I’m not surprised to find this Golden Triangle Silver Bullet Vibe in our top ten best sellers on the site.  I am a huge fan of this simple vibe and have to believe I’m not the only one out there!  Bullet vibes are great for travel because of their diminutive size and I love incorporating them into partnered play because they add a great buzz without dominating the action!  Their also really great for beginners because they aren’t intimidating at all, but are really great for a quick O.

This silver bullet is multi-speed, which is really important in my book, and has a separate power pack that allows the user to easily control the level of vibrations.  At under ten bucks, you really can’t beat this simple but effective toy.

Click on the image to check out the Silver Bullet or head over to the site and browse our complete selection of Egg and Bullet vibes!

Today, we are going to use Tera Patrick for an example.  This is not because we think she is a stunningly beautiful performer we’ve fantasized about several times over (though we have).  We wanted to pick up on Sara’s post from Wednesday about combining toys and movies to get more out of your solo play time.

Come to Tera

So let’s start with the idea that you are the lucky owner of Tera’s Futurotic Plus Pussy and Ass.  If you love Tera and don’t have this, you really should get it.  Here’s Why: IT IS HOT!  Check it out:

“My Pussy and Ass is Perfectly Sculpted to Reveal Every Contour!

This is an exact replica of Tera’s famous bodily attributes. Meticulously sculpted to reveal every luscious texture and soft delicate fold of Tera’s voluptuous ass and hand-painted sensuous pussy. Made of superior quality, soft, supple, super-stretchy Futurotic Plus? material, this is the closest to life-like as you will find. Over 6 pounds of virtual pleasure. The removable double bullets add extra pleasure to her already tight pussy and ass.

Includes: removable double bullets, talc and cherry lube.

This toy requires 2 AA batteries, not included.”

Tera Patrick Superstar

So you’ve made the investment in this ultra hot sex toy and you want to get the most out of it, right?  If you have a strong enough imagination that shouldn’t be hard.  But “kick it up a notch” as Emeril says, and add some real spice!

How about awesome visuals to help you on your way?  Then add Tera Patrick Superstar!

“The first four hour compilation of the hottest sex scenes from adult megastar Tera Patrick and friends.

This DVD packs some of Tera’s and TeraVision’s hottest scenes. Stay tuned for future editions of Tera Patrick’s four hour DVDs.

In the meantime, just sit back and enjoy yourself!”

That’s just what we’re talking about.  Throw in a little porn and enjoy yourself!  If you’re going to the trouble of getting an exact replica of Tera Patrick, take the fantasy all the way through and get the visuals right!  Combining a little porn with your sex toy play can make it that much more exciting!

So the next time you pick up a masturbator, realistic vagina or blowjob simulator, grab a good adult movie to make it an experience you’ll want over and over.

I’m just one of the legion of ladies who LOVES porn. While there are plenty of movies I have no interest in, there are a ton of great studios created women friendly porn that is super sexy and a great way to explore your own sexuality. I can’t even begin to tell you all of the things I’ve learned about myself from watching XXX films.

I thought it would be a lot of fun to pair up some of my favorite toys with great adult movies.  Today I want to talk about G Spot Play.  For those of you who don’t know much about this hot spot for many ladies, here’s a quick break down.

The G-Spot is an area on the front wall of a woman’s vagina that becomes highly sensitive when aroused.  One easy way to find this hot spot is to to insert two fingers into your vagina while lying on your back and curl them up in a “come here” motion. The G-spot will become engorged and slightly hard when a woman is aroused. Once you know where your g-spot is, it’s time to get real about exploring and that’s where a quality toy and educational DVD come into play.

Every one is always talking about this magical spot and any woman who doesn’t know about g-spot stim definitely needs to explore a bit.  If you don’t know much about the graftenberg spot and female ejaculation, this educational dvd from Access Instructional Media is a good place to start.

New, never-before seen intervaginal photography proves the G Spot exists and what it looks like at orgasm. Hear clearly explained at last what female ejaculation really is and what it isn’t. Watch women gush – ejaculate – as their G Spot is triggered.

To go along with this DVD, let me tell you about my favorite dildo for g-spot stimulation, Lelo’s Ella. This is a relatively small toy, but it’s built perfectly for this type of play. I love the fact that it’s made out of medical grade silicone, so it can be sterilized and is phthalate-free.

For the most sustained and creative enjoyment, use her in joint play with LILY / NEA / YVA to combine clitoral pleasure and intense sensations. Beautifully smooth and seamless, ELLA is a joy to the eye as well as the body, her two individually crafted ends allowing a varied experience and a fuller exploration of the users desires.

