We’ve received many requests lately from customers asking which is the best toy for them.  It’s understandable that people can be overwhelmed with the number of sex toys that are on the market.  But it is also tough to answer that question.  If someone asked you which dildo was right for them, where do you begin? That’s a tough question.

Think about purchasing a vehicle, for instance.  A large family might want a mini-van, a carpenter would probably want a truck, some people buy cars to show off, others want hybrids for good gas mileage.  The point is, when you’re ready to buy a vehicle, you think about why you want a vehicle before you go shopping.

The last time we wrote about this subject was January, in a post titled Which Toy is Best?.  And if you’re looking for a bunch of extra details, that’s a great post to read.  But today we’re going to simplify the process (just in time for your holiday shopping).  Here are the basic questions you should ask yourself before you make a purchase:

1. What turns me on? The first key to selecting a sex toy is knowing what stimulation “does it” for you.  For women, do you like clitoral stimulation, G Spot stimulation, penetration, or all of the above?  For men, do you need something to help you take it slow and easy and enjoy the ride, or do you need something for a quickie?  Also guys, do you know the joys of prostate massage?  And for couples, what do you want to do together to spice things up, and what sex toy will accomplish that goal?

2. When and where will I use it? It’s pointless to purchase a sex toy that is impractical for your life.  Say you share a house or apartment and want something you can use privately.  What good is it to buy a vibrator that is extraordinarily loud?  Or you want something to use while you bathe or shower, but you buy something that isn’t water proof.  That doesn’t make much sense either.  Always make sure that a sex toy’s features will match up with the realities of your lifestyle.

3. What will it take to maintain it? Silicone, glass and hard plastic sex toys clean up in a snap, are usually very durable and require much less maintenance than most other materials.  They also last longer.  If you get a porous, or skin-like sex toy, are you willing to spend the time and energy to clean it properly, and store it according to manufacturer specifications?

4. Will this affect my body? If you have a latex allergy, you don’t want a rubber toy.  Remember also that your nose is a part of your body.  Some sex toys don’t have any smell associated with them (yes, silicone, glass and hard plastics – again).  Other sex toys do.  Jelly sex toys and rubber sex toys can carry strong smells in some instances.  You don’t want the smell of your dong to ruin the moment.

5. What am I willing to pay? Notice that this question comes last.  It’s pointless to buy an inexpensive sex toy if you can’t use it because it’s too loud, too big, too weak, not waterproof, and the list could go on.  Once you know what you want, then you can price shop.  For a first sex toy, it is always better to spend a few dollars more and get a high quality product.  The healthiness and happiness it can bring is far preferable to a few dollars saved leading to massive disappointment.

We hope this helps you in your shopping.  Good luck!

While talking about Toy Cleaners isn’t as nearly as fun or sexy as discussing the hottest dildos out there, it’s pretty important. It’s really important to take care of your toys for a couple of reasons. First, you want to get the most out of your investment – cleaning your toys is a big part of proper maintenance. Secondly, and most importantly, a dirty toy is one that spreads all sorts of germs and bacteria and that’s not good for anyone.

I love Pjur Lube, so when I saw that they made toy cleaning wipes I had to check them out. They’re really convenient and work really well, but since I’m trying to keep an eye out on my carbon footprint, I only use these for travel.  They’re a lot more convenient when you’re on the road, especially with the restrictions on liquids if you’re flying.  When I’m at home, I use a bottle of their Spray Cleaner.

For gentle, hygienic, personal cleaning Pjur Med Clean Spray Lotion and Moist Towelettes are safe for use on all skin types, sensitive or irritated.

And safe for application on alcohol sensitive materials such as latex, rubber and silicone. Simply apply directly onto the part of the skin or object to be cleaned and wipe. Available in a disinfecting spray and a sanitizing wipe. Pjur Med Clean hygiene aids work as a guard against the spread of infection and disease having an intensive antimicrobial effect against bacteria, fungal infections, and viruses such as Hepatitis B and HIV (*Pjur Med Clean has an anti-viral effect against lipophilic enveloped viruses).

Pjur Med Clean is intended for topical use exclusively and should not replace the use of condoms. Dermatologist tested. Neutral to taste and smell. Alcohol free.

Another product that I have used is Climax Bursts Toy Cleaner, and while I prefer Pjur, this is a good product that’s a little more affordable if you’re looking to save a few bucks. Honestly, the reason I like Pjur is because I think the spray bottle is more convenient, but there’s nothing wrong with this stuff. The gel formula also helps to make sure you don’t end with it every where!

Toy Cleaners are a great way to make sure you keep all of your favorite toys in great shape. I especially love them for vibrators, because I’m always nervous about electronics and water. With one of these convenient products, there’s no chance of water getting anywhere it shouldn’t be and ruining my buzz!

Be sure to check out all of the Toy Cleaners available on Sextoys.com.

If you’re looking for a fun and unique gift for your lover for the coming holiday season, I have a great suggestion that’s sure to please you both!

The Adult Toybox from For Your Nymphomation is the perfect way to keep you prime your love life for 2010. If you have a trunk full of toys, it’s all you’ll need to set the mood for a night of fun and games.

Feel like a little light kink? Leave this sexy fuax leather case on the bed with a blindfold, feather tickler and handcuffs inside so there’s no doubt what you’re in the mood for! If this is your first foray into sex toys, you can include a couple of our fantastic Toys for Beginners and introduce some new tricks into your game. A a bottle of water-based lube and a pocket rocket would be a great way to start, but there are a ton of options that are great for newbies!

Of course, this case is good for every day storage and absolutely perfect for travel. No one will know what you have lined up for the evening when you check into a hotel with this stylish case full of naughty good times!