Time to get in touch with your naughty side

Tick. Tick. Tick.  Your time is running out to get awesome fetish sex toys, costumes and adult party fare for your Halloween celebration!  As we previously mentioned, you want a memorable and fun Halloween party.  You don’t want to become a victim of Lame Party Syndrome.  And even if your Halloween celebration will be limited to you and your partner, having the perfect sex toys are a great way to add spice to the celebration.

Up until now, we’ve shown you the lighter side of Halloween fun.  But some of you – the really lucky ones – like to have a little more wicked fun.  That’s where we can help you with our great selection of Fetish Sex Toys.  So get in touch with your naughty side for some wild fetish fun.

Now, we should mention that you’ll need to bring your imagination along for this trip.  The naughtier you feel, the more fun you’ll have.  Whether it is getting the perfect wicked look for a night out, being a little too “tied up” to make the party, giving your partner a Halloween spanking, or, if you really engage your imagination, taking the whole costume idea to a whole new level with some true BDSM role play.  The REALLY imaginative might even want to open their own Halloween dungeon.

That’s right, the only limits you have are the limits of your imagination!

Let’s start with that wicked look for a night out.  If you’ve picked your costume, you’ll want to accessorize to get your own unique look.  Check out these Eyelash Spike Goggles for that wicked look you want.

Eyelash Spike Goggles

From Axovus:

“Axovus Eyelash Spike Goggles are uber cool goggles! One size fits all, fully adjustable head strap and bridge chain, these uber cool goggles feature six 1 1/4″ claw spikes.

These goggles also feature removable 50mm lenses, comes standard with smoke colored lens, red, blue and 3D lenses available.”

And if you like the spiked look, you can move it down to your wrists with the intense Bolts and Spikes Gauntlet, which is probably the most hard core product for accessories we have in stock.  Toss in a Spiked Collar and you’ll have the Axovus trinity of awesomeness for the complete, sexually charged and dominating fetish look.

But you don’t have to go out to have a good time on Halloween.  It’s true.  Some of you like to be a little too “tied up” to make the party.  We like you.  We want to help you have every possible excuse, from the tightest to most erotic, to skip out on the song and dance and go straight for the squirm!

And for those of you who like this idea, we start with a good old fashioned Halloween Hog Tie!

Perverted Halloween wishes to you and yours

“The First and only HOG TIE that allows full access to all of your partners most intimate areas. Just Lock the wrist and ankles to the thighs and enjoy the journey…”

We like people who enjoy the hard core.  Shoot, WE like the hard core.  Find the hard core restraints to keep you tied up in our Restraints category.

Get things really hot with these

We apologize.  Was that not hard core enough for you?  If so, you’re our kind of fetish fanatic.  So you want something a little more intense?

How about a gag?  Should we throw in some nipple clamps?  What if we combined the gag and nipple clamps?  Are you warming up to the idea?

The Fetish Fantasy O-ring with Nipple Clamps is just what you need!

“Open WIDE!

Get your lover to open wide and say AHHH with this naughty O-Ring Gag with Nipple Clamps. The gag consists of a small metal O-ring wrapped in leather, connected to two sturdy leather straps.

Two chained nipple clamps keep your nipples perky, and the coated clamps easily adjust to fit your desired tension. The leather straps adjust to fit most sizes, pulling the ring tight and keeping the mouth open wide. You’re in control over when and how often your lover speaks…what you do next is up to you!

Free mask included.”

Some of you want to mix your costume fun with some serious, real life role play.  Time for a master and slave, yeah?  Maybe your man needs a strong dominatrix.  Maybe your WOMAN needs a strong dominatrix.  Maybe you want to take your captive to the dungeon!

We have a variety of choices that let you play the way you want.  With Cock and Ball Toys and Chastity Devices, you can get him under control.  Take her to the dungeon for a spanking, or for some intense breast play.  You can collar your slave and make him wear a hood or blindfold.

You can even play doctor for Halloween

We think you’re getting the idea.  With our selection of Fetish Sex Toys, you can get in touch with the wicked within and turn your Halloween celebration into the naughtiest fun you can imagine.  Whether you want an explosive orgasm, or you want to deny your slave his, we have everything you need.

Make sure to get your fetish gear soon, or you won’t have it for the holiday!  Happy Halloween, and be careful with his package when you play hard, you might want it around later!

In my last post, I highlighted some of my favorite toys from a few of our Sex Toys For Women categories including Fun Factory’s Smart Balls. Today I thought I’d take a look at a few more because there are just way too many amazing sex toys to squeeze into one little post!

I thought we’d talk about G-Spot Sex Toys first today, mostly because I freaking love them.  I can honestly recommend at least a dozen of these toys from personal experience, but today I’m going to highlight Lovemoiselle’s Aveline for a couple of reasons. First, this gorgeous dildo is crafted from non-porous and phthalate-free ceramic. How cool is that? If you like unique items, you’ll definitely love this body-safe toy. Secondly, and most importantly, this one is great for beginners because the thoughtful design guides this smooth toy to your g-spot almost effortlessly. Looks aren’t everything and this dildo is built to please!

