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Sassy Lingerie and A Burlesque Queen

Friday, October 30th, 2009

Peek-A-Booty

There is nothing sexier than garter straps tugging at a garter belt or under apparel, creating the perfect archway view to that tauntingly titillating area where her cheeks meet her stems.  This sassy little lingerie set does just that.  That in combination with the sheerness makes the Coquine Babydoll Set perfect for the perfect tease.

The pink bows add an adorably feminine touch to this sexy piece of lingerie.  Also, if you’d like to wear it as a little nightie, you can simply remove the garter straps.  If you do take them off, keep them in a safe place where they won’t get lost.  (I have a habit of losing removable garter and bra straps).  I do love how the look of this garment has a hint of burlesque to it.  Slip into this hot little get-up and you’ll be a total Sheba!

Not so bad from the front either.

“Soft cups, adjustable back straps and removable garter straps are only part of the appeal! Babydoll has a sheer front panel with embroidered pink bows, large peek-a-boo cut out in back. Over sized bows on both the babydoll and matching thong.”

Speaking of Sheba’s, please direct your eyes to the video below.  You are about view one of the sexiest, most vivacious and downright stunning legends that burlesque has ever seen.  Of all of the videos I have posted on SexToysForLadies, this is one of our Experts absolute favorite.

Without further ado, please enjoy the lovely Blaze Starr!

Review – Kama Sutra Bedside Box

Wednesday, October 28th, 2009

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I’m guessing I’m not the only one who’s already begun their holiday shopping. I’m all about getting things done early because I’d rather snap my own neck then fight some old lady over the last pair of cashmere gloves at Macy’s. If you’re looking for a gift that keeps on giving for that special someone, I can recommend the Kama Sutra Bedside Box from personal experience!

That’s right, one of the perks of my job is trying out stuff so I can better serve you, dear reader. Of course, I do waste my time with a few duds, but this is one I can suggest to anyone who’s looking to increase intimacy. Inside this elegant wooden box you’ll find plenty of goodies like Kama Sutra’s Honey Dust, Spicy Oil of Love, Lubricating Love Liquid and French Vanilla Body Creme. If that’s not enough to keep you busy in the bedroom, I don’t know what is!

My favorite is definitely the Honey Dust, which comes with a cute feather applicator. I took my time running the feather along my partner’s body before licking the sweet dust off. It’s a great reason to linger over a lover for a long time! I also really like the French Vanilla Body Creme. After taking turns giving sensual massages with it, we were both rewarded with sweet kisses for the rest of the night!

Also included is a small bottle of Kama Sutra’s insanely popular Oil of Love. It’s a flavored warming lube that’s more subtle than a lot of products like it. If you love the idea of a warming lube, but have experienced the fear that comes when dabbing one on as your most sensitive bits are suddenly on fire, you might really like this one because it’s not as extreme. I don’t super love the flavor, but there are other options that I hope to try out in the future.

My only issue came when I picked up the Lubricating Love Liquid to discover that it contains Glycerin. I don’t use lube with that ingredient because my body disagrees with it and I’m not a big fan of yeast infections. I passed it on to a male friend who’s used it for solo play and reports back that it stays slippery and cleans up easy – so that’s good news!

Besides being packed full of sexy fun, this gorgeous box is something that you can leave on your nightstand and fill with all sorts of goodies. I’ve added a couple of my favorite lubes and my chapstick to mine! Whether you’re looking to treat yourself or a loved one, this is a great gift!

Dildos That Look Real for Fantasy

Monday, October 26th, 2009

If you like the sensation of a dildo, and you want to fantasize, a life-like dildo can add just the right touch to your adult play session.  Dildos come in a variety of interesting shapes, range across many sizes and can be colored from the fanciful to sensational.  Some are designed to stimulate the G Spot, others have nubs for clitoral stimulation, and some come with flared bases for anal use.

