There is nothing sexier than garter straps tugging at a garter belt or under apparel, creating the perfect archway view to that tauntingly titillating area where her cheeks meet her stems.  This sassy little lingerie set does just that.  That in combination with the sheerness makes the Coquine Babydoll Set perfect for the perfect tease.

The pink bows add an adorably feminine touch to this sexy piece of lingerie.  Also, if you’d like to wear it as a little nightie, you can simply remove the garter straps.  If you do take them off, keep them in a safe place where they won’t get lost.  (I have a habit of losing removable garter and bra straps).  I do love how the look of this garment has a hint of burlesque to it.  Slip into this hot little get-up and you’ll be a total Sheba!

“Soft cups, adjustable back straps and removable garter straps are only part of the appeal! Babydoll has a sheer front panel with embroidered pink bows, large peek-a-boo cut out in back. Over sized bows on both the babydoll and matching thong.”

Speaking of Sheba’s, please direct your eyes to the video below.  You are about view one of the sexiest, most vivacious and downright stunning legends that burlesque has ever seen.  Of all of the videos I have posted on SexToysForLadies, this is one of our Experts absolute favorite.

Without further ado, please enjoy the lovely Blaze Starr!

I’m guessing I’m not the only one who’s already begun their holiday shopping. I’m all about getting things done early because I’d rather snap my own neck then fight some old lady over the last pair of cashmere gloves at Macy’s. If you’re looking for a gift that keeps on giving for that special someone, I can recommend the Kama Sutra Bedside Box from personal experience!

That’s right, one of the perks of my job is trying out stuff so I can better serve you, dear reader. Of course, I do waste my time with a few duds, but this is one I can suggest to anyone who’s looking to increase intimacy. Inside this elegant wooden box you’ll find plenty of goodies like Kama Sutra’s Honey Dust, Spicy Oil of Love, Lubricating Love Liquid and French Vanilla Body Creme. If that’s not enough to keep you busy in the bedroom, I don’t know what is!

My favorite is definitely the Honey Dust, which comes with a cute feather applicator. I took my time running the feather along my partner’s body before licking the sweet dust off. It’s a great reason to linger over a lover for a long time! I also really like the French Vanilla Body Creme. After taking turns giving sensual massages with it, we were both rewarded with sweet kisses for the rest of the night!

Also included is a small bottle of Kama Sutra’s insanely popular Oil of Love. It’s a flavored warming lube that’s more subtle than a lot of products like it. If you love the idea of a warming lube, but have experienced the fear that comes when dabbing one on as your most sensitive bits are suddenly on fire, you might really like this one because it’s not as extreme. I don’t super love the flavor, but there are other options that I hope to try out in the future.

My only issue came when I picked up the Lubricating Love Liquid to discover that it contains Glycerin. I don’t use lube with that ingredient because my body disagrees with it and I’m not a big fan of yeast infections. I passed it on to a male friend who’s used it for solo play and reports back that it stays slippery and cleans up easy – so that’s good news!

Besides being packed full of sexy fun, this gorgeous box is something that you can leave on your nightstand and fill with all sorts of goodies. I’ve added a couple of my favorite lubes and my chapstick to mine! Whether you’re looking to treat yourself or a loved one, this is a great gift!

If you like the sensation of a dildo, and you want to fantasize, a life-like dildo can add just the right touch to your adult play session.  Dildos come in a variety of interesting shapes, range across many sizes and can be colored from the fanciful to sensational.  Some are designed to stimulate the G Spot, others have nubs for clitoral stimulation, and some come with flared bases for anal use.

Dave Angelos Cock

But the life-like dildo is designed for realism. Some are even molded from real penises!  Here’s a great example – Dave Angelo’s Cock:

“Nearly a foot long, this is one impressive dildo.

Molded from Dave Angelo’s's own penis and made out of Better-Than-Real Plus, this dildo captures even the tiniest detail of Dave to bring you an incredibly realistic experience. It is 10 inches in length, 2 inches in width and has a circumference of 6.25 inches.

It has a sturdy suction cup base so you can stick Dave wherever you would like, but it also makes this dildo harness compatible as well. It comes with a premium storage bag made out of stretchy black velour.

The veined shaft and perfectly shaped head make this the life like dildo you have been looking for!”

With attention to anatomical detail and even contour, realistic dildos give you a sex toy that is perfect for the ultimate sexual fantasies.  Like any other sex toy, realistic dildos encompass a range of different qualities.  Going through a quick checklist can help you find the perfect realistic dildo to fulfill your fantasy.

First, how large of a dildo do you want?  We always pose this question to users, because choosing a dildo that is too large can be a waste of your money.  You want to find the right sized dildo before you go any further.  The right size is entirely your personal preference and tolerance.  Some come as small as 1 inch wide.  Others can be up to 2 and a half inches wide.  We think you get the idea.  It’s a huge stretch between 1 and 2 and a half inches.

The John Doe Cocoa is a great example of a medium sized, life-like dildo:

“The 6.5 inch Tantus John Doe won’t be an unknown cock for long with all of it’s amazing qualities. This high quality silicone dong has an extra bonus bullet vibe that adds an extra stimulation that’s sure to rock your world!

John Doe Cocoa

100% platinum silicone dong from Tantus is hypoallergenic, boilable, bleachable and dishwasher safe. If you’re looking for a quality cock, you can’t go wrong with John Doe.”

