Just because Valentine’s Day is over doesn’t mean that you should stop making an effort in the bedroom! While it’s easy to break out the candles, massage oils and special toys once a year, you’ll find that making intimacy a priority throughout the year will pay off big time. While you don’t have to break out a trunk full of sextoys every time you get busy, a little variety will keep things interesting. There’s no better way experience a wealth of pleasure without breaking the bank than picking up a quality Couple’s Kit. Whether you’re looking to get kinky, romantic or all kinds of freaky, you’re sure to find a kit that will fit the bill.

Here are my top five Couple’s Kits to help ensure you don’t experience a post Valentine’s Day sex slump!

1. White Nights Kit – If you’re relatively new to the toy game, you’re going to want to pick up this collection of quintessential Doc Johnson toys. You’ll get a pocket rocket, a multi-speed vibrating egg, massage oil and a traditional vibe. Really, every woman should have all four of these toys in her trunk no matter how many high-end vibes she collects.

2. The Weekender Kit – This small kit from Kama Sutra is the perfect accessory to any trip out of town. Of course, you’ll also have a ton of fun with it if you plan a romantic night at home, but it travels really well. Contains delicate portions of Oil of Love, Pleasure Balms, Honey Dust, Wild Clove and Mint Tree Bathing Gels!

3. Beginner’s Waterproof Harness and Dildo Set – If you’re curious about strap on play, this harness and dildo set from Sportsheets is a great place to start. The harness fits up to 60 inch hips and you’ll love the fact that it’s compatible with any flared base dildo that fits in the o-ring! I’m kind of in love with the entire Sex in the Shower line, to be honest…

4. Bondage Basics Restraint Kit – Kinklab makes some of the hottest bdsm stuff out there and this kit is a great introduction to them and bondage. It includes 2 leather handcuffs, 2 leather ankle cuffs, rope, and a blindfold so the possibilities are almost endless!

5. Sun Pack – You know we love glass dildos here at Sextoys.com and the only thing that can make purchasing one better is picking up a bunch of other great toys at the same time! The SUN PAK bundles a clear Lil’ Lady glass wand with a flower detail in the handle and an Earthly Body Naked In The Woods scented massage candle, a Lilac colored padded pouch, a sample pack of WET Platinum Lubricant. What else do you need for a night of fun!

For more great ideas, check out our Toys for Couples!

I love to be pampered, so when offered the chance to review Intimate Organics Sensual Cocoa Bean and Goji Berry Body Souffle, I was really excited.  I have been lucky enough to try a couple of their other products in the last year and am a big fan of the line.

This is the kind of product you can use every day or save for special nights.  I’ve been applying it after showers for a couple of weeks now and have to say that I love the way it makes my skin feel.  It’s not as quite as thick as I expected, but it leaves my skin feeling silky and goes on quick.  I will admit that I’m not a huge fan of the scent, but that’s a personal thing and it wears off before I’ve had a chance to dry my hair.

We’ve also used it for a quick massage at the end of a long day and it works pretty well.  If you’re looking for a massage oil, Intimate Organics sells those too, but the body souffle rubs in quickly and won’t leave your skin feeling oily or sticky.  It’s a nice way to get a little hands on time with your lover at the end of the day when you’re too tired for a thirty minute rub down!

My only real question is if this is an organic product, or product made with organic extracts and other non-organic ingredients.  I’ve spent time checking out their website, but I am kind of thinking it’s the latter.

Overall, this is a good product that I would recommend.  With a blend of certified organic extracts, olive oil, shea butter, mango butter, and the antioxidants goji berry and cocoa bean, it stands out when compared to most of the lotions I’ve used in the past.

For those of you who are interested in seeing what else this company has to offer, check out our full line of Intimate Organics products!

While not everyone is a huge fan of Valentine’s Day, I see it as a great excuse to spoil someone you love.  Of course, this could mean taking your partner of ten years out for a night on the town or turning off your cell phone, getting take out and enjoying a quiet evening of quality alone time.

