So recently a new line of sex toys became available for us to distribute at SexToys.com. Tenga is a company that manufactures high quality, well-made, amazingly designed products.

Started by a former mechanic, his goal was to improve the look and quality of sex toys for men. The original toy was a single use masturbator called a onacup that sold over 2 million units. Having become the most popular male sex toy in Japan, you could say he had succeeded on his mission!

Tenga continues to offer innovative ways to get guys off. From their masturbators to their eggs, they continue to push the envelope and think outside of the box, both of which are refreshing to see. And feel!

Tenga masturbators like the Flip Hole are designed not to feel like a vagina, but to feel even better than a vagina. (Is that possible?) The inside provides high-end sexual technology with stimulation in all the right places to give you the ultimate sensation! And it flips open for easy cleaning.

Tenga Eggs are the company’s newest product. These masturbator sleeves are designed for single use and come in three different textures. Wavy, Clicker and Spider. Made of silicone, each comes with lube and offers a unique feeling.

Tenga also offers other products to make the experience of using their products even better. The four lotions they have designed each have their own characteristics so the user can feel the exact sensation that works best in conjunction with Tenga products.

Also unique is the Hole Warmer. Don’t worry guys, it’s not designed for your hole, it’s for the toy’s hole. To get it warmed up and bring the temperature of the toy up to normal body heat for a better more enjoyable experience.

As you can see, Tenga is a sex toy company that does not put masturbation for men as a distant second to women’s pleasure. Their innovation and infusion of technology without making the experience clunky or cumbersome is something other companies could take note of. But in the meantime, one company at least offers an elegant, refined, graceful and neat solo sexual experience!

We recently added the Spartacus Divinity Line to the site and I fell in love. So much fetish gear is black or red, so it’s nice to see gorgeous white leather products for those of us who want to look like an angel when we’re down on our knees worshiping our partner!

May I suggest letting your partner know they’re your angel by presenting them with the Divinity Collar. This white leather Spartacus collar is lined with plush blue faux fur and has a sturdy d-ring, an easy snap closure and measures 12 – 16 inches.

Once they know just how much you care, you can restrain them with the gorgeous Divinity Hand Cuffs. They match the collar and are lined with the same plush material so your lover is reminded they are at your mercy, without chaffing or too much pain!

If you want to kick things up a little more, you can take away their vision so they can focus on your every touch! The Divinity Blindfold is the final piece to this divine trinity of seduction!

Check out one or all three gorgeous items over at SexToys.com!

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The first vibrator was invented by Kelsey Stinner in the late 1800′s. It was intended to treat “female hysteria”. You know, when you get all cranky, your womb starts floating around and vaginal wetness occurs? Yeah, that. Early on, doctors would make weekly house calls and essentially bring these crazy women to orgasm using their electric vibrators. Oh, I meant they brought these crazy women to “paroxysm” followed by “twitchings accompanied at the same time by pain and pleasure”. What? Orgasms cured “hysteria”? Well, I know a good O yanks me right out of bitch mode.

Did the words, floating womb, throw you? It was believed that the uterus floated in the belly and getting off would put it right back in place.

Roughly 30 years later, Hamilton Beach made the first electric vibrator available for retail sale and home use. Don’t get too excited. It still wasn’t acceptable for women to engage in solo masturbation. It remained a job fit for husbands and doctors only. Could you imagine having to call the doctor every time you needed a good vibrator induced orgasm? Ugh.

“Let the little home doctor bring you health, greater vitality and a clearer complexion.” Not only did the vibrator cure hysteria (aka sexual frustration), it made everything better. Doesn’t sound too far from the truth to me.

I’ll take 3.

There ya have it. A brief history of vibrators.

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The secret is out of the bag. Spoofs and parodies are what’s hot in porn. It has been this way for the past few years and the trend shows no signs of slowing down any time soon. The Silicone Valley has continued to pump out a steady stream of adult movies of remakes from both today and yesteryear and the response has been been well received.