8 Inch Life Like Dildo

Now we get into the fantasy.  What color and texture will most appeal to you?  Dildos range in many flesh colors and can have many skin textures.  Do you like a veined feel?  How about the curve of the dildo?  If you look at the dildo and it doesn’t appeal to you, it can kill the fantasy.  So picking the best is a unique decision for each person.

Want some adult play with a Latin stud?  Maybe you want some fun time with a porn star.  Maybe you have an interracial fantasy.  Whatever your desire, you can find a dildo to fulfill it.  Check out this ethnic fantasy dildo, the 8 Inch Life-Like Dildo – Black:

“8 Inch Life Like Dildo – Black. If you’re looking for a realistic cock that’s perfect for strap-on play, look no further! This black dildo looks and feels like the real thing and is compatible with Doc Johnson’s famous Vac-U-Lock system. This dong is a great recreation of an erect cock with balls, along with its distinct head and veiny shaft!

Please note that this toy does not come with a plug or harness.

It is 8 inches long.”

As you can see, dildos come in a variety of fantasy designs.  If you really want to enjoy a fantasy that gives you everything you want in sex, you can find the dildo that is perfect for bringing it to reality.  You can even find an ejaculating dildo for the complete feel!

Take some time to shop our selection and find the dildo that will turn your fantasy into reality!

A new adult play experiment

You and your partner have decided to try something new.  The same old things aren’t lighting the fires anymore.  You want to try out some erotic bondage.  That’s a great choice for fetish play, and easy enough to do.  But you have to take the time to educate yourself about the ins, outs, do’s and don’ts of erotic bondage to make sure that you get the most from your experience.

Before you start checking the bedposts for strength, you and your partner need to sit down for a quick chat.  A good understanding of each partner’s boundaries is essential to safe bondage play.  You’ll also want a safe word to avoid confusion.  Sometimes fantasies come with a need for the word “No” when a partner doesn’t need it.  A safe word is a totally unrelated word to the scene.

I’ve even heard the word apple used as a safe word.  For a complete discussion, you can see our previous post on the subject.  Once you have the boundaries and structure in place psychologically for safe play, now you can get to the physical aspects.

Be careful and use the right tools

What kind of bondage do you want to try?  A sexy, artistic and non-threatening choice is to use a silk binding sash.  This sort of play highlights the beauty of your partner’s body, without being restrictive in any meaningful way.  This is true light psychological play at it’s finest.

If you want to try a more restrictive style, be careful.  Running down to the hardware store and picking up 300 feet of nylon rope and some ceiling hooks only looks like a good idea to a beginner.  This method gets a rope burned partner and a trip back to boring sex.  Start simply.

Simple cotton rope can be erotic, restrictive and completely safe.  But before you get into tying your partner up, read.  Study the best and safest methods for bondage.  Two Knotty Boys produce a great guide for beginners.

Or you can watch as professional Nina Hartley lays out the basics in Nina Hartley’s Guide to Erotic Bondage.  This DVD has all of the pointers that help you to avoid common mistakes that beginners often make, and how to get the most out of your erotic bondage play.

You can even now get ready made bondage gear that requires nothing more than the manipulation of a velcro strap.  Under the Bed Restraints by SportSheets are a great option for beginners who want to experiment with the sensations, without too much effort.

And finally, don’t be afraid to experiment with adding other imaginative ideas to your erotic bondage play.  You never know what you might like, and with the safety in place up front, you can find all new ways to have fun!

You know that old saying, “life is about the journey, not the destination?” I’m here to advocate applying that theory to your sex life. While there’s nothing wrong with a frantic quickie someplace inappropriate, I have to say that nothing beats of hours of teasing foreplay and where it eventually leads! Because of this, we’ve taken all of our favorite tools of seduction and created our Toys for Beginners – Tease category. Here you can find everything you need to have your partner begging for more.

Discover Your Lover

Let me begin by highlighting a great game that’s perfect for couples who are looking to increase intimacy in their relationship.  Whether you’ve been together for months or years, there’s always something to learn!  Discover Your Lover is an erotic game for two that will surprise and titilate!

The goal of Discover Your Lover is to activate and stimulate a couples sexual energy and heighten their attention for each other. The game can be played tenderly or fiery. The variety makes the Discover Your Lover a game you can’t put down!

Of course, I can’t talk about foreplay without discussing setting the mood.  It’s not always necessary, but it’s always nice to show you’ve put some thought into you seduction.  This French Vanilla Candle is the perfect way to add a little ambiance and everyone looks better in candle light!

Relaxing scent, arousing power! The Champagne Lights Candle fills the air with pleasant scents while the pheromones release a romantic air about the room. For that added glow of romance!

Finally, because everyone loves chocolate, you should consider Kama Sutra’s Lover’s Paint Box. This one would make the perfect gift for an artistic friend and is perfect for long romantic sessions in the bedroom.  Draw all over your lover in delicious body chocolate before spending plenty of time licking it off!

These rich, silky body chocolates have been created to brush on and lick off. Beautifully packages in a flip top box with an artistic sensibility. Includes one jar each of Milk, Dark and White Chocolate, plus a paintbrush to inspire creativity.

If you’re ever in need of inspiration in the bedroom, you’ll find plenty of ways to Tease and please your lover at sextoys.com!