If you’re looking for a last minute gift idea that’ll set you up for plenty of good times in 2010, I’ve compiled a list of great products that are sure to please.

1.  Energizing Foaming Bath – Everyone loves a good bath and it’s one of my favorite ways to relax after a long, hard day. What’s even better, is that whether I’m running a bath for my partner or treating myself to a good long soak, it seems that an orgasm is usually in store for someone!

2. Mini Mini Wanachi – This cordless massager is perfect for sexy times or working out the kinks! The relaxing vibrations relieve tension and reduce muscle fatigue, giving your aching body the recharge it deserves.

3. Nina Hartley’s Guide To Simultaneous Orgasms – This is a great DVD for couples who are looking to connect on an even deeper level. No one does educational DVD’s like adult superstar Nina Hartley!

4. Savoure Moi – Strawberry - This strawberry flavored lotion from Fun Factory is sure to heat things up and is the perfect dessert to end a special Valentine’s Day dinner!

5. Chains of Love Bondage Kit – I couldn’t make this list without adding something a little kinky. This kit from Pipedream is all you need to explore your naughty side and turn your fantasies into reality.

Head over to Sextoys.com for more great gift ideas.

I recently had a chance to check out another high-end vibe from Fun Factory, the Stranger. This silicone toy is one of the six sexy G2 toys and I was pretty excited to give it a try because I love my Heartbreaker, a vibrator from the same line.

The Stranger is almost 7 inches long, with 5.75 insertable inches and a 4.5 inch circumference. In my opinion, I’d say this is a pretty standard size and good for both beginners and toy enthusiasts. The tapered head, when combined with your favorite water-based lube, make for easy insertion and I really loved the way the ribbed body feels.

The toy is pretty simple to operate and works exactly like the Heartbreaker. Once the batteries are inserted, all you need to do is turn the dial base to turn it on and increase or decrease the vibration. Everyone hates the design of Fun Factory’s battery compartments because they are a little tricky to get into, but if you read the instructions you should be all right. I personally appreciate the fact that I’ve never had a single issue with water getting into the electronic parts of these waterproof toys because the compartment is totally secure. I’d rather take a few minutes to figure out the mechanics of this toy than have my toy ruined the first time I take it in the shower!

The motor is at the base of the shaft, so the vibrations are strongest there instead of the tip. Silicone, besides being phthalate-free, transfers vibration quite well so the entire toy has a pretty decent buzz, but if you’’re looking for a toy for external stimulation only, your might be better off with something like the Baby Bug. All in all, I would give this toy a 3.5 out of 5 on the power scale. It’s no Hitachi Wand (the only toy that gets a 5 on my scale) but there is definitely enough power to make my toes curl up.

One thing I really love about the Stranger is that the silicone shaft can be sterilized. All you need to do is wipe it down with a ten percent bleach solution and you’re ready to share your toy with a friend!

We love Fun Factory toys and want the world to feel the same – don’t forget to enter for a chance to win FREE Fun Factory toys from Cupid’s Fun Factory!

When I’m thinking about green sex toys, the first material that comes to my mind is wood. I mean, can’t you just picture a bunch of hippies saving the environment by day and then whipping out their wooden dildos and going to town after their nightly drum circle? While a lot of you who have never considered a wood sex toy may be a little nervous (splinters!) but here to discuss the possibilities in this latest installment of Going Green in the Bedroom.

The first great thing about wood is that it is a renewable resource. If we take the time to plant trees, we’ll have an unlimited supply of material to craft dildos from for future generations. I don’t know about you, but that makes me feel really good. I’d hate to think of a future in which wars are waged over the lack of quality sex toys…

While individual companies use different sealants and processes to craft their toys, in general I can say that these toys are body safe also. While you really need to research the individual product, a good example is the Don Wands Treeze line. It is created from a unique wood/urethane hybrid material that is hypoallergenic, nonporous, phthalates free, waterproof and splinter free. Because of this hybrid material, there’s no coating to chip off either!

