Most modern consumers, me included, want to do as much as we can to protect the environment.  It makes sense to do what we can to keep pollution under control and do our part to contribute to a sustainable way of life.  But few of us consider the effects of our sex lives and toy usage when it comes to the environment and its protection.

Gold Cock Rings

Like any other products, sex toys have an effect on the environment and selecting the right ones will help to keep your sexual footprint on the planet at a minimal level.  We’ll have a look at a few simple ideas that can make your sex toy purchase environmentally friendly.  Here’s our short list:

First, buy toys made from durable materials that extend the life of the toy.  Glass dildos, metal cock rings, silicone vibes and nylon sexual play enhancements last far longer than other toys.  Using durable toys saves you money – since you don’t have to replace your toys nearly as often – and keeps landfills from having unnecessary garbage from being added to them.

Next, buy chemically neutral toys.  Toys that do not contain Phthalates or other potentially harmful materials are a safer choice when it comes to the environment.  You can find more details on materials on our Google Knowledge page about toy materials.

Finally, it’s good for all of us to do our research before a purchase.  Buying a sex toy that we won’t like ultimately shortens the effective usage of that toy.  We don’t want to buy something that will “hit the bin” within a week.  A little research in advance will stop this problem from happening.

Taking the time to do the most basic homework can help to protect the planet when buying a sex toy.  We hope you’ll take a few moments to think this over.  Keep your footprint small and your fun at a maximum.  It’s the best way to have a good time.

If you’re looking for more details about what we discuss here, you can find more information in Google Knowledge.  Right now, Sextoys.com is providing a detailed series on choosing a Sex Toy that is right for you.  You can use the links below to find articles:

Sexual Health and Well Being Enhancements: Toy Selection Part 1, Knowing Your Body

Sexual Health and Well Being Enhancements: Toy Selection Part 2, Designs

Sexual Health and Well Being Enhancements: Toy Selection Part 3, Materials

We’ll be adding more to this each week.  Stay informed so that your next sex toy purchase is always better!

Number one on my Wish List is the We Vibe.  It has had rave reviews so I had to research it for myself.  Its C shape allows it to fit inside of you while wrapping around and fitting snugly against your clit.  Both ends vibrate with two speeds to choose from!  I don’t know about you, but anything that satisfies both my G spot and my little man in the boat makes me very happy.  Not to mention, it is hands free!

I have never been a fan of big bulky toys that require three hands to operate, or have an ugly wire attached to a remote control.  The only clicker I want in my hand during my special alone time is the one that controls the DVD player.  No bulk here ladies and gents, it is slim and sleek.  Given its slender aerodynamic design it can also be used during intercourse.
 

We Vibe

So not only can I play with the We Vibe while showing myself some love, I can use it with my boyfriend.  Are you hearing me?  Well, I suppose you are reading me.  What I am getting at is, I get internal and external vibration while having earth shattering, mind blowing sex!
 
Of course you can use many toys during intercourse, but this one does not require manual operation or a strap or harness.  This genius little creation will also allow me to orally please my boy toy or girl play mate while pleasing myself.  I can fully commit to making someone else’s day with the help of my hands, and still stimulate my own girly parts.  Everyone wins!  Another great feature is that it is water proof.

When the roommates are home, wandering around the house, I can hop in the bath tub and use this little gem.  Or, I could just use it when I am in a hurry during my morning shower.  I like giving myself the time and attention required to stay sexually satisfied; however there are times when multitasking is necessary.
 
So, the We Vibe is great for play time, but what about clean up and storage?  Given that it is waterproof and made of silicone it is super easy to clean.  Also, the thoughtful creators of this C shaped wonder give you a storage case.  Who doesn’t love accessories?  So after I have used this fun little toy in the shower and with my partner, will it be revved up and ready to go next time?  It is totally rechargeable and comes with the charger.

