection of Fetish Sex Toys, you can get in touch with the wicked within and turn your Halloween celebration into the naughtiest fun you can imagine.  Whether you want an explosive orgasm, or you want to deny your slave his, we have everything you need.

Make sure to get your fetish gear soon, or you won’t have it for the holiday!  Happy Halloween, and be careful with his package when you play hard, you might want it around later!

Dull, dull, dull, dull; your adult play time has fallen into a rut and it can’t get up.  You want to have some fun, but you’re not sure where to begin.  You could experiment with new kinds of sexual activity.  You could even throw in some kinky fun.  But the kinky thing does concern you a bit.  After all, you aren’t ready for a stockade, shackles, a spreader bar and a bull whip.

Those who want a whip should click this picture

Going back to our largest sex organ – the brain – we can figure out that our adventurous new sex life needs a little fantasy.  Throwing in a few light bondage toys can bring the fantasy to life without pain, discomfort or too much intensity.

First, what’s the deal with bondage?  Bondage in the usual sense is a part of dominance and submission play.  A submissive agrees to being bound, strictly for the dominant’s pleasure.  But as a part of adult fantasy play, bondage can allow you to explore all kinds of scenarios.

Maybe you want your partner to become the marauding pirate who ties you up and ravishes you.  Or, your partner can be the stranger who seduced you.  Or maybe you could even submit to bondage to excite your partner and show her or him who the boss really is!

Whatever your pleasure, a wide variety of light bondage equipment is available to turn your fantasy into an erotic, exciting adventure.  And when most people think of bondage, the first thing that comes to mind is handcuffs.  Regular metal handcuffs can be dreadfully uncomfortable.  So, why not get some comfortable cuffs for fantasy play?

Zebra Fur Handcuffs

The Zebra Fur Handcuffs are a great option for fun light bondage:

“Get your funky fetish fix with these zebra print fur handcuffs. These padded cuffs won’t irritate your skin with the feel of cold steel, but they’ll keep you in your place, locked up!

Equipped with a quick release mechanism, these cuffs let you off the hook fast when play time is up. They also come with two separate keys, good for accidents and forgetful moments when one key might be lost.”

Handcuffs are only the beginning of the adult play opportunities.  You might want to consider just how kinky you’d like things to get.  If you’re feeling really adventurous, you could try some other ideas.  Bondage Kits are an easy way to get maximum usage of your fantasy imagination.

Why not take your cue from a star? Belladonna’s Bondage Kit is a great choice for people who want to experiment:

“When Belladonna goes out, she goes out in style!!! Presenting Belladonna’s special adventure kit. With real leather, adjustable buckles and the quality construction Doc Johnson is famous for. Get your kit today and see how Belladonna rolls.

Kit includes: Pink leather cuffs with adjustable buckles. Soft ball-gag with adjustable leather strap, Pink G-spot vibe (Waterproof, velvet-touch.)”

One of the reasons we chose to show you this product is because it includes a vibrator.  Don’t forget your old reliables when you are experimenting!

The idea is to get your adult play time into new and exciting fantasies.  The more adventurous can check out our complete fetish sex toy selection.  But if you’re new to fetish play, light bondage toys can add a new thrill to your sex life.  Go ahead, get tied up and enjoy!

Thank you, Dr. Wartenburg!  This kinky tool was originally designed to test nerve reactions, but like so many other objects, pervs like me have adapted it for our own pleasure.  You’re going to love the amazing tickling feeling running a Wartenburg Wheel lightly across your skin creates.  If you’re looking for a little pain with your pleasure, just apply more pressure!  The pins are sharp enough to be felt, but won’t break the skin unless excessive pressure is used.

For more exciting ways to drive your partner crazy, check out the rest of our Featured Products for Couples.

If you’re seriously into leather, you definitely need to take a look at our offerings from Strict Leather.  All of their gear is well constructed and made of high quality leather.

They’ve got every thing from premium floggers to strap on harnesses to locking leather slave hoods and they’re all top of the line.

Whether you’re just looking for a pair of quality cuffs that are sure to keep a sub in their place or are a big time player in the scene, you’re sure to be amazed with the fine gear the brilliant minds at Strict Leather have created.