If you like firm materials, your should really consider a wooden toy for obvious reasons. While this may be a bit unexpected, the wooden dildo that I have is also one of the smoothest toys I have. I would compare to another green material, glass – all you need is a couple of drops of lube and every thing will glide along quite smoothly.

One of the most important things you should consider when making an effort to go green in the bedroom is what material your toys are made of. Wood is a unique material that is definitely worth considering.

We’re really excited about Cupid’s Fun Factory Giveaway and I thought it was the perfect time to highlight my favorite toys from Fun Factory. When I first started seriously getting into toys, Fun Factory was the first high-end company I fell in love with and they haven’t let me down since!

1. Heartbreaker – This is the first silicone vibe I bought years ago and I’m pleased to report it’s still running and getting me off! I love the ribbed body and it’s flexible enough to hit all of the right spots.

2. Baby Bug – This little guy is perfect for travel and totally cute! I love little bullet vibes and the fact that this one is made from body safe silicone makes it a must have in my book. I gave a friend who was new to toys this as a intro and she’s hooked!

Fun Factory's Bandito

3. Magnum – This is a pretty standard dildo, but I think it’s just about perfect for use with a harness. It’s the perfect size and density in my opinion and another toys that’s good for people who are newish to sex toys.

4. Bandito – This is another top notch silicone dildo, but a little fancier than the Magnum. There’s all sorts of bumps and swirls for a little extra texture and that g-spot curve is to die for!

5. Smart Balls – While these aren’t the sexiest item on my list, it’s really important for women to do their Kegel Exercises and these are my favorite way to workout. All you have to do is pop them in and go about your business! It’s a piece of cake and I’d be lying if they don’t turn me on a bit while I’m dusting!

While those are the toys I find myself reaching for over and over again, you can always expect quality when you pick up something from Fun Factory!

Let me take a minute to introduce myself. A part of the SexToys.com team that usually handles blog duties over at DVDsandSexToys.com, I go by the name chrism. When Expert asked me to also select this month’s Featured Products for Men subcategory at SexToys.com, I thought it would make sense to guest-blogpost the reason for my selections over here. I won’t go into explanation for all twenty toys I selected, but just to highlight a few…

1.) Vibrating Fleshlight Vagina Male Masturbator Sex Toy Kit

I have to say, the office was in a little bit of a tizzy when we finally got this in stock. It is probably one of the the most widely known masturbators out there, and with good reason. The material used delivers a realistic sensation, and the ease to use and clean has caused it to sell over  2,000,000 units, making it one of the best vagina simulators on the market. This kit comes with the added bonus of three cockrings to prolong your pleasure and enjoyment.

2.) Vibrating Cock Ring – Red

I added this to my list because Tantus simply makes outstanding products. Made of medical grade silicone, it is the best material for sex toys available. Hypoallergenic, phthalate-free, odorless, tasteless, bleachable, boilable, non-pourus. That’s the medical end of things. As for the sexual part of the sex toy, this little guy will keep you looking large and hard for an extended period of time, and the removable bullet adds pleasure for your partner. It can be worn on top of your cock for stimulating her clit, or under the base of your balls stimulating your balls and your perineum.

3.) Pirates (3 Disc Set)

Sure this movie has been out for over four years, but it is still one of the porn industry’s highlights and well deserving of all the 11 AVN Awards it won. You don’t simply forget or dismiss Casablance because it was released in 1942, and with the all-star cast that combined plot, special effects, humor AND phenomenally smoking hot sex, Pirates is a most own movie. The three discs feature both standard DVD and WMV-HD DVD formats of the movie. Plus 16×9 widescreen format, bloopers, casting video, photo gallery, audio commentary with the stars, behind the scenes, visual FX making of, Pirates short, bios and trailers make it one of the few Collectors Edition DVDs (porn or not) that are truly worth owning.

4.) Fun Factory BodyFluid

A good lube is always necessary to have handy. Whether you are having fun with yourself, others or toys, Fun Factory’s 100ml of lubricant belongs in your bedstand. It is silicone based, has no taste or oder, and can also be used for massaging you partner. Even though it shouldn’t be used on silicone toys, it is safe for both vaginal and anal sex.

