Is Tantric Sex for real? That’s an excellent question.  Here’s the short answer: Is any orgasm for real? Yes, I know, I’ve gone all Zen with that answer and you want something more direct.  Sorry to be Captain Buzzkill, but there really isn’t a more direct answer. You see, an orgasm is as individual as anything else. What may cause one for one person may not cause one for another person.

ABC News has an article discussing celebrities and their promotion of Tantric Sex.  The article discusses some of the hype caused by this promotion, but also gives a short outline of what it Tantric Sex involves:

“In traditional sex, a couple most often uses the thrusting motion to bring themselves to orgasm. In tantric sex, couples prolong intercourse, building up sexual energy for a more intensified orgasm — or multiple ones.

Many beginners often spend several weeks doing intimacy exercises — using loving words and gentle touches — without actually having intercourse.”

I have a giant “duh” for you here.  If you prolong intercourse to build up sexual energy, use gentle touches, say loving things to each other – basically, treat each other with great respect and passion – the odds are overwhelming that sometime along this path, a massive happy orgasm is going to happen.

For me, I’m a little more old school.  I’m fine with the touching and words and respect. But the thrusting is also fine for me. Others may see it differently and I say that’s great.  Let everyone do whatever suits them best. So if you want to get a glimpse of Tantric Sex, we have selections in our sex toys for couples instructional section.

You may just find it works for you.

Looking for a new butt plug?  Who isn’t!  Today’s featured product, the Severin Butt Plug, is from one of our favorite companies, Tantus, so you know it’s made out of super awesome and body-friendly silicone.  That’s right, this one is phthalates-free and can be sterilized!

The Severin has a narrow tip and two different staging areas to ease onto. It features a long neck and a butterfly base to wear comfortably between the cheeks. Serious players are now given material that is safe to use and easy to clean.

There is nothing better for butt play than silicone and no one who understands the dynamics of anal exploration and your needs quite as well as Tantus Silicone.

It’s 4.5 inches long and has a diameter of 1.5 inches – just so you know what you’re getting into before purchasing.

Check out the rest of our Butt Plugs to find just the right fit for you!

Some couples have discovered that it is possible to bring the buzz to the bedroom in a way that pleases both partners simultaneously.  That way is through using a vibrating cockring.  Used properly, this Silicone Lover’s Enhancer can pack a huge orgasmic wallop. From California Exotic:

“Your play time together will be even more intense with this vibe.

Enhance your intimate encounters with this double-band vibrating penis ring. Made of super smooth, phthalate free TPR silicone, this ring is soft and comfortable on the skin and stretches to accommodate most sizes.

This erection enhancer also has a removable micro-stimulator for use with or without the ring. Waterproof construction ensures that this ring is an excellent candidate for bath or shower fun as well.”

Both partners gain from using this fun little toy!  You can find a complete selection of vibrating cockrings in our sex toys for couples section.

It’s time for our next installment of So You Want to Be A Sex Machine! Last time I offered up a great toy for those of you who are all about putting technology to work in the bedroom to ensure orgasms for everyone – the Grrl Toyz Dual Silicone Finger Massager. Today, I want to move on to the tongue, because nothing beats an amazing oral session.

The CyberSkin Tongue Tingler is a must have for all aspiring cunnilingus cyborgs and felatio fembots. This oral sex enhancer is phthalate-free and suitable for both men and women. Just slip it on and go down until your partner is writhing in ecstasy! It even includes a second set of batteries, because apparently Topco wants to make sure you’re all set for hours of fun.

Who needs weird science when you can become the sex machine you’ve always dreamed of! (more…)

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Use the three words “Extended Massive Orgasm” anywhere near our building, and you’ll have an experts team with sonar, doppler radar, x-rays and listening devices homing in on your position.  As anyone who has read our blog for any period of time knows, we concentrate on trying to provide you the information you need to achieve the best orgasms.  So when we hear about massive ones, we want in on the data.

This information comes from, of all places, Fox News’ Sex Expert.  What is it lately with the water in New York? First the Wall Street Journal and now Fox News are writing sex articles and research?  Something must be going on up there.  Anyway, the Fox Sexpert, Yvonne K. Fulbright, has an article out about Extended Massive Orgasm.

Much of it is common sense that we have reported before.  For instance, communication, self knowledge, touching in the right way, relaxation and taking your time are all important to achieving the best orgasm.  And she points out what our expert Sarah always talks about, keep loads of lube on hand for the long haul.  But she added a point which we found fascinating.

We know that pelvic excersises are important to sexual health. But we hadn’t completely tied the exercises in to orgasm.  Here’s Ms. Fulbright’s take:

“Develop your pelvic floor muscles. Exercising your pubbococcygeus (PC) muscle will put you more in tune with your sexual response. It’s also what makes for more powerful orgasms. Your PCs can be engaged as you’re being stimulated.”

So there you have it.  We did some more checking and research supports her claim.  So get your pelvic exerciser at the ready and prepare for Extended Massive Orgasm!