Every once in a while in this business, we get to see something that throws us a curveball.  Many times it’s in our fetish category, where we see things that make us wonder whose creative mind was thinking what when he or she came up with the idea.  But fetish wear tends toward the impractical, and the Bolts and Spikes Gauntlet is not a practical accessory at all. Though, I must admit, it sure looks cool to wear!

From Axovus:

“Now this is how you make a statement!

This gauntlet just SCREAMS METAL!

Spiked with 59 – 1/2 inch nickle plated brass tree spikes and stainless steel nuts and screws. These leather gauntlets are laced for maximum adjustability.

Another great Fetish accessory by Axovus.

Main piece is 8 high; and fits approx. 6 to 11 wrist. And approx. 8 to 14 forearm. Priced per gauntlet.”

And you can check out our complete line of fetish wear for other great ideas.

I have been reviewing restraints and bondage toys for the Dom or Domme on the go, or for people who like to take their kink on the road.  This gear is designed for beginners in bondage and portable use.  It is not the same as good dungeon gear.  It has different purposes – storage and portability.  Today I’m reviewing the Under the Bed Restraint System.

I’ll break this down into three parts: construction, effectiveness and usefulness.

The construction on this rig is above average to superior.  Its design allows pressure to be placed on the seams where the cuffs connect to the straps without tearing the durable and strong material.  Someone at SportSheets deserves an “A” for thinking through the cut of the material and stitching to prevent tears and ripping in the fabric.  Some may wonder how nylon as thick as this could tear.

When play becomes intense, it is easy to tear almost anything including layered leather.  Silk ties are the only thing I’ve never witnessed ripping, so that’s a big deal.  This rig is built to last.

For effectiveness I give it a “B”.  It does hold the subject in place, but only to a degree.  With tugging and pulling a submissive can wiggle into a favorable position and where is the fun in that?  The whole purpose of bondage is to create a tension and sense of discomfort.  But if you take the time to work with the straps, you can make this difficult to achieve.

It works well in sexual play, but not as well as a strictly bondage toy.  The best thing is to consider this a fantasy sex toy.

Its usefulness gets the lowest grade – a “B-”.  The trouble is that if you are on a smaller bed like you find in some hotels, you have to make many adjustments to achieve the right position.  Larger beds mean you’ll have a workout trying to get this worked into position at all.  So setup time can be extended.  The best bet is to preposition the rig before you get into the mood, so that when you are ready to play, you can concentrate on fun, not setup.

Overall, if you do the averages, this rig gets a “B”, which isn’t bad.  If you aren’t into dominance and submission or bondage at the moment, it can serve as a great positionary device for oral sex as well.  So it has versatility as a bonus.  I suggest this rig for those who want added flavor on there next road trip.  Be aware that there is metal in the connections, so airport security may have a few questions for you if you fly.

You can find all sex toy restraints here.

Door Jam Cuffs

Some of you may have noticed that I am doing a series of reviews of equipment that might be useful for the Dom on the go.  The Door Jam Cuffs are the next in line.  Unlike the lust loops, these cuffs are very useful for restraint.  They allow you to set up in a variety of positions from arms spread to inline, and with a second set you can restrain arms and legs.

Spanking fans – unless you are strictly OTK – this is a great way to take your disciplinary action on the road.  You don’t have to work very hard to get these up and ready.  And they set your subject up in a way that is efficient, and gives you complete control.

These are made from very sturdy nylon, and they use a velcro restraint design.  They’re easy to get on and off.  There isn’t a great deal between the subject and the nylon, so you have to be careful in applying them to prevent cutting during serious movement.  A well disciplined subject will have no such problems, but you might consider cloth of some kind inside the cuffs with a new subject.

Installation is a little complicated for the legs.  I prepositioned the cuffs under the door by pulling the door slightly shut and then sliding them along the door.  Remember to fasten the arm restraints first if you get two sets.  The door can put your subject off balance and if your subject is restrained by the legs with no arm support, you can have a fall.  This is especially important if your subject is in heels.

These can also be employed effectively in “against the wall” sexual fantasy.  And a creative mind can find other uses for them too.  Their price is low, and they store in a very small space.  As I said earlier, these are great for travel – and they have no metal so they’re light.

I completely recommend these as a great tool for visiting or travel.