The movies have not only been appreciated by fans, but have also been noticed by awards shows and even mainstream media have picked up on it. Studios like New Sensations and Zero Tolerance, and director’s like Lee Roy Meyers and Will Ryder are leading the way of the recent generation of these films. Many deserving movies have taken home trophies, but there are ones that have not garnered critical acclaim but should still not be missed.

30 Rock A XXX Parody
2-Disc Collector’s Edition. New Sensations presents 30 ROCK: A XXX PARODY, a side-splitting and pussy-pounding take on one of the funniest shows on TV. Imagine, all of your favorite and funniest characters played by some of the hottest porn stars! With sexy and spot-on performances by Ashlynn Brooke, Lisa Ann, Amy Ried, Rebeca Linares, Evie Delatosso, Lana Violet, James Deen, Herschel Savage, Ralph Long, Chris Cannon, and Erik Everhard, 30 ROCK: A XXX PARODY is a must-have for anybody who likes to laugh or cum!

Who doesn’t watch or love 30 Rock? While we would of loved to have seen more of Tracey Morgan’s character, the sex was fun to watch.
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Entourage A XXX Parody
2-Disc Collector’s Edition.You will want to hug one out when you watch ENTOURAGE: A XXX PARODY! From New Sensations comes the story of a group of friends that are living the life: Getting rich, getting famous, and getting laid. Follow parodies of your favorite characters (Eric, Vince, Turtle, and Drama) on their sex-filled adventures through the hottest pussy in La La Land and all the fun things that cum with it! When Vince’s latest film flops, Turtle decides to upload a celebrity sex tape of Vince and everyone’s favorite super-starlet-next-door, Mandy Moorehead. Will it revive his blockbuster Hollywood career, or will it lead to a Big role in Aquaman: A XXX Parody? Featuring a blockbuster cast, these “Boys from Queens” fuck their way through every girl in Hollywood, one beautiful celebrity at a time!

Everyone tuned in on Sunday nights to fantasize about living in these guys world. And news just broke that Sasha Grey will be playing Vince’s girlfriend in the upcoming season. Makes for some interesting options doesn’t it?
Watch Entourage A XXX Parody now!

That 70′s Show A XXX Parody
Get ready for some sex, jugs, and Rock ‘N Roll — 1970′s-style! Imagine a combination of polyester pants, platform shoes, hilarious comedy, and scorching hot sex scenes! Well, that’s exactly what you’re going to get with 70′S SHOW: A XXX PARODY, introducing sexified parodies of your favorite characters including Eric, Donna, Fez, Jackie, Laurie, Kelso, Hyde, Kitty, and Red. Things get dazed and confused when this sex-crazed group of friends head to a concert. Backstage passes quickly become backstage asses as the gang tries to pick up groupies and meat the band. 70′S SHOW: A XXX PARODY, featuring Brooke Banner, Ashlynn Brooke, Missy Stone, Rachel Love, Kaci Starr, Patrick J. Knight, Anthony Rosano, Ralph Long, Pike Nelson, Steve Smith, and more!

This show is just flat out funny with characters that guys and girls have been fantasizing about for years. The casting in this one was great.
Watch That 70′s Show A XXX Parody now!

Official To Catch A Predator Parody
In this XXX spin on the popular television show, oversexed cock-hungry MILFs scour the internet for younger “barely legal” playthings to pound their seasoned snatches. Well, not so fast you predatory pole snatchers – we’ve set up a sting operation that catches every crazed cock-sucking, perverted pussy pounding and frenetic ass fucking on video. Imagine the shock and surprise when these predatory pumas get busted for their potentially felonious fucking ways. If you’ve ever seen the television show, have a hankering for hardcore sex, or like to watch the sexiest nastiest MILFs in XXX get their bottoms busted, you’ll love this To Catch a Predator XXX.

