How To Have Fun With Prostate Massage
Guys who have experienced an orgasm via prostate massage can tell you that a prostate massager could easily become a man’s best friend. And women or men who know how to administer a prostate massage can easily overtake the prostate massager on that guy’s cool list. But how do you really have fun with a prostate massage? We have some tips to get you going.
This is the part where, being anal retentive about things, we remind you to go see a doctor and make sure your prostate is in good health before you try this. An inflamed prostate receiving any pressure at all will definitely make your day a painful one. Also, you don’t want to cause further injury if your prostate is not healthy. Get a clean bill of health before you give it a go, especially if you are over 40 years old.
So we’ll start with a little information about the prostate. From WebMD:
“The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and the penis. The prostate is just in front of the rectum. The urethra runs through the center of the prostate, from the bladder to the penis, letting urine flow out of the body.
The prostate secretes fluid that nourishes and protects sperm. During ejaculation, the prostate squeezes this fluid into the urethra, and it’s expelled with sperm as semen.
The vasa deferentia (singular: vas deferens) bring sperm from the testes to the seminal vesicles. The seminal vesicles contribute fluid to semen during ejaculation.”
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That’s the long way of saying that when you ejaculate, the prostate is intimately involved. And, as a side note, frequent ejaculation might actually be good for your prostate. That’s where a prostate massage can be an added treat.
Now, in some fetish play, prostate massage is used for creating ejaculation alone – or a “ruined orgasm.” If you are into orgasm denial, that’s your ticket. But, if like me, you kind of consider an orgasm a fun part of sex, then you might want to go for the prostate massage – masturbation combo. Or you could even go for the mother of all orgasmic explosions with the prostate massage – perineum massage – oral sex package that will leave you as a collection of jumbled, happy nerve endings.
Here are your tips to get going. First, start small. Have your partner use her or his finger to gently massage the prostate. Simple strokes along it are best for a smooth experience. I strongly recommend a healthy dose of water based lubricant and a rubber glove for the first time. And make sure all fingernails are neatly trimmed. Let your partner massage your prostate while you masturbate. This will get you comfortable with the stimulation.
Next, experiment with internal massage versus a massage of the perineum alone. The perineum is a stretch of skin between the testicles and anus. The perineum is directly below the prostate. You can do a perineum massage first, if you like, but I always suggest internal first to get a feel for anal stimulation. You may find that the perineum massage is a better way for you, but remember that the urethra runs along the perineum and some people find it uncomfortable to get that kind of massage.
After that, you might want to try out a prostate massager. Many vibrate, some offer multiple massage points, but almost all of them function better than anything else for a great prostate massage. Again, start small. The last thing you want to do is start anal play with the largest sex toy you can find.
Next, always remember to pay close attention to your comfort level. If something starts to feel uncomfortable, stop the massage. This is important. You can cause injury to yourself if you don’t pay close attention.
And finally, some of you have been waiting to hear how to get the best of all combos. That’s something you and your partner will need to discover together. Good luck and enjoy the journey!