Like all Lelo toys, the Ella comes in a really classy box that is perfect for storage.  What’s even better is that it comes with one year warranty!  I have a lot of freaking dildos and this is the one to buy if you’re looking to hit your g-spot!

While you’d be lucky to pick up either of these great items, there’s no denying that they go together!  If you’re serious about getting to know your body a little better,  picking up this duo is a great place to start!

Use one of these and call us in the morning

Good morning and welcome to Monday, March 15, 2010 from the Sextoys Partyology Department. Today is significant for two reasons.  First, some of you were an hour late to work this morning because you forgot to move your clock forward an hour yesterday.  The cure for this is to go home tonight, use one of these with your favorite adult playmate and you’ll feel much better.

Second, we’re only two days away from a great holiday which has transformed into a reason to drink copious amounts of beer!  That’s right, Thursday will be a recovery day for many St. Patrick’s day revelers.  Others will have a few beers and enjoy the company of friends.  Whichever path you choose – good luck!

Woot!

We love St. Patrick’s Day around here.  Unfortunately, we don’t sell beer, but we can help you to keep things green with your sex toy collection.  The easiest way to do it is to convert your vibrator collection into a rechargeable collection.  You eliminate battery disposal, get a product that will last longer and you’ll enjoy your sex with a clear conscience!

Don’t know where to start?

You should probably have a look at the rechargeable vibrators we have to offer for starters. But we have some favorites, and among them is this gem of a sex toy.

The Wanachi Rechargeable Massager:

Rechargeable buzz

“Enjoy soothing vibrations anywhere you go with this cordless rechargeable massager. Powered by a whisper quiet motor and rechargeable battery, the Wanachi Massager is the premiere choice for revitalizing tired muscles.

Choose between 2 levels of soothing vibrations and enjoy the freedom of wireless stimulation. Plug in the AC adaptor for a quick recharge and the Wanachi is ready for portable action. The relaxing vibrations relieve tension and reduce muscle fatigue, giving your aching body the recharge it deserves.

Vibrating head measures 2.5 x 2.5 inches.”

So beer or not, you can get into the spirit of the holiday by keeping it green!  Get your rechargeable sex toys and make the world a cleaner, much, much happier place.  This concludes this service announcement from the Sextoys Partyology Department.

I recently got my hands on a new set of handcuffs from Kinklab and I’m so in love with them that I thought I should take the time to highlight the stuff I own from this fetish company!

First up, let me tell you all about my new Kink Cuffs! They’re made from black nylon and pink leather and totally hot. I love the way they look, the way they feel and the look in my partner’s eye when I’m on my back with my hands secured to the bed.  Let me tell you, there’s no way I’m going anywhere in these restraints.

While I can’t speak about these items from personal experience, I feel like you need to know that you can pick up a matching collar, blindfold and more!

You should also check out their Wartenberg Wheel. It’s really well made and perfect for driving a lover insane!

Lightly roll over the skin for a unique sensation! The Wartenberg Pinwheel is great for sensory play and medical fantasies. This pinwheel comes with a leather sheath to hold your pinwheel when not in use. Be daring!

While I may only own a couple of items right now, I definitely see myself investing more in the future and had to share my experiences with you so far. I definitely need to get my hands on Vampire Gloves after hearing rave reviews on the interwebs about them – just another item to add to my wish list!

Whether you’re a serious player, or just looking to get a little freaky in the bedroom, you should really check out what Kinklab has to offer!

Today we’re going to talk about the “other end” of the vibrator.  Or at least in some cases, it’s the other end.  But we don’t want to get ahead of ourselves, so we’ll just talk about the “other end” for now.  Why does this matter?

Fingertip thrills that are easy to control

That’s an easy one to answer.  The control type on a vibrator can often be the difference between a thrilling finish, or outrageous frustration over and over again.  If you have a vibrator that isn’t built to match your adult playtime style, you could end up accidentally turning it off, switching the functions, lowering the speed and many other unwanted changes right as you are arriving at that special moment.

Nobody wants that to happen, especially if that moment has been building for a while.  Let’s face it, a good orgasm is sometimes hard to bring about, and a simple change in sensations can ruin one fast.  So picking a vibrator with the right control type can be the difference between thrills or chills.

First, you have to decide which control type matches your style.  Are you an “all over the place” type of player?  Then you don’t want controls that are sensitive and can be easily changed with a bump here or there.  Are you a “pressure” player?  You might want to avoid the simple on/off control that can be pressed in a push, which could definitely spoil the moment.