In a break from the usual sitcom parody, we had to include this on the list for the sheer cheek in tongue job of turning this television news-magazine runaway sensation on it’s head and into a hit of it’s own!
Watch Official To Catch A Predator Parody now!

The Jeffersons A XXX Parody
2-Disc Collector’s Set. Lionel is movin’ on up and about to be a married man. The Jeffersons’ neighbors are throwing a little engagement party before the men head out for a wild bachelor party. George and his smart ass housekeeper, Florence, gripe at each other until the sexual tension has to be broken in the laundry. Lionel gets a little too wild, breaking the heart of his lovely Jenny. Weezy finally gets some from her man, and the Willises have some hot, interracial relations. The Jeffersons are triple X, the way you always imagined them to be. The bonus disc contains two funky, groovy extra added scenes: A threesome with Jada Fire and Marie Luv plus footage of a young television star gone bad! Special Features include trailers, photo gallery, cast bios, behind-the-scenes footage, scene selection, and positions room.

Got to bring the old school funk of George and Louise! This was one where the show wasn’t exactly known for its sex appeal, but because of it’s cultural icon status, had to be spoofed!
Watch The Jeffersons A XXX Parody now!

What are your thoughts? Weigh in on some of your favorite parodies, or shows that haven’t been spoofed yet but you would like to see done.

There are a couple of things you should always look for when buying an anal plug. The first is to make sure that it has a flared base or retrieval cord, although I definitely prefer the first more.  No one wants to lose a toy up their ass and have to make an embarrassing trip to the ER for removal. The second is what material is your toy made from. If you’re going to be wearing a butt plug around the house while you’re dusting, you don’t want it to be leaking nasty chemicals into your body the entire time. You also want it to be something that can be sterilized (for obvious reasons) like medical grade silicone or glass.

Considering those two things will help you rule out a lot of lesser items, but there are still a ton of great butt plugs to chose from. Here are five of my favorites!

1. Tantus Slim – This is my pick for beginners. It’s made from silicone, so it can be sterilized after use, and it’s a great size for someone who is just starting out with anal play. I love Tantus toys because they are built to last a lifetime with proper care plus they are totally affordable!

2. NJOY Pure Plug – This is essentially the Rolls Royce of butt plugs. Crafted from Stainless Steel and available in three sizes, there’s one for everyone! Equally fun for hot bedroom play or to wear all day for some naughty secret stimulation, njoy’s Pure Plugs truly shine where the sun don’t!

3. Tristan 2 Vibe – I thought I should include a plug that buzzes in my list and there’s none better than Tristan Taormino’s from Vixen Creations. This one is also made from silicone and includes a vibrating bullet for a little extra action! No one knows anal better than Taormino, this delightfully shaped anal sex toy in perfect proportions for comfort and pleasure.

4 Alumina Pace – Another Tantus toy, but this time made of 100% aeronautic grade aluminum! If you’re looking for something metal, but can’t quite afford the NJOY plug yet, this is one to consider. It’s lighter that steel and designed to play anatomically with your body’s pleasure zones.

5. Bum Rush – This Rascal toy is part of the new silicone line from Topco and definitely worth checking out. The base is extra flexible, which I think makes this one good for long term wear.

If none of these strike your fancy, be sure to head over to Sextoys.com to check out our complete selection of Butt Plugs. With almost 700 available, I’m sure you can find something to rock your world!

No matter how many high-tech toys I own, I’m still a sucker for a simple egg vibe or pocket rocket. I mean, I love all the bells and whistles that come with a toy like the Gigi, but I really appreciate a simple toy that can bring me from zero to Oh My God quickly every time. When I saw the Sterling Collection Combo Pack from California Exotic, I was really excited because two bullets equal twice as much fun!

The first thing that stood out on this toy was that each bullet is controlled separately. That means that two people can enjoy the toy at the level of vibration that’s right for them! There’s nothing like a little mutual masturbation to set the mood and this toy makes it easy as pie. Of course, if you’re greedy you can use one bullet to stimulate your clit while you or a partner teases with the other! Is it really possible to have too much of a good thing?