Dave Angelos Cock

Dave Angelos Cock

But the life-like dildo is designed for realism. Some are even molded from real penises!  Here’s a great example – Dave Angelo’s Cock:

“Nearly a foot long, this is one impressive dildo.

Molded from Dave Angelo’s's own penis and made out of Better-Than-Real Plus, this dildo captures even the tiniest detail of Dave to bring you an incredibly realistic experience. It is 10 inches in length, 2 inches in width and has a circumference of 6.25 inches.

It has a sturdy suction cup base so you can stick Dave wherever you would like, but it also makes this dildo harness compatible as well. It comes with a premium storage bag made out of stretchy black velour.

The veined shaft and perfectly shaped head make this the life like dildo you have been looking for!”

With attention to anatomical detail and even contour, realistic dildos give you a sex toy that is perfect for the ultimate sexual fantasies.  Like any other sex toy, realistic dildos encompass a range of different qualities.  Going through a quick checklist can help you find the perfect realistic dildo to fulfill your fantasy.

First, how large of a dildo do you want?  We always pose this question to users, because choosing a dildo that is too large can be a waste of your money.  You want to find the right sized dildo before you go any further.  The right size is entirely your personal preference and tolerance.  Some come as small as 1 inch wide.  Others can be up to 2 and a half inches wide.  We think you get the idea.  It’s a huge stretch between 1 and 2 and a half inches.

The John Doe Cocoa is a great example of a medium sized, life-like dildo:

“The 6.5 inch Tantus John Doe won’t be an unknown cock for long with all of it’s amazing qualities. This high quality silicone dong has an extra bonus bullet vibe that adds an extra stimulation that’s sure to rock your world!

John Doe Cocoa

John Doe Cocoa

100% platinum silicone dong from Tantus is hypoallergenic, boilable, bleachable and dishwasher safe. If you’re looking for a quality cock, you can’t go wrong with John Doe.”

8 Inch Life Like Dildo

8 Inch Life Like Dildo

Now we get into the fantasy.  What color and texture will most appeal to you?  Dildos range in many flesh colors and can have many skin textures.  Do you like a veined feel?  How about the curve of the dildo?  If you look at the dildo and it doesn’t appeal to you, it can kill the fantasy.  So picking the best is a unique decision for each person.

Want some adult play with a Latin stud?  Maybe you want some fun time with a porn star.  Maybe you have an interracial fantasy.  Whatever your desire, you can find a dildo to fulfill it.  Check out this ethnic fantasy dildo, the 8 Inch Life-Like Dildo – Black:

“8 Inch Life Like Dildo – Black. If you’re looking for a realistic cock that’s perfect for strap-on play, look no further! This black dildo looks and feels like the real thing and is compatible with Doc Johnson’s famous Vac-U-Lock system. This dong is a great recreation of an erect cock with balls, along with its distinct head and veiny shaft!

Please note that this toy does not come with a plug or harness.

It is 8 inches long.”

As you can see, dildos come in a variety of fantasy designs.  If you really want to enjoy a fantasy that gives you everything you want in sex, you can find the dildo that is perfect for bringing it to reality.  You can even find an ejaculating dildo for the complete feel!

Take some time to shop our selection and find the dildo that will turn your fantasy into reality!

Erotic Bondage for Beginners

Friday, October 23rd, 2009
A new adult play experiment

A new adult play experiment

You and your partner have decided to try something new.  The same old things aren’t lighting the fires anymore.  You want to try out some erotic bondage.  That’s a great choice for fetish play, and easy enough to do.  But you have to take the time to educate yourself about the ins, outs, do’s and don’ts of erotic bondage to make sure that you get the most from your experience.

Before you start checking the bedposts for strength, you and your partner need to sit down for a quick chat.  A good understanding of each partner’s boundaries is essential to safe bondage play.  You’ll also want a safe word to avoid confusion.  Sometimes fantasies come with a need for the word “No” when a partner doesn’t need it.  A safe word is a totally unrelated word to the scene.