As long as I’m talking about unique materials, I thought I’d highlight this aluminum vibrator from Doc Johnson. This waterproof vibe is perfect for the women who has everything!

You want originality and innovation. We give you ALUMINATION. A whole new concept in all sensory stimulation. Incredible to look at, wonderful to hold and exciting to use. The all new Aluminum Vibrator from Doc Johnson.

Virtually silent, 3-Speed motor, waterproof and powerful. Unique packaging and a price point everybody loves, this vibrator is a sure winner. Available in three shimmering colors – Black, Gold or Pink, these vibrators are the talk of the town.

Get your six inches of the latest and the greatest from the company that brings you the future – Today.

Of course, if you’re looking for a more traditional toy, we’ve got an eclectic collection of toys in our Vibrators for Women section including silicone toys, pocket rockets and discreet vibes.

Finally, I couldn’t talk about toys form women without discussing our Rabbit Vibes category! The only toy that rivals the popularity of the rabbit vibe is the legendary Hitachi Magic Wand! Back when I was relatively new to the world of sex toys, a friend gave me the Rabbit Habit, and let me just say that I haven’t been the same since. Believe the hype people, because this toy is built to rock your world!

Need the perfect vibe? Just like its cousin, the Rabbit Pearl, this lovely, purple elastomor dual-action vibrator has tumbling pearls and a rabbit-shaped stimulator.

The only difference? The vibrations are controlled from the base instead of a separate battery pack. Featured in O Magazine as the Rolls Royce of sex toys.

Also in Self, Glamour, Jane and many more publications. The total length is 9 inches with an insertable length of 4 inches.

If you’re looking to purchase a new item to add to your sex toy arsenal, what are you waiting for?  Head over to our Sex Toys For Women category and check out the best toys available!

Also, don’t forget to check out the first Sex Toys For Women Feature!

Let me just start by saying there are a lot of freaking sex toys available today. I’m completely overwhelmed by the choices and this is my job. I can’t imagine what it’s like for someone who decides it’s time to purchase their toy. That’s why we’ve spent a ton of time picking out the best of the best for our Sex Toys For Women category. If that work saves one woman from buying the wrong toy, it was totally worth it.

Today I thought I’d highlight some of my favorite items in each sub-category including the Mia rechargeable vibe from Lelo. Every lady should own a great Clitoral toy and this is my current fav.  It has four great vibration modes, which is awesome, but the coolest thing is that it charges through a computer’s USB port.  It’s really a must have for any one who travels for business!

MIA is a discreet pleasure object carefully designed to combine versatility and convenience, intended for private enjoyment at all times.

This elegant lipstick vibrator nestles seductively in your handbag, her size and chargeability making her available whenever needed, whether on a long intercontinental flight or during a break on a busy day. Glossy and attractive, MIAs intuitive interface and four stimulation modes allow total control in the midst of ecstasy.

She is rechargeable and a 2-hour charge provides up to 4 hours of bliss. Comes presented in an elegant gift box, accessorised with extension cord for USB charging, manual and a 1-year LELO warranty.

Smart Balls

Maybe you’ve heard about the wonders of Kegel exercises and are in the market for a Pelvic Exerciser that will help you strengthen your PC muscle.  I remember the first time I considered purchasing one of these and how clueless I was so I’m happy to recommend Fun Factory’s Smart Balls for all of you who might be looking for a suggestion.  Besides the added health benefits of a stronger PC muscle, these are also a lot of fun!

One thing that sets the Smart Balls apart is that they are coated in hygenically superior silicone.  I also love the durable retrieval cord!

Finally, I want to talk about my new favorite dildo – The Curve from Tantus. I’ve been a big fan of Tantus’ silicone toys for a long time, but this recent addition has rekindled the passion in our relationship.  From it’s distinct curve to the new and improved flared base, I love every inch of this dong.

The Curve is the first of a new line of Tantus products to feature a wider base, enabling people to combine the versatility of harness play with the direct G-Spot stimulation all women crave.

Better still, the subtle angle of the Curve makes it ideal for anal or vaginal play, and the smooth silicone makes penetration a joy for men or women.

It’s a really versatile dildo that’s great for solo or partnered play.  Of course, silicone is phthalate-free, non-porous and can be sterilized.  While there are a ton of great toys in the Dildos for Women sub-category, this is the one I love the most!

Stay tuned for a follow up post in which I’ll take a look at the rest of the amazing choices in our Sex Toys for Women section.

Flexi Felix Anal Toy

A common question that relates to adult play asks whether or not anal stimulation can lead to orgasm.  We’ve covered all kinds of orgasms in this blog, from what seem to be random orgasms, to Extended Massive Orgasm.  And as regular readers know, different people will experience stimulation in many different ways.  Orgasms can occur because of a variety of stimulations.

But can you achieve an anal orgasm because of anal stimulation.  Our answer?  Sure, why couldn’t you have an orgasm because of anal stimulation?

As we covered in our discussion of analingus, not all anal stimulation is safe, so you have to be careful when you engage in anal play or anal sex.  But most anal stimulation is perfectly safe, provided you take the proper precautions for you and your partner.  Let’s go over a few points to keep things fun.