There will not be any last minute disappointments when the mood strikes.  I don’t always believe everything I read, but there are so many great reviews and the features speak for themselves.  I am going to believe the hype on this one.  Hopefully, I won’t have to wish for the We Vibe for long.  It sure would be a great gift from my Valentine!

Get Your Own We Vibe!

Guys who enjoy a good prostate massage will love the Aneros MGX.  The extra stimulation can provide the basis for a powerful orgasm.  Also, the Aneros MGX can provide a great Perineum massage.

Aneros MGX

From Aneros:

“Newly redesigned, the MGX is a medically researched and designed device that works in harmony with your body’s own movements. It stimulates both the prostate and the perineum in a rhythmic motion that builds up to unprecedented male orgasms. The MGX is easy to use and fulfilling for both the beginner and the expert, with progressively rewarding exercises and experiences.

The MGX is well balanced with a ribbed stem for anal canal stimulation and stability. The perineum tab provides an external prostate massage through the perineum.”

Once you’ve found your own G-spot, guys, you’ll love play time even more!

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The economy may suck right now, but that doesn’t mean that you have to sacrifice quality when it comes to sex toys!  Tantus, an amazing company that crafts all of their dildos our of 100% platinum silicone, makes great products that are quite a bargain when compared to other high quality dongs.

This O-Ring compatible dildo is great for use with a harness and it’s slight curve and pronounced head are designed for g-spot stimulation.

Silicone is a great material because it is non-porous, phthalates-free and hypo-allergenic.  It’s easy to take care of and can be completely sterilized by boiling it for three minutes or by running it through the dishwasher on the top rack without soap.

The Acute is a great buy and one of our current featured products!

One of the ideas I have a hard time understanding, is the idea that sex toys are strictly novelties used by small numbers of people in society.  This couldn’t be further from the truth, yet many people cling to it.  The fact is, sex toy use is more mainstream than ever, and the market is growing.  As far back as ten years ago, The Xandria Collection sponsored a survey to see who used their toys.  One conclusion was astonishing, at first glance:

“The most common vibrator user was a white Christian married woman, in her thirties, who votes Republican.” - Source: Toys in the Sheets Survey

Makes sense that the exact opposite of who we might expect to be using vibrators are some of the biggest customers.  I had a good chuckle at that sentence, but I thought it might be an exaggeration of the statistics, right up until today.  I thought most users were average people like me with no big hang ups about having fun and more or less middle of the road in our tastes.  That was before I read about Patty Brisben.

Directly from the full article at the Globe and Mail:

“Patty Brisben is a churchgoing mother of four who has made millions selling sex toys at private in-home gatherings not unlike Tupperware parties. On Super Bowl Sunday, Ms. Brisben will star in Mother Knows Sex, a TLC reality show about Pure Romance, her Cincinnati-based family business that now employs 30,000 consultants across the United States. Ms. Brisben spoke to The Globe and Mail about the school-bus bullies who teased her son about his “dildo lady” mom, her husband’s role and what’s selling.”

And

“TLC mentions you’re a devoted churchgoer. Did you get flak from your fellow parishioners?

People know who I am and know what I do, and no, I don’t get flak. People are very supportive.

How do you reconcile religion with what you’re selling?

The way I look at it is I’m promoting healthier relationships. If you or anybody thinks that by any [stretch] of the imagination, one piece of paper is going to bond you for life, you’re crazy. That’s not going to happen. Even if you stayed together, you want to keep stagnation out of your relationship. Think about it this way: You maintenance your house. Your car’s not going to run unless you rotate the tires. You need to maintain your relationship. I’m not saying because you don’t own a bedroom toy or a particular lubricant that you’re any less of a person. I’m just saying incorporating some of this into your lifestyle is fun. It’s healthy and good to do.”

So that scores one for Xandria’s research.  And the numbers of people using all kinds of sex toys are growing.  So it’s safe to say that we’ll probably see different demographics over time.  I’m always happily surprised to see more open minded people who enjoy their fun and don’t mind talking about sexual health and well being.