I’ve even heard the word apple used as a safe word.  For a complete discussion, you can see our previous post on the subject.  Once you have the boundaries and structure in place psychologically for safe play, now you can get to the physical aspects.

Be careful and use the right tools

Be careful and use the right tools

What kind of bondage do you want to try?  A sexy, artistic and non-threatening choice is to use a silk binding sash.  This sort of play highlights the beauty of your partner’s body, without being restrictive in any meaningful way.  This is true light psychological play at it’s finest.

If you want to try a more restrictive style, be careful.  Running down to the hardware store and picking up 300 feet of nylon rope and some ceiling hooks only looks like a good idea to a beginner.  This method gets a rope burned partner and a trip back to boring sex.  Start simply.

Simple cotton rope can be erotic, restrictive and completely safe.  But before you get into tying your partner up, read.  Study the best and safest methods for bondage.  Two Knotty Boys produce a great guide for beginners.

Or you can watch as professional Nina Hartley lays out the basics in Nina Hartley’s Guide to Erotic Bondage.  This DVD has all of the pointers that help you to avoid common mistakes that beginners often make, and how to get the most out of your erotic bondage play.

You can even now get ready made bondage gear that requires nothing more than the manipulation of a velcro strap.  Under the Bed Restraints by SportSheets are a great option for beginners who want to experiment with the sensations, without too much effort.

And finally, don’t be afraid to experiment with adding other imaginative ideas to your erotic bondage play.  You never know what you might like, and with the safety in place up front, you can find all new ways to have fun!

Foreplay for Beginners

Wednesday, October 21st, 2009

You know that old saying, “life is about the journey, not the destination?” I’m here to advocate applying that theory to your sex life. While there’s nothing wrong with a frantic quickie someplace inappropriate, I have to say that nothing beats of hours of teasing foreplay and where it eventually leads! Because of this, we’ve taken all of our favorite tools of seduction and created our Toys for Beginners – Tease category. Here you can find everything you need to have your partner begging for more.

Discover Your Lover

Discover Your Lover

Let me begin by highlighting a great game that’s perfect for couples who are looking to increase intimacy in their relationship.  Whether you’ve been together for months or years, there’s always something to learn!  Discover Your Lover is an erotic game for two that will surprise and titilate!

The goal of Discover Your Lover is to activate and stimulate a couples sexual energy and heighten their attention for each other. The game can be played tenderly or fiery. The variety makes the Discover Your Lover a game you can’t put down!

Champagne-LightsOf course, I can’t talk about foreplay without discussing setting the mood.  It’s not always necessary, but it’s always nice to show you’ve put some thought into you seduction.  This French Vanilla Candle is the perfect way to add a little ambiance and everyone looks better in candle light!

Relaxing scent, arousing power! The Champagne Lights Candle fills the air with pleasant scents while the pheromones release a romantic air about the room. For that added glow of romance!

paint-boxFinally, because everyone loves chocolate, you should consider Kama Sutra’s Lover’s Paint Box. This one would make the perfect gift for an artistic friend and is perfect for long romantic sessions in the bedroom.  Draw all over your lover in delicious body chocolate before spending plenty of time licking it off!

These rich, silky body chocolates have been created to brush on and lick off. Beautifully packages in a flip top box with an artistic sensibility. Includes one jar each of Milk, Dark and White Chocolate, plus a paintbrush to inspire creativity.

If you’re ever in need of inspiration in the bedroom, you’ll find plenty of ways to Tease and please your lover at sextoys.com!

Last Chance Sex Toys for Halloween

Monday, October 19th, 2009
Time to get in touch with your naughty side

Time to get in touch with your naughty side

Tick. Tick. Tick.  Your time is running out to get awesome fetish sex toys, costumes and adult party fare for your Halloween celebration!  As we previously mentioned, you want a memorable and fun Halloween party.  You don’t want to become a victim of Lame Party Syndrome.  And even if your Halloween celebration will be limited to you and your partner, having the perfect sex toys are a great way to add spice to the celebration.