With seven levels of stimulation and a pretty powerful buzz, this toy is a cheap way to travel down the road to bliss over and over again. I really believe that multiple levels of vibration are key to any bullet vibe and this one definitely does the job.

Another cool thing about this toy is that each vibe unplugs from the controller, so you can update with different shaped accessories. I’m really interested in check out the Triple Tiered Silver Bullet. Anyways, both bullets included in this pack are made from ABS with silver plating, but there are other options if you’re interested in something different down the road.

Overall, this is a really cool toy that gives you options and that is never a bad thing. If you’re a fan of bullet vibes you should definitely think about doubling your pleasure. This would also be a great first toy for a friend!

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SexToys.com is proud to announce a contest that will run through the end of the month. May is officially National Masturbation Month, so it only seems fitting that SexToys.com shares and spreads some of the love to make sure each person can celebrate in their own special way!

And our way is to give away sex toys! But we can’t just give the prize away. We have to make it interesting. So since this is the month of masturbation, to enter the contest we want you to tell us your stories. We want to hear the hottest, wildest, craziest, naughtiest masturbation stories that have happened to YOU. Nothing made up, it needs to be 100% true. We want everyone to post their story in the comments section here. That way it will give everyone a chance to read and enjoy your experience!

Here are the different adult sex toys that everyone is “playing” to win:

Best Female Masturbation Story: Brigit by Touche

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Wildest Masturbation Story: Surprise gift based on sex of winner!

We are going to keep the contest open until May 31, 2010 and then a panel of SexToys.com staff will select the Best Male Masturbation Story, Best Female Masturbation Story and the Wildest Masturbation Story.

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For today’s post, I thought I would offer some advice on the best way to explore bringing adult films into a relationship. It is difficult to broach this topic without it sounding as if there is some sort of trickery involved. There is not. What is involved is communication and open-mindedness . Even with these two staple ingredients between a couple, spouses, or boyfriends and girlfriends, it still is not guaranteed to happen and may not even be a good idea, but they are certainly both necessary to even begin.

It is also worth stating the obvious and addressing the pink elephant in the room. More than likely, this is an article aimed at men. While I am sure couples exist where the female is into pornography and the guy isn’t, they are likely the minority. The small minority. Some might even suggest “microscopic” minority.

So let’s say you are a guy, in a healthy relationship, enjoy pornography from time to time, and the idea of watching it with your girlfriend is something that appeals to you. Where do you go from here? The wrong approach is to tell her you rented The Notebook and “accidentally” pop in Don’t Tell My Wife I Assfucked The Babysitter 2. The right approach is dialogue.

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Most of the information over the last few years shows that the number of women that watch or enjoy porn are significantly higher than most might have expected. Earlier this year a report suggested 30% of women admitted to watching porn online. That’s 1/3 that admit to it. Last year Oprah even asked the question, Are More Women OK With Watching Porn? in O Magazine. It’s 2010, not 1950. I am not saying that means your girl watches it or likes it, but it is no longer a dirty secret, or even a secret, that females enjoy adult entertainment.

Part of the reason may be as a result of cheap technologies. Porn is no longer solely comprised of the porndinary ideas of yesteryear; big blond hair, huge fake breasts, waif-y model type physiques. As a result of the internet and cheap video equipment, women are now behind the camera and are dictating and directing to their likes, not solely submitting to the male point of view. People are freer to expose and explore their personal likes whether that be women of average or heavy build, natural body types, or even bisexuality and authentic and romantic encounters instead of the standard soulless mechanical sex. And it is necessary to take all this into consideration.

If you want your girl to be open to the idea of watching porn together, you may need to be open to the idea of compromising and exploring something you both find to be a turn on. It is not realistic to expect her to initially be ok with both watching it and watching only what you like. I am not suggesting you need to be ashamed or not enjoy what you prefer in your own private fantasies, but we are working for a shared experience between you and your partner.

