Ginger Leigh is at it again!  She’s giving away a bundle of good sex toys to her readers.  You know how she loves to give stuff away!  Check her blog on Monday for giveaway details!

No matter how many fancy vibes I acquire, I’ll always have a place in my toy box for a basic bullet vibe. Sometimes a girl just needs a quick buzz and nothing gets it done like these reliable little toys! When I saw this adorable variation of one of my favorite toys, I knew I had to get my hands on one!

The MiVibe has transformed the traditional bullet into a toy that’s perfect for a night on the town, especially if you’re the daring type that isn’t afraid to make one hell of a sexy statement! The folks over at BMS Enterprises have combined fashion with form to make a cute, yet insanely handy necklace. Of course, not everyone wants to wear there vibe around their neck, but what better accessory is there for a bachelorette party or night at the local sex club.

Now for the dirty details – this black bullet comes with a matching chain that detaches whenever you desire a little buzz. It’s really simple to use, the simple push button turns it on, cycles through the three (!) speeds and then turns it off again. It’s pretty standard stuff, but a lot of bullet vibes are only one speed so this one is pretty rad. The vibe is waterproof, which is definitely an added bonus for those of you who like to get wet and wild.

One nice touch I have to mention is the fact that they included not one, but two sets of batteries. Nothing sucks more than getting a new toy and realizing you don’t have whatever power source it needs to try it out. BMS has made sure I don’t need to worry about running out of juice for a while and I really appreciate it!

This is a really fun idea that works because the bullet vibe is really nice. It’s the perfect gift for your more adventurous girlfriends or a nice treat for yourself! Even if you can’t picture yourself ever wearing something like this out where the world can see it, don’t underestimate the power of wearing something like this out underneath a sweater where only you and your partner know about it!

Learn more about the MiVibe Necklace on Sextoys.com!

And now, because it’s hilarious, a MiVibe commercial!

It’s Monday and we’re all probably trying to shake off the woes of another weekend slipping through our grasps.  For some of us, Sunday was a blur and we have the headaches to prove it.  Others of us had a dull weekend filled with duties and chores.  Yet others had a hodgepodge and just want to kick the Monday blues.

Time for a Handie

One day to help a guy get over the dreaded “Mondays” is to not let something slip through your grasp.  That’s right, today we’re talking about the woefully underrated, and seldom enjoyed hand job.

Some of you may find that a boring idea, but let me stop you there.  An average guy has been the recipient of hundreds, if not thousands (depending on his sex drive), of self administered hand jobs. Guys KNOW hand jobs. They like them. If you can administer one properly, he’ll be seriously impressed!

But a partner giving a hand job has many options available that aren’t when the guy is flying solo.  Let’s look at the options.

Option 1 – Old Reliable

Sometimes simple is best. There isn’t a swinging dick on the planet who will deny that a good old fashioned monkey-spank produces good results. If you’re new to the hand job, a good stroking is a great place to start.

Details: This one really is simple.  All you have to do is get a suitable grip and start to stroke up and down the shaft. The results will be exactly what your partner wants.

Manufacturer’s Notes: You can spice this one up by showing the boys some love.  Lift the shaft out of your way and have at them with some oral affection.  You’ll hear the groans and grunts of happiness if you’re doing it right.

Option 2 – The Herky Jerk

Edging is something many guys enjoy.  Basically, the idea is to get right to the point of orgasm and to stop, cool down and then repeat.  When it’s time to blow, the reaction is volcanic.  An edged orgasm is one of the most intense a person can have.

Recommended for the Herky Jerk

Details: This one requires a lighter touch and you’re going to need time.  Want a quickie?  If so, forget The Herky Jerk.  You have to spend time building up the heat and then letting it dissipate.  A good lube is perfect for The Herky Jerk, like the one we recommend here.

Manufacturer’s Notes: You’re absolutely going to have to communicate well to “pull off” a Herky Jerk.  You have to know when he’s close, so that you can ease the pressure.  This is a great time to kiss and get some reciprocation!

Option 3 – The Kiss of Little Death

The French have long referred to orgasm as the “little death.”  Sounds kind of depressing, unless you think of the rush and concluding temporary exhaustion, which then makes the phrase more sensible. But you can make the little death a little more bearable with a few oral pleasures added in.

Details: This is a classic hand job with a light touch of oral (EMPHASIS: LIGHT) pleasuring added in.  You can use a flavored oral sex lube to add to your pleasure while giving him his. The key is to tease the glans (head) of the penis as you gently caress the shaft.  Doing this over and over again in little teases throughout will drive him wild.

Manufacturer’s Notes: You could end up with more than a mouthful using this technique.  Usually the orgasm comes on very rapidly because of the multiple stimulation techniques. If you’re in a safe relationship and ok with that, enjoy!  If not, watch carefully for your partner’s expressions and have him communicate so that you know when it’s coming – literally.

Option 4 – The Double Fister

If you’re in a relationship with a partner who has a little extra artillery range (very well endowed), this is an option that will fire his gun. Two are usually better than one, and this is no exception.