Since being featured on the Oprah Winfrey show, the Aphrodite has been a vibe with serious buzz.  From California Exotics:

“Infrared Rechargeable Massager with 3 Interchangeable Silicone Sleeves. Multi-purpose design for muscle relaxation and erogenous stimulation. The massaging head has a flexo-joint so it moves with you. 3 attachments made of high quality Silicone to personalize your pleasure.

2 speed vibrations with low infrared heat provides soothing sensations. AC 110 volt wall recharger and rechargeable batteries included. Part of the Berman Center Intimate Accessories line. Products designed for women, by women to give you and your partner exactly what you need to optimize your sex life.”

True Love Romantic G by EvoLveD

Some users find that stimulation of the “G-spot,” named for Ernst Gräfenberg, the gynecologist who first speculated that it existed, is the most exciting form of stimulation a person can receive.  We believe that each individual has areas of excitement that are greater than others, but if a user has found the “G-spot,” then these vibes are the pinnacle of pleasure and arousal.  The G-spot vibes are all designed to stimulate an area on the vaginal wall with vibration.

The number of shapes designed to perform that function rises with new styles each year.  Some G-spot vibrators have egg shaped tips.  Some have flat tips designed to contact a wider area of nerve endings.  Some have a simple curve designed to reach the sensitive area.  In fact, many other styles of vibrators, like Rabbit Vibrators, have G-spot designs built in to them.

As for materials, users will find a variety of materials from which to choose.  Some G-spot vibrators are crafted from hard plastic, while others are built to be soft and flexible with materials ranging from silicone to jelly.  Some G-spot vibrators are built with soft attachments to stimulate the clitoris as well.  And the variety in materials makes them available for a wide range of prices, ensuring that users will find one that matches the budget.

Dinky Digger II Vibrator by Fun Factory

Control types for these vibrators will depend on the number of functions provided, size and general dimensions.  Some have wired, or wireless, remote controllers for control functions.  Others have built in control pads or buttons.  Several have the dial base control.  The types of functions that a model provides will influence what type of control will be used.

Larger G-spot vibrators will generally use larger batteries, as will generally be the case with models that provide multiple stimulation points.  Smaller and simpler models will use smaller batteries.  Remember to check the Attachments and Accessories section to find the batteries needed for playtime!

G-spot vibrators, because of their function, are designed for insertion.  With that in mind, users should double-check any Lube specifications as well.  Having the right lubrication will ensure an enjoyable experience with a new G-spot vibrator.

G-spot vibrators are among the most popular style for a reason: users love them.  Finding the right model is really a matter of finding the right spot and matching the vibrator to it.  Some say the journey is as fun as arriving at the destination, where the G-spot is concerned.  They’re probably right.  But we’ve been assured that the destination is wonderful too, and we don’t argue with happy people!

Rocket Booster

Power can come from the most surprising places, and Jenna’s Rocket Booster & Controller is a great surprise for Valentine’s Day.  From Doc Johnson:

“Requested by Jenna Jameson herself, her favorite Pocket Rocket can be hooked up to the new 5-Function, 10 Speed Controller!

To Keep the Rocket more discreet and mobile, simply unplug the cord from the controller and place the battery back in the Pocket Rocket. You’re now ready to go and go and go…

To use the multiple functions, simply take out the battery, attach the cable to both the controller and the Pocket Rocket and let it boost you into ecstasy!

4 inches in length, 1 inch in diameter.

This toy requires 1 AA battery for the Booster Vibe and 2 AA batteries for the controller, not included.”

Check it out and you’ll agree that this little vibrator is as powerful as you’ll need it to be.

We’re pretty serious about sex toys here, but I’m a firm believer that sex is something you should laugh about. If you’re not laughing once in a while, you’re probably not doing it right! Chelsea Handler, comedian, tv lady, and New York Times best selling author, isn’t one to shy away from taboo topics and this quick clip makes me thankful of that.

And I don’t even want to think about what my parents will think if they ever have to clean out my house…