Slide controls, easy on/off, elevated controls and some dial controls are best suited to “slow and steady” players who can control their movements (to a point). For the more intense players, locking controls or a firmer control pad are a much better fit.

Some companies, like Lelo and Fun Factory have developed ergonomic controls that are perfect for push and play happiness!

But just remember, if you’ve found something else that is so sexy you just can’t resist getting it, check the controls to make sure it’s a good fit for you.  Sometimes it’s a simple press that is the difference between a turn on and a turn off.  We mean that literally AND figuratively.  And you came here for a turn on, right?  Good luck, and we hope you find the vibrator that rocks your world.

Ginger Leigh is hosting another hot sex toy give away on SexToysforLadies.com and since I happen to be the proud owner of one of the prizes, I think it’s the perfect time to let you know how I feel about The Onye!

Let me just start by saying this is a totally elegant vibe. If you’re looking for a gift, you definitely need to consider it because it comes in a sexy black box that is lined with satin. Of course, a stylish box is nice, but the most important thing is that this is probably the fanciest bullet vibe I own. With three speeds and five patterns of pulsation, there are a lot of options to guarantee a good time!

The Onye is made from phthalate-free plastic and also has a silicone band that helps the user control the vibe when things get a little slippery. At 4.5 inches long, it’s bigger than a standard bullet, but still small enough to pack in an overnight bag for travel trysts!

I’ve had mine for over a year and still find myself reaching for it. It’s a quality toy that is definitely a nice addition to anyone’s toy chest! Head over to SextoysForLadies.com for your chance to win one!

No matter how many fancy vibes I acquire, I’ll always have a place in my toy box for a basic bullet vibe. Sometimes a girl just needs a quick buzz and nothing gets it done like these reliable little toys! When I saw this adorable variation of one of my favorite toys, I knew I had to get my hands on one!

The MiVibe has transformed the traditional bullet into a toy that’s perfect for a night on the town, especially if you’re the daring type that isn’t afraid to make one hell of a sexy statement! The folks over at BMS Enterprises have combined fashion with form to make a cute, yet insanely handy necklace. Of course, not everyone wants to wear there vibe around their neck, but what better accessory is there for a bachelorette party or night at the local sex club.

Now for the dirty details – this black bullet comes with a matching chain that detaches whenever you desire a little buzz. It’s really simple to use, the simple push button turns it on, cycles through the three (!) speeds and then turns it off again. It’s pretty standard stuff, but a lot of bullet vibes are only one speed so this one is pretty rad. The vibe is waterproof, which is definitely an added bonus for those of you who like to get wet and wild.

One nice touch I have to mention is the fact that they included not one, but two sets of batteries. Nothing sucks more than getting a new toy and realizing you don’t have whatever power source it needs to try it out. BMS has made sure I don’t need to worry about running out of juice for a while and I really appreciate it!

This is a really fun idea that works because the bullet vibe is really nice. It’s the perfect gift for your more adventurous girlfriends or a nice treat for yourself! Even if you can’t picture yourself ever wearing something like this out where the world can see it, don’t underestimate the power of wearing something like this out underneath a sweater where only you and your partner know about it!

Learn more about the MiVibe Necklace on Sextoys.com!

And now, because it’s hilarious, a MiVibe commercial!

It’s Monday and we’re all probably trying to shake off the woes of another weekend slipping through our grasps.  For some of us, Sunday was a blur and we have the headaches to prove it.  Others of us had a dull weekend filled with duties and chores.  Yet others had a hodgepodge and just want to kick the Monday blues.

Time for a Handie

One day to help a guy get over the dreaded “Mondays” is to not let something slip through your grasp.  That’s right, today we’re talking about the woefully underrated, and seldom enjoyed hand job.

Some of you may find that a boring idea, but let me stop you there.  An average guy has been the recipient of hundreds, if not thousands (depending on his sex drive), of self administered hand jobs. Guys KNOW hand jobs. They like them. If you can administer one properly, he’ll be seriously impressed!

But a partner giving a hand job has many options available that aren’t when the guy is flying solo.  Let’s look at the options.

Option 1 – Old Reliable

Sometimes simple is best. There isn’t a swinging dick on the planet who will deny that a good old fashioned monkey-spank produces good results. If you’re new to the hand job, a good stroking is a great place to start.

Details: This one really is simple.  All you have to do is get a suitable grip and start to stroke up and down the shaft. The results will be exactly what your partner wants.