Up until now, we’ve shown you the lighter side of Halloween fun.  But some of you – the really lucky ones – like to have a little more wicked fun.  That’s where we can help you with our great selection of Fetish Sex Toys.  So get in touch with your naughty side for some wild fetish fun.

Now, we should mention that you’ll need to bring your imagination along for this trip.  The naughtier you feel, the more fun you’ll have.  Whether it is getting the perfect wicked look for a night out, being a little too “tied up” to make the party, giving your partner a Halloween spanking, or, if you really engage your imagination, taking the whole costume idea to a whole new level with some true BDSM role play.  The REALLY imaginative might even want to open their own Halloween dungeon.

That’s right, the only limits you have are the limits of your imagination!

Let’s start with that wicked look for a night out.  If you’ve picked your costume, you’ll want to accessorize to get your own unique look.  Check out these Eyelash Spike Goggles for that wicked look you want.

Eyelash Spike Goggles

Eyelash Spike Goggles

From Axovus:

“Axovus Eyelash Spike Goggles are uber cool goggles! One size fits all, fully adjustable head strap and bridge chain, these uber cool goggles feature six 1 1/4″ claw spikes.

These goggles also feature removable 50mm lenses, comes standard with smoke colored lens, red, blue and 3D lenses available.”

And if you like the spiked look, you can move it down to your wrists with the intense Bolts and Spikes Gauntlet, which is probably the most hard core product for accessories we have in stock.  Toss in a Spiked Collar and you’ll have the Axovus trinity of awesomeness for the complete, sexually charged and dominating fetish look.

But you don’t have to go out to have a good time on Halloween.  It’s true.  Some of you like to be a little too “tied up” to make the party.  We like you.  We want to help you have every possible excuse, from the tightest to most erotic, to skip out on the song and dance and go straight for the squirm!

And for those of you who like this idea, we start with a good old fashioned Halloween Hog Tie!

Perverted Halloween wishes to you and yours

Perverted Halloween wishes to you and yours

“The First and only HOG TIE that allows full access to all of your partners most intimate areas. Just Lock the wrist and ankles to the thighs and enjoy the journey…”

We like people who enjoy the hard core.  Shoot, WE like the hard core.  Find the hard core restraints to keep you tied up in our Restraints category.

Get things really hot with these

Get things really hot with these

We apologize.  Was that not hard core enough for you?  If so, you’re our kind of fetish fanatic.  So you want something a little more intense?

How about a gag?  Should we throw in some nipple clamps?  What if we combined the gag and nipple clamps?  Are you warming up to the idea?

The Fetish Fantasy O-ring with Nipple Clamps is just what you need!

“Open WIDE!

Get your lover to open wide and say AHHH with this naughty O-Ring Gag with Nipple Clamps. The gag consists of a small metal O-ring wrapped in leather, connected to two sturdy leather straps.

Two chained nipple clamps keep your nipples perky, and the coated clamps easily adjust to fit your desired tension. The leather straps adjust to fit most sizes, pulling the ring tight and keeping the mouth open wide. You’re in control over when and how often your lover speaks…what you do next is up to you!

Free mask included.”

Some of you want to mix your costume fun with some serious, real life role play.  Time for a master and slave, yeah?  Maybe your man needs a strong dominatrix.  Maybe your WOMAN needs a strong dominatrix.  Maybe you want to take your captive to the dungeon!

We have a variety of choices that let you play the way you want.  With Cock and Ball Toys and Chastity Devices, you can get him under control.  Take her to the dungeon for a spanking, or for some intense breast play.  You can collar your slave and make him wear a hood or blindfold.

You can even play doctor for Halloween

You can even play doctor for Halloween

We think you’re getting the idea.  With our selection of Fetish Sex Toys, you can get in touch with the wicked within and turn your Halloween celebration into the naughtiest fun you can imagine.  Whether you want an explosive orgasm, or you want to deny your slave his, we have everything you need.