Details: You’ll need a little coordination for this one.  Get both hands on the shaft with the appropriate grip and stroke them with synchronized movement.  You’ll know you’re off sync by his screams (if you go without lube), so try to keep things together.

Manufaturer’s Notes: Make sure your grip is the same on both hands, to keep the pressure constant. With this one, you can also switch hands off to give yourself a break.

The most important aspect to hand jobs is to freestyle.  Add your own unique touch to give your partner a signature handie.  The best part of all is that if your grip matches your partner’s desired stimulation, you can’t mess up a hand job.

So get a fist full and happy stroking!

Almost everyone knows that sex toys are a great option when you want a little “alone” time during adult play.  And we can’t argue that sometimes, me, myself and I are great play partners who know all the right spots.  But we also know that two people who are having fun can strategically employ sex toys to make orgasms that much more powerful.

Sarah did a great post on kits for couples, and there are great options in it.  Kits of toys definitely get you plenty of bang for your buck.  We also have some other toys that can put lots of bang back into play time.  And for a limited time, you can use the offer code toysfor2 to get a 10% discount on purchases over $30.  Here’s a couple of banging sex toys that qualify for the couples’ offer code!

The Super Sex Sling by SportSheets:

Super Sex Sling

“The Sportsheets Super Sex Sling can help ease you comfortably into new erotic discoveries. This model has a deluxe comfort neck rest, plus extended straps and supports. Fully adjustable.”

This rig retails for $64.89.

Let’s face it, there are many slings out there, and most work fine.  But you add serious posh with this sling.  The padded neck support and ankle cuffs take all of the work out of maintaining the perfect position.  And both partners get to have fun without worrying about angles, sweet spots or anything else.  Just remember to use the offer code toysfor2 to get your discount.

Beginner Strap On For Him

Fetish Fantasy Beginners Strap On For Him:

“Perfect for rear-end rookies! You have teased him with your finger and your tongue, now he wants more. Give your boy-toy the anal satisfaction he craves with this petite 4.24 long curved jelly dong.

The shaft has a diameter ranging up to 1.25. The cleverly curved design will reach his sweet spot with ease. The durable 4-way nylon straps for the harness easily adjust to fit most, while the plush-lined harness comfortably stays in place when the action heats up.

The harness includes three interchangeable rubber rings of varying sizes to hold most of your favorite harness compatible toys. A free satin mask is included for keeping you or your lover guessing as to what comes next. Strap-on the passion and explore your fantasies.”

This awesome strap on retails for $38.89, but you can take 10% off with the offer code toysfor2 while this deal lasts.

Just because Valentine’s Day is over doesn’t mean that you should stop making an effort in the bedroom! While it’s easy to break out the candles, massage oils and special toys once a year, you’ll find that making intimacy a priority throughout the year will pay off big time. While you don’t have to break out a trunk full of sextoys every time you get busy, a little variety will keep things interesting. There’s no better way experience a wealth of pleasure without breaking the bank than picking up a quality Couple’s Kit. Whether you’re looking to get kinky, romantic or all kinds of freaky, you’re sure to find a kit that will fit the bill.

Here are my top five Couple’s Kits to help ensure you don’t experience a post Valentine’s Day sex slump!

1. White Nights Kit – If you’re relatively new to the toy game, you’re going to want to pick up this collection of quintessential Doc Johnson toys. You’ll get a pocket rocket, a multi-speed vibrating egg, massage oil and a traditional vibe. Really, every woman should have all four of these toys in her trunk no matter how many high-end vibes she collects.

2. The Weekender Kit – This small kit from Kama Sutra is the perfect accessory to any trip out of town. Of course, you’ll also have a ton of fun with it if you plan a romantic night at home, but it travels really well. Contains delicate portions of Oil of Love, Pleasure Balms, Honey Dust, Wild Clove and Mint Tree Bathing Gels!

3. Beginner’s Waterproof Harness and Dildo Set – If you’re curious about strap on play, this harness and dildo set from Sportsheets is a great place to start. The harness fits up to 60 inch hips and you’ll love the fact that it’s compatible with any flared base dildo that fits in the o-ring! I’m kind of in love with the entire Sex in the Shower line, to be honest…

4. Bondage Basics Restraint Kit – Kinklab makes some of the hottest bdsm stuff out there and this kit is a great introduction to them and bondage. It includes 2 leather handcuffs, 2 leather ankle cuffs, rope, and a blindfold so the possibilities are almost endless!

5. Sun Pack – You know we love glass dildos here at Sextoys.com and the only thing that can make purchasing one better is picking up a bunch of other great toys at the same time! The SUN PAK bundles a clear Lil’ Lady glass wand with a flower detail in the handle and an Earthly Body Naked In The Woods scented massage candle, a Lilac colored padded pouch, a sample pack of WET Platinum Lubricant. What else do you need for a night of fun!

For more great ideas, check out our Toys for Couples!