Manufacturer’s Notes: You can spice this one up by showing the boys some love.  Lift the shaft out of your way and have at them with some oral affection.  You’ll hear the groans and grunts of happiness if you’re doing it right.

Option 2 – The Herky Jerk

Edging is something many guys enjoy.  Basically, the idea is to get right to the point of orgasm and to stop, cool down and then repeat.  When it’s time to blow, the reaction is volcanic.  An edged orgasm is one of the most intense a person can have.

Recommended for the Herky Jerk

Details: This one requires a lighter touch and you’re going to need time.  Want a quickie?  If so, forget The Herky Jerk.  You have to spend time building up the heat and then letting it dissipate.  A good lube is perfect for The Herky Jerk, like the one we recommend here.

Manufacturer’s Notes: You’re absolutely going to have to communicate well to “pull off” a Herky Jerk.  You have to know when he’s close, so that you can ease the pressure.  This is a great time to kiss and get some reciprocation!

Option 3 – The Kiss of Little Death

The French have long referred to orgasm as the “little death.”  Sounds kind of depressing, unless you think of the rush and concluding temporary exhaustion, which then makes the phrase more sensible. But you can make the little death a little more bearable with a few oral pleasures added in.

Details: This is a classic hand job with a light touch of oral (EMPHASIS: LIGHT) pleasuring added in.  You can use a flavored oral sex lube to add to your pleasure while giving him his. The key is to tease the glans (head) of the penis as you gently caress the shaft.  Doing this over and over again in little teases throughout will drive him wild.

Manufacturer’s Notes: You could end up with more than a mouthful using this technique.  Usually the orgasm comes on very rapidly because of the multiple stimulation techniques. If you’re in a safe relationship and ok with that, enjoy!  If not, watch carefully for your partner’s expressions and have him communicate so that you know when it’s coming – literally.

Option 4 – The Double Fister

If you’re in a relationship with a partner who has a little extra artillery range (very well endowed), this is an option that will fire his gun. Two are usually better than one, and this is no exception.

Details: You’ll need a little coordination for this one.  Get both hands on the shaft with the appropriate grip and stroke them with synchronized movement.  You’ll know you’re off sync by his screams (if you go without lube), so try to keep things together.

Manufaturer’s Notes: Make sure your grip is the same on both hands, to keep the pressure constant. With this one, you can also switch hands off to give yourself a break.

The most important aspect to hand jobs is to freestyle.  Add your own unique touch to give your partner a signature handie.  The best part of all is that if your grip matches your partner’s desired stimulation, you can’t mess up a hand job.

So get a fist full and happy stroking!

Almost everyone knows that sex toys are a great option when you want a little “alone” time during adult play.  And we can’t argue that sometimes, me, myself and I are great play partners who know all the right spots.  But we also know that two people who are having fun can strategically employ sex toys to make orgasms that much more powerful.

Sarah did a great post on kits for couples, and there are great options in it.  Kits of toys definitely get you plenty of bang for your buck.  We also have some other toys that can put lots of bang back into play time.  And for a limited time, you can use the offer code toysfor2 to get a 10% discount on purchases over $30.  Here’s a couple of banging sex toys that qualify for the couples’ offer code!

The Super Sex Sling by SportSheets:

Super Sex Sling

“The Sportsheets Super Sex Sling can help ease you comfortably into new erotic discoveries. This model has a deluxe comfort neck rest, plus extended straps and supports. Fully adjustable.”

This rig retails for $64.89.

Let’s face it, there are many slings out there, and most work fine.  But you add serious posh with this sling.  The padded neck support and ankle cuffs take all of the work out of maintaining the perfect position.  And both partners get to have fun without worrying about angles, sweet spots or anything else.  Just remember to use the offer code toysfor2 to get your discount.

Beginner Strap On For Him

Fetish Fantasy Beginners Strap On For Him:

“Perfect for rear-end rookies! You have teased him with your finger and your tongue, now he wants more. Give your boy-toy the anal satisfaction he craves with this petite 4.24 long curved jelly dong.

The shaft has a diameter ranging up to 1.25. The cleverly curved design will reach his sweet spot with ease. The durable 4-way nylon straps for the harness easily adjust to fit most, while the plush-lined harness comfortably stays in place when the action heats up.

The harness includes three interchangeable rubber rings of varying sizes to hold most of your favorite harness compatible toys. A free satin mask is included for keeping you or your lover guessing as to what comes next. Strap-on the passion and explore your fantasies.”

This awesome strap on retails for $38.89, but you can take 10% off with the offer code toysfor2 while this deal lasts.