Make sure to get your fetish gear soon, or you won’t have it for the holiday!  Happy Halloween, and be careful with his package when you play hard, you might want it around later!

More Hot Sex Toys for Women

Friday, October 16th, 2009

In my last post, I highlighted some of my favorite toys from a few of our Sex Toys For Women categories including Fun Factory’s Smart Balls. Today I thought I’d take a look at a few more because there are just way too many amazing sex toys to squeeze into one little post!

avelineI thought we’d talk about G-Spot Sex Toys first today, mostly because I freaking love them.  I can honestly recommend at least a dozen of these toys from personal experience, but today I’m going to highlight Lovemoiselle’s Aveline for a couple of reasons. First, this gorgeous dildo is crafted from non-porous and phthalate-free ceramic. How cool is that? If you like unique items, you’ll definitely love this body-safe toy. Secondly, and most importantly, this one is great for beginners because the thoughtful design guides this smooth toy to your g-spot almost effortlessly. Looks aren’t everything and this dildo is built to please!

As long as I’m talking about unique materials, I thought I’d highlight this aluminum vibrator from Doc Johnson. This waterproof vibe is perfect for the women who has everything!

You want originality and innovation. We give you ALUMINATION. A whole new concept in all sensory stimulation. Incredible toalumination look at, wonderful to hold and exciting to use. The all new Aluminum Vibrator from Doc Johnson.

Virtually silent, 3-Speed motor, waterproof and powerful. Unique packaging and a price point everybody loves, this vibrator is a sure winner. Available in three shimmering colors – Black, Gold or Pink, these vibrators are the talk of the town.

Get your six inches of the latest and the greatest from the company that brings you the future – Today.

Of course, if you’re looking for a more traditional toy, we’ve got an eclectic collection of toys in our Vibrators for Women section including silicone toys, pocket rockets and discreet vibes.

Rabbit Habbit VibratorFinally, I couldn’t talk about toys form women without discussing our Rabbit Vibes category! The only toy that rivals the popularity of the rabbit vibe is the legendary Hitachi Magic Wand! Back when I was relatively new to the world of sex toys, a friend gave me the Rabbit Habit, and let me just say that I haven’t been the same since. Believe the hype people, because this toy is built to rock your world!

Need the perfect vibe? Just like its cousin, the Rabbit Pearl, this lovely, purple elastomor dual-action vibrator has tumbling pearls and a rabbit-shaped stimulator.

The only difference? The vibrations are controlled from the base instead of a separate battery pack. Featured in O Magazine as the Rolls Royce of sex toys.

Also in Self, Glamour, Jane and many more publications. The total length is 9 inches with an insertable length of 4 inches.

If you’re looking to purchase a new item to add to your sex toy arsenal, what are you waiting for?  Head over to our Sex Toys For Women category and check out the best toys available!

Also, don’t forget to check out the first Sex Toys For Women Feature!

Hot Sex Toys For Women

Wednesday, October 14th, 2009

Let me just start by saying there are a lot of freaking sex toys available today. I’m completely overwhelmed by the choices and this is my job. I can’t imagine what it’s like for someone who decides it’s time to purchase their toy. That’s why we’ve spent a ton of time picking out the best of the best for our Sex Toys For Women category. If that work saves one woman from buying the wrong toy, it was totally worth it.mia

Today I thought I’d highlight some of my favorite items in each sub-category including the Mia rechargeable vibe from Lelo. Every lady should own a great Clitoral toy and this is my current fav.  It has four great vibration modes, which is awesome, but the coolest thing is that it charges through a computer’s USB port.  It’s really a must have for any one who travels for business!

MIA is a discreet pleasure object carefully designed to combine versatility and convenience, intended for private enjoyment at all times.

This elegant lipstick vibrator nestles seductively in your handbag, her size and chargeability making her available whenever needed, whether on a long intercontinental flight or during a break on a busy day. Glossy and attractive, MIAs intuitive interface and four stimulation modes allow total control in the midst of ecstasy.