Anal Sex – Basic Steps for Fun and Safety

First, everyone has to relax.  Your first anal experience should be an easy, comfortable time.  Going straight from never having had anal sex to full blown penetration could turn into a painful lesson in patience.  Taking a few steps one by one is a good plan for your first time.  Relaxing could be as simple as a good massage, lots of foreplay and even a tasty adult beverage before you get started.  Once everyone is “in the groove,” you can proceed to experimenting.

Next, have a good supply of lubricant on hand.  The anus provides no natural lubrication, so you need to use as much lube as it takes to make things comfortable (that amount will vary from one person to the next).  If you are using latex gloves or condoms, make sure that you ONLY use a water-based lubricant.  If you use oil or silicone based lube on latex, you’ll be in for a melting, gooey surprise.

Why would latex gloves be involved?  Easy, you might want to get your partner used to anal stimulation gently.  Using a single finger for gentle penetration allows your partner to get used to the sensation.  Another option is to get an anal beginner’s kit that has graduated anal plugs so that you can take your time and go easy.

Juli Ashton Anal Beginner Kit

One other important idea: Masturbating your partner, or having your partner masturbate as you experiment with these sensations allows your partner to create an association between anal sex and orgasm.  This can lead to even more intense orgasms as the anal stimulation becomes more familiar.

Those are the standard rules for getting started.  Now we’ll break things up a little for women and men.  The approaches can be different for either sex, so we’ll separate them to make it simple.

Anal Sex Ideas for Women

Four Seasons Condoms

Once you’ve taken the time to become accustomed to anal stimulation, you’ll probably want to branch into anal sex. Most people automatically assume that this means hit the hands and knees and go straight to doggie style anal sex.  Often, that’s the worst way to get started.  Women might want to start anal sex in a classic “Cowgirl” position, where the woman is on top and in control of the penetration.

Missionary is also another great option for anal sex.  It limits the depth of penetration, and it’s definitely more intimate than doggie style as you and your partner try a whole new experience.  Again, during anal sex it is perfectly fine to masturbate, and some people swear by Bullets to achieve intense, body shaking orgasms.

You may find that you don’t need a bullet or masturbation.  It is quite possible to have an orgasm with only anal stimulation alone.  There are no rules, other than to be safe and have fun.

And if things get uncomfortable, just stop and come back to it another time!

Anal Sex Ideas for Men

Your new best friend Bob

You’re too macho for back door play, eh?  All that tells us is that you haven’t had a prostate massage induced orgasm.  Have one of those and get back to us on the macho stuff (we suspect you’ll be asking our experts which prostate massager is right for you).  Anal stimulation is great for women, but some men just can’t get enough either.

Some gay and bisexual men enjoy anal play together, but you don’t have to be gay or bisexual to enjoy anal stimulation.  The growing number of men buying strap ons tells us that straight men have caught on to the joys of anal sex too.  Now, here’s where we find a common bickering point.  Is there a difference between an anal orgasm and a prostate orgasm?  Do you really care?  We don’t.

If something is safe and makes you come, it doesn’t really matter what caused it scientifically.  Guys, you differ from women slightly.  The prostate is just inside your anus, right above your perineum (the area between your scrotum and anus).  It pays to be careful around the prostate.  If you’re going to have your partner use fingers for warm up, watch out for fingernails!  And remember that the prostate is sensitive.

Prostate massagers can give you a knee buckling, drooling and mind numbing orgasm like you’ve never experienced.  If your partner learns how to manipulate one to please you, be careful.  She’ll have the power to make you her love slave.  The rules on prostate massage are pretty simple.  If you have prostate issues, don’t do it.  Otherwise, you’ll want gentle, steady strokes on your prostate until you come.  It takes varying times, but if you’re patient, you’ll get the big prize.

Take a break from being the big doggie and give her some fun too

Same as with anal sex, you can masturbate during anal stimulation to get the best of both worlds.  In fact, you can folow the same rules as a woman.  Heck, give her a strap on, lube up, grab a masturbator and get completely freaky.  You can use your imagination to have a ball.  Plus, she might like a break from the mundane and an opportunity to play the role of Big Doggie!

Enjoy it, and if it gets uncomfortable, stop and come back to it later.

So we know anal orgasm is possible.  We know anal sex can be perfectly safe.  We know that many people enjoy it all the time.  All that’s left is for you to get busy enjoying it!

Regular readers know that we take sexual health and well being very seriously.  We like to have fun when we talk about sex and sexuality, but we also recognize that sexual health is a serious subject that makes a difference in people’s happiness and quality of life.  In that context, we want to take a moment to acknowledge Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

First, we’d like to thank the medical professionals who care for the people who have breast cancer, and the researchers who are working to eliminate it altogether.  With luck and adequate resources, we hope to see an end to the disease.

And we’d like to remind our readers that early discovery of breast cancer makes it easier to treat and eliminate.  We urge all of our readers to work to prevent your risk of having breast cancer.  You can find a few tips here.  We wish everyone good health, and urge you to support breast cancer research.