So now that we have a little background and foundation set up, how do you actually go about it? Well let’s assume a few things. (Yes, I know it is dangerous to assume anything, but for argument’s sake…) Let’s assume you haven’t told your girlfriend or wife you don’t watch porn. Because you do. And if you lied to her and said you didn’t, you clearly have bigger problems regarding honesty and communication in your relationship and probably don’t deserve to be with her, let alone try to get her to watch porn with you. So if you are lying you are doomed anyways. So let’s say she knows. Because there’s healthy communication. Which also probably means there’s already healthy conversations about sex.

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I have found that sometimes the best way to bring what might be awkward conversations up is to slip into it. Not to set it up as some big, huge conversation. I have found that saying, “Baby, we need to talk…” puts women on edge and in a defensive posture and you are likely to fail before you even get out of the gate. Start a conversation about turn-ons. Ask her, “Hey, I have always been turned on by the idea of watching porn with you. You think we could find something we both might like and try?” It’s your idea, but you include her in it making her a part of it.

And depending on how receptive they are may dictate whether you face the next question. “What, I don’t turn you on?/ Would you rather be having sex with someone else?” This is where it can be tricky. A healthy relationship can withstand this line of questioning. It is almost juvenile and falls into the misinformation that Hollywood projects on people that once you have found “the one” that all other people exist or cease to be attractive any more. “Of course I want to have sex/make love/fuck you, but I’m sure you still find other people attractive too, and that’s ok. This is just a fantasy I have had and wanted to see your thoughts.” This doesn’t flip it back on her, but it allows her to be exactly what you want her to accept about you. That we are human. If she is still threatened by the idea of the two of you watching porn together, it may be time to abandon the idea for now.

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If she is still open to the idea, you are in the home stretch. But aren’t guaranteed the win just yet. You don’t want to blow your lead in the bottom of the ninth with two outs. One bad pitch right here and it could be game over. To bring it home, we are at the crucial moment of video selection. Spoof and parody porn has recently exploded and there are a ton of titles that aren’t that threatening and may evoke some good memories for her. And since she has already been a champ to this point, you just might want to put the ball in her hand. (Pun sort of intended.) To once again show this is a team effort, why not let her pick a movie? It’s ok to shoot films down that don’t turn you on or even turn you off, but don’t shoot down a movie with three girls and one guy because you want a movie with four girls and no guy. Plus, by having her pick, it will likely get her in the mood quicker and make the experience she enjoys too and it becomes more likely it might happen again.

There is no full-proof way to introduce the idea of you and your girlfriend enjoying a shared experience of watching porn to get you both turned on, but there are ways to increase your chances. That way is honest communication. Females can usually spot and smell sneakiness and manipulation a mile away. So the best policy is some tactful honesty.

I am curious about people’s experience with this. Have you tried this before? Been successful? How did you go about bringing it up? Leave comments below and we will send you a discount to use on SexToys.com.

We don’t talk a lot about porn on the blog, but when I saw that we now offer the Jimi Hendrix Sex Tape, I had to share it with the masses.  More often than not, I could care less about the latest celebrity sex tape.  I mean, who really needs to see Screech whip out his cock?  Now Jimi Hendrix, that’s a whole different story.  That man is a rock and roll legend and was sex on a stick!  If he fucks half as well as he played guitar, we are in for a treat!

A memorabilia collector went to an auction in London. He purchased a trunk, and inside he found an 8mm film labeled “Black Man.” That celebrity sex tape that he found was from a famous musician. He watched the film and recognized the man as Jimi Hendrix. Jimi Hendrix … morehad no idea that he would end up in the celled sex tape archive of Vivid Entertainment. Jimi’s dong will be famous forever now.

You know you want to see it!  Head over to the site to check out the Jimi Hendrix Sex Tape.