She is rechargeable and a 2-hour charge provides up to 4 hours of bliss. Comes presented in an elegant gift box, accessorised with extension cord for USB charging, manual and a 1-year LELO warranty.

Smart Balls

Smart Balls

Maybe you’ve heard about the wonders of Kegel exercises and are in the market for a Pelvic Exerciser that will help you strengthen your PC muscle.  I remember the first time I considered purchasing one of these and how clueless I was so I’m happy to recommend Fun Factory’s Smart Balls for all of you who might be looking for a suggestion.  Besides the added health benefits of a stronger PC muscle, these are also a lot of fun!

One thing that sets the Smart Balls apart is that they are coated in hygenically superior silicone.  I also love the durable retrieval cord!

Finally, I want to talk about my new favorite dildo – The Curve from Tantus. curve I’ve been a big fan of Tantus’ silicone toys for a long time, but this recent addition has rekindled the passion in our relationship.  From it’s distinct curve to the new and improved flared base, I love every inch of this dong.

The Curve is the first of a new line of Tantus products to feature a wider base, enabling people to combine the versatility of harness play with the direct G-Spot stimulation all women crave.

Better still, the subtle angle of the Curve makes it ideal for anal or vaginal play, and the smooth silicone makes penetration a joy for men or women.

It’s a really versatile dildo that’s great for solo or partnered play.  Of course, silicone is phthalate-free, non-porous and can be sterilized.  While there are a ton of great toys in the Dildos for Women sub-category, this is the one I love the most!

Stay tuned for a follow up post in which I’ll take a look at the rest of the amazing choices in our Sex Toys for Women section.

Anal Stimulation for Orgasm

Monday, October 12th, 2009
Flexi Felix Anal Toy

Flexi Felix Anal Toy

A common question that relates to adult play asks whether or not anal stimulation can lead to orgasm.  We’ve covered all kinds of orgasms in this blog, from what seem to be random orgasms, to Extended Massive Orgasm.  And as regular readers know, different people will experience stimulation in many different ways.  Orgasms can occur because of a variety of stimulations.

But can you achieve an anal orgasm because of anal stimulation.  Our answer?  Sure, why couldn’t you have an orgasm because of anal stimulation?

As we covered in our discussion of analingus, not all anal stimulation is safe, so you have to be careful when you engage in anal play or anal sex.  But most anal stimulation is perfectly safe, provided you take the proper precautions for you and your partner.  Let’s go over a few points to keep things fun.

Anal Sex – Basic Steps for Fun and Safety

First, everyone has to relax.  Your first anal experience should be an easy, comfortable time.  Going straight from never having had anal sex to full blown penetration could turn into a painful lesson in patience.  Taking a few steps one by one is a good plan for your first time.  Relaxing could be as simple as a good massage, lots of foreplay and even a tasty adult beverage before you get started.  Once everyone is “in the groove,” you can proceed to experimenting.

Next, have a good supply of lubricant on hand.  The anus provides no natural lubrication, so you need to use as much lube as it takes to make things comfortable (that amount will vary from one person to the next).  If you are using latex gloves or condoms, make sure that you ONLY use a water-based lubricant.  If you use oil or silicone based lube on latex, you’ll be in for a melting, gooey surprise.

Why would latex gloves be involved?  Easy, you might want to get your partner used to anal stimulation gently.  Using a single finger for gentle penetration allows your partner to get used to the sensation.  Another option is to get an anal beginner’s kit that has graduated anal plugs so that you can take your time and go easy.

Juli Ashton Anal Beginner Kit

Juli Ashton Anal Beginner Kit

One other important idea: Masturbating your partner, or having your partner masturbate as you experiment with these sensations allows your partner to create an association between anal sex and orgasm.  This can lead to even more intense orgasms as the anal stimulation becomes more familiar.