5.) Audrey Hollender Pile Driver Pussy and Ass

Yes, I know this comes with a hefty pricetag, butt… It’s Audrey Hollender. One of the latest and greatest to have her backside served by the biggest and best in the business. Molded from Audrey’s pussy and ass, using the realistic feeling CyberSkin and Dual Density Technology, it is both waterproof and phthalate free. It is one of the few, if any, toys that are molded as if Audrey was in a pile driver position, allowing for ultimate deep penetration of both her holes. Speaking of holes, both are hand painted and ribbed so not only do they look real, they feel real.

So there it is. A few of my handpicked selections for this month’s Featured Products for Men. Don’t forget to check me and my DVD reviews out over at DVDsandSexToys.com. And don’t worry. You can’t get rid of me that easily. I will be back later in the month with a few reviews. One for the Screaming O Plus and one for the Lovemoiselle Doriane Vibrator. Like most things at this job, there’s more good things to come.

Every one is busy shoveling and trying to stick to their 2010 resolutions, so I thought I’d write a short post with suggestions for those of you who are set on having better (and more!) sex in the new year!

1. Masturbate. The key to ecstasy in the bedroom is knowing what gets you off and that means you need to figure it out yourself! I could write a novel on this, but Ginger breaks it down really well over on SexToysForLadies!

2. Talk. So you figured out what rocks your world, now you need to tell your partner just what gets you off. Communication is the key to any great relationship and that has to continue in the bedroom.

3. Laugh. Sex is funny.

4. Lube. I can’t even keep track of how many times we’ve advocated the liberal use of lubricant, but here it is for those of you who are new to the blog!

5. Experiment. Variety is the spice of life and we’ve got a boat load of sex toys that’ll help you keep things new in the bedroom. Whether you’re looking for a bullet vibe, new handcuffs or a penis pump, we’ve got it and you need it!

If there’s nothing you love more than the smell, sight and feel of a fine piece of leather, do we have some good news for you. We’re proud to now offer over one hundred items from Torvea, a company that’s known for it’s top-notch leather, rubber, and fur floggers, slappers, cuffs, restraints, swings, and other BDSM products.

If you’re in the market for a pair of gorgeous leather cuffs, you definitely need to take a look at what Torvea has to offer.  These 12 inch blue and Black Leather Love Cuffs hava a Locking Buckle and suede backing.  Of course, they’re available in numerous colors and three different sizes.

They also offer a pair of Heavy Duty Cuffs that are meant for those of you who are serious players and EZ Cuffs for people who are just beginning to explore BDSM.

Of course, Torvea has a lot more to offer outside of handcuffs. If you’re into CBT, you’ll definitely want to check out their version of the Gates of Hell. It even includes a D Ring at the end which is perfect for attaching a leash to! I personally have my eye on the 32 inch Suede Dragon Tail flogger.

I could go on and on, but you should probably head over to Sextoys.com and check out every thing we have to offer from this hot company – Torvea.

It’s hard to really excite a girl who works in the sex toy industry. I mean, I love this stuff as much as anyone, but there are only so many ways one can customize a silver bullet or traditional dong. Nothing makes one more aware of this fact that reviewing toys for years and years – not that I’m complaining! I’m just trying to help you to understand my insane excitement about this new addition to the site – an Ice Massager!

This exciting new vibe is perfect for those of you who love temperature play like me. Plus it’s made out of medical grade silicone and the bullet is replaceable, so it’s body safe and totally built to last.

Ever felt so damn hot you needed to cool down? Then you’ll love this; the worlds first vibrating ice massager.

The user-friendly grip, made of the best medical-grade silicone, makes it easy to use in every position – wherever you are. Because the vibrating bullet is replaceable, it’ll bring passion for years to come. Enjoy the Touch Ice Massager both ways; One, its thrilling, icy touch and two, the unique silicone sensation you’ve never experienced before.

I can only speak for myself, of course, but this new toy is definitely at the top of my wish list for 2010!