Those are the standard rules for getting started.  Now we’ll break things up a little for women and men.  The approaches can be different for either sex, so we’ll separate them to make it simple.

Anal Sex Ideas for Women

Four Seasons Condoms

Four Seasons Condoms

Once you’ve taken the time to become accustomed to anal stimulation, you’ll probably want to branch into anal sex. Most people automatically assume that this means hit the hands and knees and go straight to doggie style anal sex.  Often, that’s the worst way to get started.  Women might want to start anal sex in a classic “Cowgirl” position, where the woman is on top and in control of the penetration.

Missionary is also another great option for anal sex.  It limits the depth of penetration, and it’s definitely more intimate than doggie style as you and your partner try a whole new experience.  Again, during anal sex it is perfectly fine to masturbate, and some people swear by Bullets to achieve intense, body shaking orgasms.

You may find that you don’t need a bullet or masturbation.  It is quite possible to have an orgasm with only anal stimulation alone.  There are no rules, other than to be safe and have fun.

And if things get uncomfortable, just stop and come back to it another time!

Anal Sex Ideas for Men

Your new best friend Bob

Your new best friend Bob

You’re too macho for back door play, eh?  All that tells us is that you haven’t had a prostate massage induced orgasm.  Have one of those and get back to us on the macho stuff (we suspect you’ll be asking our experts which prostate massager is right for you).  Anal stimulation is great for women, but some men just can’t get enough either.

Some gay and bisexual men enjoy anal play together, but you don’t have to be gay or bisexual to enjoy anal stimulation.  The growing number of men buying strap ons tells us that straight men have caught on to the joys of anal sex too.  Now, here’s where we find a common bickering point.  Is there a difference between an anal orgasm and a prostate orgasm?  Do you really care?  We don’t.

If something is safe and makes you come, it doesn’t really matter what caused it scientifically.  Guys, you differ from women slightly.  The prostate is just inside your anus, right above your perineum (the area between your scrotum and anus).  It pays to be careful around the prostate.  If you’re going to have your partner use fingers for warm up, watch out for fingernails!  And remember that the prostate is sensitive.

Prostate massagers can give you a knee buckling, drooling and mind numbing orgasm like you’ve never experienced.  If your partner learns how to manipulate one to please you, be careful.  She’ll have the power to make you her love slave.  The rules on prostate massage are pretty simple.  If you have prostate issues, don’t do it.  Otherwise, you’ll want gentle, steady strokes on your prostate until you come.  It takes varying times, but if you’re patient, you’ll get the big prize.

Take a break from being the big doggie and give her some fun too

Take a break from being the big doggie and give her some fun too

Same as with anal sex, you can masturbate during anal stimulation to get the best of both worlds.  In fact, you can folow the same rules as a woman.  Heck, give her a strap on, lube up, grab a masturbator and get completely freaky.  You can use your imagination to have a ball.  Plus, she might like a break from the mundane and an opportunity to play the role of Big Doggie!

Enjoy it, and if it gets uncomfortable, stop and come back to it later.

So we know anal orgasm is possible.  We know anal sex can be perfectly safe.  We know that many people enjoy it all the time.  All that’s left is for you to get busy enjoying it!

Sexual Health and Breast Cancer Awareness

Friday, October 9th, 2009

PinkRibbon

Regular readers know that we take sexual health and well being very seriously.  We like to have fun when we talk about sex and sexuality, but we also recognize that sexual health is a serious subject that makes a difference in people’s happiness and quality of life.  In that context, we want to take a moment to acknowledge Breast Cancer Awareness Month.

First, we’d like to thank the medical professionals who care for the people who have breast cancer, and the researchers who are working to eliminate it altogether.  With luck and adequate resources, we hope to see an end to the disease.

And we’d like to remind our readers that early discovery of breast cancer makes it easier to treat and eliminate.  We urge all of our readers to work to prevent your risk of having breast cancer.  You can find a few tips here.  We wish everyone good health, and urge you to support breast cancer research.